My boyfriend is still a virgin but I am not. How will he feel and act towards me after he loses his virginity?

[Browneyedbabe]

My boyfriend and I have dated once before and have decided to get back together and give it another shot and so far it's going great. The first time my boyfriend and I broke up was my fault. We were both 18 and he told me that he loved me, that he had for a year prior to me first finding out that he even had any feelings for me. We tried dating for awhile but I broke up with him because I just felt like I wasn't ready for a serious relationship. He was extremely hurt but he said that he will always love me and he will wait for me but I didn't really believe that he would. Well that was a little more than 3 years ago and he did wait for me. Now we are dating again and he has since told me that he is still a virgin and has always wanted to lose it to me. I am very flattered and really respect the fact that he saved his virginity for someone whom he felt was very special in his life. I now know that he is a virgin and he has always known that I am not but he always seemed okay with the fact that I am not. He treats me really good and he loves me a lot and vis versa. He is not the kind of guy that takes sex lightly. My question to you is how is he gonna feel and act towards me after he loses his virginity to me?What should I expect with him during our first time together? (he has never done anything more than kiss). How can I make it special for him? Your answers would be very much appreciated. Thank you

[ilovelegs]

Since he knows that you're not a virgin and still he has waited for you... you should be pretty flattered, and it sounds like you are. So don't try to "second guess" him. Be happy and appreciate the fact that he likes you that much virgin or not, so don't bring virginity or experience in the picture. However, do be aware that when you do have sex with him your first time that you'll have a chance to use some of that experience to make sure his first time is special for him... and in a way it'll be special for you too taking his virginity that was saved just for you. Just expect the best of him and for him to try to show his love for you and what that meant to him. You don't need to prove nor expect him to act any less or more towards you just because he lost his virginity to you. I suspect he'll feel very indebted to you and feel so happy that he finally has you. I expect him to love you more, not less after he loses it. That will make him feel that much closer to you. By the way, you have nothing to feel less about just because you're not a virgin and he is. He should be happy that he has a girl that can help him become more a man. Good luck!

[Browneyedbabe]

Thank you

[fastandfurious]

Just be yourself and try to make as good for him as you can. Since he knows you're not a virgin he'll expect you to take the lead so make sure to do that for him so that he's not embarrassed. Just make sure you don't talk or say anything about the other guys you've had sex with. I think he'll be very happy that he was able to give you his virginity and you should be happy to have the chance to take it. He'll never forget it, and even though he's not your first, you can act as if it is. But don't try to act like you don't know much. Just tell him he should be glad you're not bleeding and have that tightness that goes with being a virgin, so now he's able to enjoy having sex with you much better. You're lucky to be getting the chance to take his virginity so make sure you really take it! Break him in good. Hope this helps.

[happa808]

Maybe leave out the last part about how great it is not to do it with a virgin, it reminds him that some other guy went through that process with you already. Don't act ignorant to sex, but don't be a pro, that might imply you're a little too experienced, but maybe not. The talk about past partners will come up eventually, I was in the same situation as him. Oh, and the guy might like taking the lead, even if he's the virgin ask him what he'd prefer. Other than that, yes he'll remember it fondly

[Browneyedbabe]

Thank you