First time anal?

[Anonymous]

hi guys! i tried anal for the first time yesterday and after, my behind was sore and widened (obviously) being 1 day post activity, it is less sore, still has not returned to it's original state and it seems i can't have full control of muscle contraction down there, it just dilates was wondering if this is normal and what are the symptoms associated with anal -unsure girl who knows nothing about anal and wanted reassurance eveyrthing experieneced is normal and will pass :D

[Beantown1992]

No pun intended on the "everything will pass" ending? lol - In all seriousness, you're fine. You just introduced a very sensitive part of your body to something it has never experienced before. Obviously it had to "adjust" in order to accept your guy and it might need a bit to recover. Think of it like any other muscle, you work out, it hurts for a few days before returning to normal.

Now... how did you like it? Did you get any pleasure from it, or was it more for "him"?

[broadsword]

Yes all normal dont worry it will return to normal. Use more lube it will help a lot. I hope it was pleasurable for you.

[Asker]

thanks for your intake yeah it was alright, sort of uncomfortable but slightly pleasuring? wasn't what i expected tbh

[Asker]

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[broadsword]

Oh iam glad , it helps to be relaxed and take your time the anus isn't as elastic as the vagina so takes more time to dilate and more time to go back. The key though is lube. There is no natural lube and saliva is not viscous enough. Some lubes have a desencitizing agent. The other thing is a caring partner willing to listen to how your feeling. Not what you wdre expecting, better or worse. Its like normal sex it will get easier and be more pleasurable.

[Kikwizle]

umm I'm not sure if it's still supposed to be widened after a day, mine normally goes back to normal in 30 min. A possibility could be that you are more used to having your butthole opened so now its more relaxed

[ThePhantom78]

Yes with time, my wife complains up to a week after we've had anal about soreness, but I am extremely well endowed and she really enjoys it so we always go back for more.

[Kagetora]

never did that... because my gf didn't like that so i have to respect what she choose

[imlawXD]

Good man respecting women is the #1 way to be AWESOME

[KIKDavjustlooking]

you will be fine, it just takes a little bit of time to get back to normal

[Anonymous]

Might want to invest in some diapers

[Asker]

hahah yeah good idea :P

[Anonymous]

Did he do vaginal with you?

[Asker]

nope he didn't does it matter?

[Opinion Owner]

No lol how was anal