Always remember that in a relationship you don't always have to do what the other one asks, especially when it's something you're not comfortable with, like phone sex. I don't know how much sex is involved in your relationship but once you get started on phone sex he might expect you to always talk sexy whenever you're on phone. So only do this if you're sure you'll feel comfortable talking with him this way, ok? So if you guys are into sexual things then phone sex is just talking about the things you've already done or things you talked about doing but haven't yet. Don't think you have to make up anything from what you're heard or read because it won't turn him on near as much. Like how he did certain things to you or you to him or what you want to o next time even if you exaggerate just to make it sound more sexy. You already know what he likes to do sexual when you're together and what you've already done that he seemed to enjoy so much so just start out asking him if he remembers when you did... this or that... and then let him take his turn telling you what he did to you... back and forth keep talking in detail what you guys did. That's what phone sex is all about. It's definitely not hard to do nor do you have to remember or memorize stuff to say. You don't need to be embarrassed unless you've been embarrassed when you've done the real thing. If you've not done anything yet then he probably wants you to talk about the things he's asked you do or the things you've both already talked about doing soon. Use your gut feelings about even doing it. If you kinda feel like you shouldn't, then don't! If you don't, nothing will come of it. But if you do and it goes wrong, then it'll always be something that's remembered. Good luck!
Oh for god's sake, could you be any more politically correct? "You don't have to do anything you are uncomfortable with..." Wake up call: Girls like sex, too. And a healthy relationship involves caring about making the other person happy.
True, but sex has it's limits in just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, and too much emphasis on sex is what screws them up. At your age you should know that.
I've never liked phone sex- but your man seems to be interested.
I would instead like "sexting" but between you and your man- keep in mind that anything you send him could be forwarded to his friends or anyone else. I like to be "non-revealing" but use objects that are funny / flirty to cover things up.
For instance, you would be nude, but have a sticker that says "go army" over your chest (covering things up) and then send him the pic. In turn, he would send you another picture.. its a game I like to play...
Its much better than trying to have a conversation about something like phone sex... pfft - I don't know I just don't like the idea of a "novel" on what I like to do to the person... I would much rather play games and keep them interested while participating.
Just act like you're in a porn movie. Say ridiculous things like "oh, I wish you were here right now so you could f*** me with your big cock" and sh*t like that. Guys eat it up.
Yeah, they eat that sh*t up more than they eat girls out.
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There really aren't any rules. It's just whatever two people like. Go ahead and do it, why not? Experiment.
Well first of all you have to create a baseline for what you want to build up to and it has to come with some creative imagination. I suggest reading some erotic stories to help with your creative thinking. Create an atmosphere along with lots of details. For example, start out with what you are wearing and where you are placing your hands. Let your boyfriend know that you are actually undressing yourself and are seriously touching yourself. I find it more pleasurable when the person on the other side of the line tells me where to touch myself and how. So if it turns you on imagine where you would like to be touching your boyfriend and then have him touch himself there for you.
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