I'm probably in the minority of guys here, but I would prefer more...seductive comments rather than the majority of "pornstar" trash talk that many have suggested. Don't get me wrong - I'm not some uptight morality thumper...I just don't get turned on by a lot of dirty talk. A little can be fine in the right setting, but in regards to your question, I would be much MUCH more turned on by something that intrigues me. If you can pull of sexy AND mysterious, you're going to get my brain amped up wondering at the potential possibilities. The reason for this is because it shows that you are intelligent, sexually interested, and creative enough to come up with something other than the usual "wanna feel you pound me".
Some suggestions:
1. Hints of things yet to come ("there's a little surprise waiting for you at home.")
2. Subtle cues about what you're wearing that he can't see ("Perhaps the reason I'm a little chilly is because the new panties I have on don't cover much...") - maybe not the best wording, but I'm trying to write quickly here. :)
3. Poetic metaphors (any of the lyrics in Feelin Love by Paula Cole on the City of Angels Soundrack). That song is HOT.
4. Allusions to sexual games (While at someone's house - "I left my underwear hidden in the bathroom...see if you can go find it for me.")
Obviously, these cover a lot of different scenarios and comfort levels...but I hope they give you some food for thought. And, of course, if you can follow that whisper up with a quick sexy facial expression (raised eyebrow, a wink, etc)...well, who wouldn't be turned on?4 2 0 0Oh you are so not alone on this one. I am all for some seduction. Leave me something for my active imagination to feed on. If she can show me some intelligence, and creativity and wants to make the whole thing an experience I love having something to look forward throughout the day. It really takes reality to an active fantasy level.
Surprise him. Not the same ole wet thing. Like if you notice him checking out another hot girl -- whisper to him "I like her round ass to -- want to see me spank it" Then maybe bluff like you will -- or carry the thought further in bed.
Think about what his favorite fantasies are -- and play with that. Tell him what you want to do to him -- or maybe what you girls do when "the cats away". The kinkier girls sound in the ear the better. Use naughty words and use the tongue to emphasize suggestions that you whisper. Exploration in the mind is safe but powerful.
By the way -- I think you are hot just for asking such a question.0 0 0 1
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These things seem to work for me. : ) Say them with class and very sexy. And gently caress his ear with moist lips before you let your wet tongue touch him.
Good Luck Woman!3 2 0 0All good!!!
lol that's a sexy question, I usually whisper things in my boyfriends ear, like "i want you to put it in me" or "i wanna suck it" lmfao. it sounds extra sexual but trust me he LOVES IT, and he get horny right away. and I bet your boyfriend would too ;p
0 1 0 0Hell yeah
confess one of your fantasies to him. You don't have to tell it like a book, but just say it in bits and pieces, and give lots of details.
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8 11I swallow. :)
1 1 0 0Hahaha...i use that one all the time because it'll make his jaw drop and he can;t wait to have u.lol
I want you to want me!
2 0 0 0what about a simple "i've been thinking about you all day" in a really seductive voice. that leaves a little bit to his imagination
1 0 0 0High level categories:
- How turned on you are.
- What you want to do to him.
- What you want him to do to you.0 0 0 0you should say 'My room 5 minutes, pants off' that should work
0 0 0 0"I'm not wearing any panties and I'm all wet."
3 2 0 0Lol @ the difference between some of the guy and girl answers.
0 0 0 0I cooked your cat for Thanksgiving...The turkey just wasn't good enough.
2 4 1 0Whattt?
Lol! love it! love everything about it! XD
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Sing "baby are you down down down?" and then spank him repeatedly.
1 0 0 0Your making so wet
I want you inside me so badly
you feel so good inside me
I want you to f*** me anyway you want
Ive been thinking about you all day and how good it was going to be to have you inside me...
I want you to come inside me
there is a few ideas...2 1 3 1Lol.... 'I want you inside me so badly.' that's the exact phrase my Girlfriend sometimes uses when were making out.
Haha I have used those all there used very often. the key words to make a man have a boner *thumbs up*
baby..i ain't wearin nethin inside ma dress..i guess you can get me de LIGHT!
0 0 1 0The hottest thing a girl can whisper in your ear is "I want to suck your cock"
0 0 0 0"I'm wet."
"I'm not wearing any panties."
"I want you in me."3 3 0 0Ya this guy nailed it. All 3 of those get me fired up
I love you so much.
1 0 0 0Im wet
Im not wearing panties
you have the best tasting **** I ever sucked0 0 0 0" I want you "
0 0 0 0pretty much anything as long as you whisper it sexually... if your whispering when your not supposed to it makes it even better, like during a test or if the guy is taken and his girlfriend is near most of the time whispering it self is a turn on :)
0 0 0 0Say this for a sure orgasm - "I want you to read 'Goodnight Moon' to me and then pull my hair."
6 0 0 0Explain that one to me?
Haha wtf!
"i want you to bust your nut all deep inside my pussy".
"f*** me like you paid for it"
"beat this p**** like a drum"
wow maybe I'm just nasty2 1 1 0Those would definitely work
I don't think somebody would say that like..naturally. if a girl were to say that, she's probably only saying it cause she heard it in a porno and is trying a little bit too hard.
Wow those are really f***ing good....i'd definitely let loose
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