What does it mean if a guy grabs my butt, kisses my neck, and grabs my boob while kissing?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for a couple weeks, and we've been on a couple of dates...not until recently we were making out for a while and he grabs my ass, then after a while proceeds to kiss my neck, then while in the passion of the kiss proceeds to grab my breast, also he said he wanted to take things really slow and while kissing [i know this is a mood killer] I asked him if we were taking things too fast and he said that we were having a good time right?...but when he started to caress my breast I stopped him and he respected it but I don't know what to do because after he took me to buy food then took me home...what do you guys think?

[msroboto]

He either really want to go further sexually and thinks he can get you to do it (even if you don't want to).

Or so far you haven't really been making it clear you aren't comfortable and he honestly thinks this is all OK with you.

It is a little weird that he drove you home after you stopped what he was doing (like he realized he wasn't getting anything else so he stopped it). Or he was embarrassed...

I think the best thing would be for you to tell him how far you are willing to go and explain why to him. If he stays with you and respects what you've told him and stops trying to touch you in ways you asked him not to, then stay with him and eventually you'll be comfortable to do stuff like that. If he leaves a week or so after talking it's OK to be upset but be proud of yourself you set your own boundaries and it ended before you did anything you would have ended up regretting.

[Anonymous]

Just wants to fuck u. Nothing wrong with that unless it's illegal age wise.

He is testing you as well. Are u slutty? No, because you stopped him. He clearly backed off like he should but he also learned that there is a limit. So check for both of you.

You WILL be having sex if you continue this path. Whether he is looking short term or not who knows.

[dolphiny]

lol he's interested and wants to have sex with you. but he showed that he's willing to slow down for you and wait until you're comfortable. he seems like a good guy. especially if he bought you food and took you home after

[Anonymous]

i think he wants to go further than kissing, maybe not all the way to sex but he certainly wants a bit more. I think have fun with each other and go a bit further. Just don't go all the way if you're not both at that point yet.

Either that, or his lying when he said he wants to take it slow cos he thinks that what you want to hear. but his actually thinking, after making out for a bit. damn I'm horny. lets have sex lol

[Littletad]

Your dating an idiot who clearly only wants sex... sorry. No other way to put it.

Sure a guy is eventually going to get into your pants, but it's a guys actions that determine whether or not he's really into you or just that. From what you wrote, he has no class, and is only testing your limits to see what he can get. Is that the type of guy you want?

[samanthakat]

It's called, a guy being and guy and wanting to get your clothes off.

[BrettH]

hes trying to figure out how much he can get away with until you say no. then when he does it agian he sees how much further he got and now he has how much he can get away with by trying agian. if you stop him right away each time then he knows he has to go slow. but by testing the water and doing that over time he gets you used to it and willing to go further without you realizing what you are doing.

[Cartiphilus]

I think he's trying his best to get between your legs.

[netscraper21]

Yua that's r8!

[Just-A-Random-Guy]

It means he wants to marry you. :|

[beast209]

it's called making out and being passionate lol. while I kiss the girl, I tend to hold her really close by the waist, grab her ass, and kiss her neck. obviously I'm really into the girl. Sex usually isn't on my mind but when she responds and starts grabbing me back, then it's on.

now if you tell him to stop and he gets all angry and tries to get rid of you, then all he wants to get laid. ditch the guy

[Mishhhhh]

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[mamabear]

um, I think he wants to have sex with you. real bad.

[Anonymous]

You are playing with his mind.