Guys, I'm 27 and for the past 3 weeks I've been really horny. What's going on?

[Anonymous]

Wanting sex everyday... constantly thinking about it... watching p*rn ... touching myself. This is unusual for me! Before, I could go without wanting sex for weeks at a time. My husband is 31 and doesn't want it as often. We had great sex 3 days ago and I've been wanting more ever since. There hasn't been any lifestyle changes so I'm not sure why I'm feeling this way. I do have a few questions for you guys: -What are your thoughts on girls having dildos while in a relationship? -If he's not interested in sex, is there something I can do to get him to want it more? -Is it normal for a 31 year old guy to have a low sex drive? I always thought guys (usually) wanted sex more than girls. Any thoughts/advice is appreciated

[Loverboy13]

First of all, there's nothing wrong with you. You're a young vibrant sexual person. If he hasn't been interested in sex lately maybe he has a lot on his mind. Pre-occupation can diminish a guys sex drive for a short period. Have you considered whether your being so horny could just be due to hormones and your cycle? So you're saying you told your husband you wanted to have sex and he said no? Try making a nice romantic dinner, something lite like fish. Light some candles put on some music and wear something that makes you feel beautiful. Then seduce him. It won't be that hard to get him to make love to you.
I think a woman having sex toys. (dildos, vibrators, anal beads) is great. Some men really love to watch their wife or g/f masturbate in front of them before you have sex. Also, if you have a naturally higher sex drive then he does then you should masturbate more often. But make sure that you talk to him if you feel your needs aren't being met sexually. Either in quantity or quality of the sex.

[allnite69withme]

You are approaching the age when your libido will be off the charts for years. It is ESSENTIAL that your husband know how you feel and you both work together to take care of your needs. Tell him that you are feeling like he did when he was 18. It is really crazy that men hit their peak at 18, and women in their 30s. IF you do not work this out, your marriage is headed for trouble. Until you get your husband on board, I might suggest trying to avoid too much TV or video with a lot of sex in it, it will only make you crazier. If you really want your marriage to succeed, be VERY careful. Do not start flirting in person or online, because, with your drive right now, you will certainly act on it, and, BELIEVE ME, there are plenty of men who would be willing to meet your needs (but mainly their own). If you feel you would like, please feel free to email me, I am only here to help, not hit on women.

[knotuptoit]

tick tock tick tock it is the sound of your biological clock! and most women begin to reach their sexual peak at 30 to 35 whereas men 16 to 20. now he wants to lay up in the easy chair and you want to cowgirl him for hours but he just ain't got it any more.
HINT: good vibrator, sybian, or other helpful means of stimulation. women have such an array of different stimulation methods from auto-erotica to zoophilia at their fingertips. find something you like and have fun!

[bleepblop]

1. There should be no issues with dildos or vibrators in a relationship maybe your SO could use them with you, on you :}
2. Just tell him to get in the bedroom NOW!!! lingerie never hurts either.
3. I've read other advice here about well maybe he's under pressure and has a lot on his mind but to be honest with you man refusing sex from SO is a red flag. If he had low sex drive when you met him well then maybe he just has low sex drive, unusual for men. Maybe he has low testosterone or some fitness issues.

If demanding sex and wearing lingerie doesn't work just go out to the back yard and get a shovel and knock him over the head with it and put him out of his misery. I wouldn't want to live like that.

[EarthToKepler]

I honestly wouldn't mind my woman having sex toys.. I'd even use them on her before and during sex if she wanted... And if we weren't seeing eachother then brilliant I'm happy she has ways of satisfying herself without me;)

Things you can do to make him want sex more: Be more sexual, dress up for him, or just be naked;), asking him about his sexual fantisies and yours, tell him he can do anything to you (apart from the stuff you don't like), masturbate infront of him, say you're horny or wet when you want sex😊

And the older men get the lower their testosterone is (testosterone is a sex horemone) but that's not the main reason as to a low ir high sex drive.

As to why you're getting hornier there are a lot of factors like... Are you suddenly happier with your body image? there's less stress in your life right now? Or your dopamine levels has increased during orgasms (have your orgasms got more intense?)

Anyway! Goodluck and go fuck yourself (haha masturbation/dildo joke)😜

[MoshingExec]

Who says he has a low sex drive?

Women reach their sexual peak around your age through about mid 30s. His was when he was 18ish. It's all downhill for him and maybe still up for you.

There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself so I don't know why you would even ask about a dildo.

[Octavion]

Guys want sex more than girls when they're younger. Girls want it more when you're in your 30s and middle aged.

[wankiam]

im 48 and been horny and constantly masturbating for 36 years lol. i think its deffinately ok to have a dildo. i think you and your man are just out of phase with your hornyness at the moment. i would suggest you leave it a little longer before you start worrying and in the meantime enjoy your p*rn

[mrluscious]

First, come over now! :) (if you weren't married)

-Dildos are great in a relationship. I love a woman who knows hew body.
-Tell me how you try and get him interested. (You can message me if you want)
-My sex drive has ALWAYS been high. I have no idea on this.

[Ryosanada]

Low testosterone sounds like his problem. Dildos are just fine, and try to find some p*rn you'll both like. You can also sew if he wants a threesome if you really want to get him excited. No not all guys want that.

[damionrain100]

Some men naturally have low sex drives. There is nothing wrong with this. Would you be alright with him watching p*rn and using sex toys? If so, then there is nothing wrong with you doing it. It sounds like you are turning into a cougar. Does you husband workout and eat properly?

[thewho1975]

Well lots going on there and of course its really rare for partners to feel exactly the same at any one time!
it is perfectly normal for you to or anyone to have prelonged urges etc and it comes at all different times and ages so i would just say go with it and if you dont get a reaction you want from your boyfriend then dont worry, its just your on different stages at the moment