How to make boyfriend come from oral sex?

[Childgoddess]

Hello There I'm wanting to make my boyfriend come by getting him off with a blow job. I've only managed to make him come once from deep throating him. I don't wanna be doing this all the time to get him off. It hurts my jaw and irritates the back of my throat when I try to force it down. I've read more or less there are other ways you can get your boyfriend off without deep throating a man. I find that I have never been able to make him come from oral sex and I really wanna. I feel soo bad that I can't get him off at all with oral sex. I feel bad as a lover to make him happy. He says it feels real good when I do go down on him and there has been times more or less he's ALMOST came, but never did. I'm wondering if any of people on here could give me some suggestions/ tips on how I can make my boyfriend come in my head from giving him head.

[lacrimati]

It's all about variety! Here's what I recommend : once you have him in your mouth, and you've been at it for a minute or two, tap your tongue around the penis and run it up and down, and try various motions like writing letters with it or something - all while still having the whole penis in your mouth. Also, if he's more of the dominant type, don't put your hands on thighs or anywhere - might not apply to all guys, but from experience.. :P

When you're tired, get your hands wet anyhow, and do a little handjob break. Then get back on it. Once in a whileyou can pull back and just make little sucks on the penis, as if you were giving a LIGHT hickey. There are many ways to get creative so get on it girl!

(PS, I saw this recommended somewhere, rubbing pearls or silk material under the shaft as you do it - never tried it, but sounds like it would def. help)

Hm, it sounds weird that he only almost comes though.. Surprise him now! :D

[wanacot]

First off, this isn't only your problem so don't blame yourself or feel like you've failed in anyway.

That being said, you need to find out what works for your boyfriend as all guys are different. The best person to tell you this is... your boyfriend! Get him to communicate with you and give you instructions. If he likes something, tell him to let you know. Likewise with things he doesn't like. Chances are pretty good he's gotten himself off through masturbation, so he should have a pretty good idea of what works for him.

What you can try in the technique department is using your hand to stroke the base of his penis while you suck on the head. Again, depending on his preference you may want to go slower/gentler/faster/harder based on what he likes.

[dan_i_am]

Hey C.G. -

First off this is not YOUR problem! A guy can't "make" a girl cum; nor can a girl "MAKE" a guy cum.

That said, here are some tips:

Kissing him on the mouth, start stroking, "down there." The sensations on two erogenous zones is way better.

Ask him "to help" you; and then ask him when he is getting close.

When he is close, use you mouth on his **** along with your fingers to finish the job. (So to speak.)

BIGGEST TIP: WHEN YOU GO DOWN ON HIM, MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT. I can't tell you why, but it drives most guys absolutely wild!

Hope that helps! DAn

[Leapfrog00]

Try grapefruiting. Take a grapefruit, cut a hole in both ends and put his penis through it and suck him off through the grapefruit. A girl did that to me once. Wow!!! Is all I can say. It didn't take long for me to cum!

[jacquesvol]

It's not weird or abnormal: I read that about 75% of men don't come through oral sex.

You could try taking some strong peppermint (or tooth pasta) in your mouth while doing it: it might make him 'glow' a bit and it isn't dangerous. Or start with oral and finish by hand.

[Anonymous]

Don't feel bad. I've had professionals have a hard time getting me to come via fellatio. Concentrate your efforts on the area around the ridge of the glans.

[Childgoddess]

Please don't talk like that. I have a bf

[jacquesvol]

He mentions a fact, not a judgment or a comparison.