How does anal sex feel?

my boyfriend wanted to try anal sex... I never did that before... is it painful or enjoyable?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I tried anal sex several times when I was in high school and I hated it,but I wasn't ready to have vaginal sex, because I was terrified of getting pregnant. When I started seeing the guy I am seeing now (I lost my virginity to him) we talked about it and I told him I wanted to try again. I love it! We usually finish with anal sex, because we quit using condoms. It hurts a little when we first start, but not bad. Just make sure you use a lot of lubricant, he stretches you a little with his fingers first, and are with a guy who knows what he is doing and is willing to take his time and GO SLOW at first.

  • in isn't painful but uncomfortable the first time. Me and my husband don't use any protection so the only time we have vaginal sex is when we are trying to get pregnant. I want to have one more child after my youngest turns 5 and then I will get my tubes tied and we can have vaginal sex every time then but until then we only have anal sex. I enjoy it and he does to I know he would prefer to have vaginal but that is only for trying to get pregnant.

  • If it's done right, most women find it pleasurable. Most women who hate anal haven't tried it. I love anal! With men, it's a normal part of my sex life, like 1 out of 2 or 3 times.

Most Helpful Guys

  • For a guy it is very enjoyable, in both ways. If your a guy giving it its good because its tighter and the naughty factor is in play too. A lot of guys won't agree with me here but if a guy is receiving anal it feels amazing. When a guy gets anal it stimulates the prostate and gives you the most intense orgasm. I am not sure how pleasurable it is for a girl to receive tho all I know is you have to do it right with plenty of lube and practice. it can be uncomfortable at first but once you learn to relax down there it goes very smoothly. good luck and be safe

    • Since girls have no prostate, they'll miss what you feel.

    • Yea I know that's what I was saying I don't know how it would feel for a girl but I have had girls say they enjoy it

  • The anus is full of bacteria, thus one should

    NEVER pass from the anus to the vagina: she risks vaginosis: link

    - Not do it without condom: he risks prostatitis link (it can be acute

    link or chronic link and can cause infertility)

    Also bear in mind that he is better equipped than a girl to be sodomized: he has a P- spot link , she doesn't.

    And I'm not tallking about hurting one's hemorroids or getting a loose sphincter. (google for it)

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  • "anal sex, is it painful or enjoyable?"

    I never did that. Let him feel it: use an object of the 'good' size ON HIM first.

    And he's way better equiped for it than a girl is: link

  • would you like to not be able to control your bowels? then anal sex is for you!

    • My wife and I do it on occasion and she enjoys it. She has no problem controlling her bowels.