Insecure about my vagina?

My vagina I think is so weird. I'm so embarrassed of it and don't want anyone to see it. I'm 15 and think it is so weird.. I have extra skin next to my clitoris that goes down and makes one of my inner lips bigger. What do you guys think? Is this normal? I've never seen anyones vagina besides in p*rn .
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Google "vulva gallery" and -t-a-k-e- a -l-o-o-k- -a-t- -o-t-h-e-r- -w-o-m-e-n- (I'm going to pretend you're not 15, and I'm not going to actually suggest that, given I have no idea what jurisdiction you're in, and there are some dumbass rules out there). So read up - "labiallibrary. org. au" has some reasonable words, and it'll show up quickly in that search.

    If you're willing to take it on faith: yeah, you're fine. Vulvas look different (so do penises, for that matter). Unless you've got giant tumors growing on you (and you don't sound like you do), you're "normal." Which is a funny word :p

    Personal experience: almost everyone I've dated has had one lip longer than the other - some much more so. As to what I was thinking? "Yay, pussy!" Or maybe "yay, my gf is naked in bed with me, sex, yay!" With one girlfriend the 1st time it was "she has really really long labial lips. That's SO COOL!" And more recently "she has almost no lips at all. That's SO COOL!"

    It's what you look like; it's okay :)

  • You're paranoid! Stop worrying. You're normal and everything will be just fine.

    None of us are perfectly symmetrical, and if you've seen female genitalia in magazines, videos, etc, then please understand there are lots of cosmetic surgeons making a fortune fixing an average looking labia. There's also photoshop and video editing, so don't compare yourself to that.

    Don't be embarrassed and later on, if you actually think there's an abnormality, then don't be afraid to discuss it with your doctor.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Most of the vaginas in p*rn have had surgery. Labiaplasities. Look it up.
    I'm sure your vagina is fine, and it's totally normal for one inner labia to be longer than the other.

  • It's completely normal. A lot of the women in p*rn get cosmetic surgery on their genitalia.

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  • Don't worry about it. Really. Anybody you decide to let down there will accept how you are and not mind at all. Plus, girls are all different down there. So much in fact, that yours is nothing to worry about

  • Dr. Mark Scheinberg is a world class cosmetic gynecologist. Check out his website. You will see various vaginas that he has worked on. More importantly you will get an idea of what most vaginas look like. People tend to get very critical of themselves when they are 15. Remember that nobody posses completely symmetric body parts. I would guess that you are awesome and just fine.

  • Sounds good to me. p*rn pussy has usually been surgically altered to appear perfect. Remember p*rn is like wrestling its fun to watch but it's fake. Its not real it's just entertainment. I personally like a pussy with big labes and a big clit but it's not a requirement. Everybody's different and real guys don't care.

  • p*rn stars will probably have idealized vaginas, but some of them have different ones from each other. I'd search harder. There's many kinds of vaginas out there.

  • If you could see other people's private parts, you would probably not be insecure, There are a lot of different types, It's almost certainly normal :)

  • everyone is unique, dont worry so much, your too young to be worrying about it anyway. when you see a gyno , tell him or her if you still have concerns

  • I am sorry to hear that

  • No male will turn down sex plus most boys don't see enough of them to know what's normal and not

  • Vaginas come in all different shapes and sized. Having bigger inner lips is normal. I have seen many in my years.

    You have nothing to worry about.

    I like a woman with big vagina lips, they are fun to suck on and feel good rubbing against me as I am in you.

  • Definitely not a big deal, focus on school and being happy in life, a deeper understanding of who you are etc.
    If you really want to focus on your vagina just keep it healthy and ypu'll be fine :)

  • Send me a picture and I will tell you what's wrong. My mom is a gynecologist. Trust me this will stay between me and you.

  • 15 I thought it was 18-24