Sibling attraction is actually more common than people realise, with varying degrees. Basically it's a female of close age bracket that you'll likely have some common interests with. On top of that it's someone you speak to regularly. It can be anything from overly fond (BFF) to lust to full blown love feelings. So don't think yourself unusual outright.
But, you do need to change your mindset.
What you need to do is called cognitive behaviour therapy. Right now, you've associated your sister with a sexual fantasy. Every time you think of her that way, you're going to reinforce that idea and you'll make it worse. Over time it'll cause you embarrassment when you speak to her and worse still should you try to talk to her about it (she will NOT understand).
You need to do two things for CBT. Firstly, you need to logically realize the problems this will cause. You need to actively think about all the problems of having your sister as a sexual fantasy. Once you realize the problems this makes, you need to remind yourself of them again and again. Secondly, you must stop fantasising about her / masturbating to her. Should it come up you need to think about the problems it will cause. Find another fantasy, another girl or celebrity etc that works as well. Thought processes are like muscles, and only by changing your mindset time and time again will it get easier. Also, you have to delete your copies of the videos because you won't have the will power otherwise.
It may be a good idea to see a counselor or psychologist. They are trained in CBT (amongst other things) and can help you work through it and the issues you have with it.
Best of luck.1 3 0 0CBT also stands for Cock and Ball Torture!
@NaughtyWizard I love that type of therapy
It turned you on because you were watching a naked girl masturbating and the fact it was your sister adds a case of taboo making it more exciting! I used to watch my sister when I could so I know how you feel! Enjoy!
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When I was younger I saw my brother having sex with his girlfriend and I became very attracted to him. I pleasured myself to the thought of having sex with him at least once a day and still do from time to time today. I thought I would grow out of it but I'm well into my 30's now and still lust for him. About 4 yeas ago, well it was actually at my 30th birthday party I was going through a dry spell and after plenty of drinks I confessed to my brother and we ended up having sex. It was amazing but really wrong at the same time. It happens still from time to time. I think we have done it maybe 5 times. I feel really guilty because of my sister in law (his wife) its hard to live with but at the same time hard to stop.
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It's only natural to feel bad for your sis-in-law. I have been having sex with my aunt and her daughter since I was 11. My aunt caught me masturbating with her underwear. She promise not to tell anyone if I did things to her. At first it was playing with her pushy with Amy fingers then as I got older and more mature she would have me lay down a and she would suck me off Rollin came. One day my cousin Monica walked in on her naked with. com all over her to its and stomach. She was just 16 and two years older than me. She started yelling at me to get away from her mom and thankfully my aunt told her that it was her idea. My cousin looked at me and said I knew you were a oervert. About 6 . inches later my aunt was riding Megan's I heard the door open a bit. I had a feeling someone was gonna catch us. Just about the time I was gonna. com my cousin fell into the door and groped on her pants (which were pulled down to her lnres). I could he! I but want to duck her. My aunt asked her if she was enjoying herself, and she screamed that she was disgusted with her boyfriend and wanted to make him jealous so she grabbed my sick and stated jerking it off very fast and saying to her mom suck his sick while I jerk it I your mouth.
Your are effecting family life of your brother by cheating your sister in law. Your action is not justified. Now you cut off this illicit relation with your brother and get some boyfriend
I've never personally been attracted to someone in my family but, I can't say it doesn't happen. While I imagine you're attracted simply because it feels wrong, therefore making it exciting, incest is wrong and the feelings you have toward your sister aren't healthy. It's illegal to have sex with someone you're related to and unfortunately many people never "get over" their attraction to their siblings. This is something you'll have to go to a specialist for or you may risk acting on your feelings,which would only make things worse. I suppose the best thing to know is that you aren't alone in feeling that way, but it's not something you should act on.
0 1 0 0I agree with Elles. You can't deny the attraction is there, but you don't need to act on it. Let's be realistic, as flawed human beings many of us have attractions and lusts that are just plain wrong, but if we all acted on them, the whole concept of morality might as well be non-existent. I would say see a councellor, or even better pray about it!
Ummmm. I think you should talk to someone more professional. Incest is something a lot of therapists deal with. or maybe get a girlfriend who looks something like your sister. maybe that would work.
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0 14so what did you end up doing about it?
0 0 0 0Under no circumstances are you to have sex with your sister, because the odds are you would regret it later and it would ruin your relationship with her. So, I would suggest you find another hot girl to focus on. There are plenty in this world, so that will not be too hard. Okay? As for why it turned you on, the answer is simple. You saw a girl you find attractive masturbating. Her being your sister is unimportant in that context, but it is important in the context of whether you should have sex with her. Again, you should not. Take care.
0 2 0 0Is this your biological sis?
0 0 0 1Yea she is
Ah man that's sad. I wouldn't call you a perv at all because lust is lust, but I don't think you should act on it (that includes jerking off to her)...some lines just shouldn't be crossed...sexual acts affect the deeper levels of conciousness, and can create a deep guilt and shame that you might never recover from. So please don't act on your lust!
Well I am not going to sleep with her even if I wanted to the chances that she would be willing are probably non existent but I have already been masturbating to it what is wrong with that? I mean I understand its wrong but how is that going to make things worse?
You need counseling ! NOW !
1 1 0 2Wish i could see the video😉 I also am attracted to my sister, but have never banged her
0 0 0 0Though it is not proper however one can't rule out your feelings. Try to wipe it out of you mind.
0 0 0 0Your sister is horny and she want sex. If your sister is agree and do not have objection, you can have sex with her instead she will search some other person for sex
0 1 0 0Because of the unconscious connection of her on your bed... masturbating. She is on YOUR bed... legs spread... rubbing her clit... POSSIBLY thinking of YOU... yeah... that's hot.
1 2 0 0could u PM me a link to that video..
i am really curious for it,,
ill even trade with good stuff... :)0 1 0 0I got turned on by my cousin once because I didn't know she was my cousin lol
1 0 0 0If she 18+ is there any site or blog the video is posted at?
0 0 0 0it turned you on , because you are in that age that you are curious about sex. even if it is your sister or mom it will turn u on that is how male body functions.
0 1 0 0go for it
0 0 0 0I saw a video of my stepsister masturbating and it turned me on. We are close in age. I never told her I seen it but she used to always walk around me with her boobs hanging out and would always be real flirty with me.
0 0 0 0Fuck her, as you both are consenting
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