Don't be self conscious. There is a guy/guys out there that will love your body for what it is. My ex was JUST like you when we first met. She always wanted the lights off when we fooled around. I told her day after day after day "honey don't worry anymore, I think your beautiful and I will for the rest of your life, you are perfect and everything I want. " after a while she built confidence in herself and was open. If a guy isn't doing the same thing for you then it isn't even worth your time to give your body away.
As far as the boobs YES many guys like small boobs. I love small perky breasts and I tell my guy friends all the time I like a nice little tight body and most say I'm crazy because they love big round breasts whether fake or real. You'll find a guy that appreciates it trust me!
And as far as shaving. It is a real turn off to me for girls to be VERY hairy or uncut. Clean it up a little, take it all off, just make it seem like you take care of yourself. If I go through the trouble of shaving myself like I do I would be turned off if I got with a girl that didn't at least trim. Some guys do like it hairy though. Once again just a matter of individual preference.
Above all, don't do anything if you don't feel perfectly comfortable with it! Hope this helps!
That's very sweet to hear that you were that patient w/your ex. A lot of guys wouldn't be as nice XD
The best thing to do is stay in the mood, don't let yourself appear that you are self conscious at all. If you are being sensual and focused on having a great experience, he won't have time to think about things.
If you have made it as far as sex, most guys wouldn't stop anyways.
Your self conscious issues are what's more important than what any guy thinks though. Don't believe all of that crap on TV or in the media and be happy with yourself. Then, hopefully, you won't be bothered with what a guy thinks, he should be happy to have you.
I used to be really self conscious too until I realized that if I didn't love my body, no one else would because I just wouldn't allow them to. My ex told me once that I had a gorgeous body, I, being self conscious at the time, got embarrassed and tried hiding under a blanket, and argued with him that no, there were so many flaws - eventually, he decided I wasn't all that gorgeous.
I'm really self conscious but I learned that doing things gradually helps. Also, guys just like boobs. Its more than they have (i hope? ) so don't worry about it
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i like pubic hair
i like smaller boobs and I don't mind small and pointy. big boobs can get in the way.
Some guys like it shaved I do, some guys don't. If you want to do what he wants just ask him about it. Hell like it that you ask him. And if its a real relationship it won't matter. If he dumps you because of it he's not worth you time.
Well some guys do think that way but if your lucky you'll find a guy that doesn't care weather you have smaller breasts or not and don't worry
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