My boyfriend is a virgin and I'm not. Any tips?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 20 years old and a virgin. He told me that he wants me to be his first. I want it to be really special for him because my first time was great, but it wasn't really how I pictured it. (I guess it never is) I also don't really know how to deal with this kind of thing because every guy I've been with were not virgins. So what are some things to expect? And what can I do to make it really special for him?

[ArtistBboy]

1) He probably won't know how to "work it" - don't hold it against him

2) He will probably be shy and suppress his "sounds" of releasing and fantasies

3) He will be really worried about how well he performs because you are his first.

Making it special:

1- Smile a lot and work it ... SLOW

2- Let him control the movement for some of the time

3- Don't mention anything about slipping out/etc these can negatively effect his self-esteem

4- Don't complain about anything (just like number 3 lol)

Lastly - Expect him to be attached to you in a close way, he will remember this for a long time =)

[NMMan]

Just be patient with him and understand that he won't be a Don Juan on the first shot - encourage the things he did well and make some suggestions for how you would like him to do it in the future. Practice does make perfect, after all - and communication is essential.

[johnny_hustle]

Yes, do tell him what he isn't doing write, but don't criticize him, this man said it. just make suggestions on what he can do to make you feel better. I love it when a girl tells me what she likes, and what I can do to make her feel better.

[TheFatTwig]

You shouldn't expect him to last very long if it's his first time. You're going to have to be patient with him because he won't really know what he's doing. He'll want to make you feel good but probably won't last long enough to do so, and he might feel self-conscious about it. So just give him credit for anything he does right, but don't try and fake like you had a really really good time if you didn't, because you want to encourage him to try new things that will get you going better.

Time will make him better. Practice makes perfect, you know. :P

[heyitsdan]

expect him to f*** up.., don't be a bitch about it, show him the ropes and after awhile he will get it down.

[LittlePrincess94]

Find him a virgin, and then he can have you.

[moviedude714]

get him a virgin girl, and then you have have sex with him.