First time having sex; many questions?

[Anonymous]

Hello. My boyfriend and I (17 both) are going to have sex soon so I have a couple questions that I would be really thankful of some body with experience could answer for me in detail:) (some of my questions are sort of weird so don't read if you don't want to get weirded out easily) 1. Will he fit inside me the first time? I'm starting to think I am like abnormally tight because I have fingered myself like 10 times to make my first time easy but I literally can only fit one finger... 1! Not even 2!? I haven't even attempted 2 so I can't imagine how my boyfriends dick will fit if its like longer than my hand. Guessing we'll have to ease into it but I really want him to go in fully the first time we have sex so how can we so it without r being painful for me?? 2. (Girls would answer this lol) how does it feel like? I know it's supposed to feel good but, the 10 times I've fingered myself (even tho it was only one finger lol) I honestly did not enjoy. Not sure if its because 1 finger isn't enough or of there is something wrong with me. So how does it feel like exactly? When I rub it feels really good so I can't imagine it feeling better than that is it??

[PiuBelloAmante]

well, you should be in the most relaxed environment possible
you should also trust your partner
I would suggest he massages you, literally to loosen your whole body up, sex is not only Penis and vagina

once you are as relaxed as possible and super comfortable with him, let him finger you, and i dont mean inserting fingers in there i mean rubbing etc
let him go down on you and get you ready
Now he should put his finger in there very slowly, then after a while 2 fingers, then 3 then his package

I suggest you do it in missionary facing each other, your legs up and apart while he is basically laying on top of you, make eye contact and all that good stuff, he needs to go slow, it doesn't matter if he just parks himself in you, this will allow your vagina to expand more easily and get used to it...

just take it slow, patience and communication are key here!
Sex is a beautiful, emotional, spiritual thing shared between two individuals and your first time will have a dramatic impact on the rest of your life so, i suggest you make it special
Good luck! i hope its amazing =)

[Asker]

Perfect advice omg. Thanks a lot dude!

[PiuBelloAmante]

No problem, remember patience and communication =)

[gssbos]

1 ya he will fit eaisly even if he has upto 7 or 8 inches but normally at this age most of men are 6.5
2. u will surely enjoy it

[Jellybeansr]

Lol you are not abnormally tight trust me it just seems that way.
1. He won't fit at first. You will think it's going in the wrong hole. Just pace yourself.

My advice is to use the cowgirl position first. That way you're in control of how deep it goes.
& I'm not tellin how it feels. That's for you to find out. C:

[shadowlegend]

You won't know if he fits until you do it. Sometimes it hurts, sometimes it doesn't, you also may bleed. But as for emotional things and possible outcomes, please read this before doing it @ getresurgatized.wordpress.com/.../

[XxFlyboy69xX]

1. Ya he'll spit just tell him to spit on it if ur not wet enough already.
2. U gotta hit that g-spot. It'll probably feel better if he does it if he knows what he's doing.