Penis Size - 3 inches flaccid, 4.5 inches erect with like 4 inches girth, 18 years old.

[Anonymous]

Now, according to majority of females online, their preferences are mainly six to eight inches, with a lot of girth. I ain't lying here, I didn't even round up to five inches. Now this is not extremely small, but it's pretty small. And for those people who will say, "you still have time to grow", B.S., that ship has sailed. Now for ladies, if you were getting ready to have sex with a guy, and he dropped down his pants with these specifications, what would be your first reactions? For those people who say, "oh... it's not the size that matters, it's how he uses it" - Bull... I've been reading on this site ad other sites about penis size questions and the girls say it is too small. And that it is not good enough. Or they just laugh. So I am also asking, should a guy with my size even bother trying to get laid? Or is it out of the question? I basically never bother, because um... I don't have the right size tools for the job.

[Bvroon]

Hey I'm not a girl, but I have to say don't give up, and I agree with some of what the other respondents had to say. I know some women and girls will go on and on about how big this guy was and so forth. I really have to say it's far more important how you TREAT the woman of your affections, and if she is all hung up about your size, you really need to move on. I am very much average in the penis size dept as well, but I am very attentive to my wifes needs and take the time to caress her and make her feel special and I focus on her pleasure not just mine, in fact I have done this with any woman I have been with and with perhaps one exception I have not had any negative comments, snide remarks or jokes made about my performance. Look at it this way if a woman can achieve an orgasm from oral sex or masturbation with fingers, do you know of anybody with an 8 to 10 inch tongue or huge fingers? So really take heart I feel if you are sensitive to your lovers needs and she is not shallow I'm sure you will both have wonderful sex and you will develop new and exciting ways to have sex that are not focused on measurements.

[armyant]

Never open up to a woman about your insecurities, fears or weaknesses. Outwardly she may smile and look understanding, but beneath the surface all the sh*t you told her is being carefully archived and filed under W for weapons to be used against you. Take a lesson from how women respond to people on this site when they disagree with them over facts. Do they argue facts? No. They say "lol you probably never get laid", "lol I bet you have a small penis" and so on.

Your penis may only be 4,5 inches, but a man to men is measured by valor and honesty, and only to women by his penis and wallet. Whether you want to be a boy-toy or a man's man... that decision is up to you.

[Rainbows]

Oh, I don't think that's necessarily true. What's the point in being in a serious, loving, committed relationship if you can't open up to your partner?

[armyant]

I do recognize that there are people like you who break the mold I've proposed, but I wouldn't casually stroll onto a minefield even with the knowledge that a small portion of them were disarmed.

[Anonymous]

It's not bull about 'how he uses it'. Yes, you can get laid. I knew a guy in college with a small d***, he hooked up with a bunch of my friends, and had girlfriends, and I think is married now. What is a bigger turn off is caring about it and being that insecure about it; this guy would admit he was small, but it didn't seem to bother him, and it didn't really bother the girls. I knew a guy with a big d*** who actually said he'd rather be the biggest d***ed guy a girl was with than the best she'd had in bed. I thought he was an ass, and got immediately turned off - I'd rather a guy be good in bed and know how to use his d*** than that he just has a big one.

People really aren't as shallow as you make them out to be; in fact, it's when you assume they are shallow that causes the biggest turn off. As a small chested girl, I don't get noticed by guys initially, but I still get laid, and if a guy belittled me for my chest size, I'd dump him and move on.

[Asker]

Boobs are not as necessary in sex as a penis is. It kinda sucks if you are having sex with a girl and she'd not feeling it as much as she would a bigger penis. Even if you do all the other things girls talk about, in giving the full sexual experience, guys feel like they come up short if the girl has a minimum reaction when they "go in". Like if we can't make you moan and scream, not in pain though, but in the feeling of it going in and out. Like we don't have that power and control.

[Opinion Owner]

But most girls do NOT have orgasms from a penis alone. The perception that you will make a girl 'moan and scream' from penetration alone is fueled by the media and porn, and is largely untrue. Hence the many girls on this website that think something is wrong with them because they can't come from just sex. I've been with guys who have large and small d***s, and the only difference is the one who thinks he can make you finish just from sticking his penis in and out usually sucks in bed.

[dale4life]

well, statistic says that around 5 inches is actually average. girls only say they want someone with about 7 inches is because of the media and porno, but really you are average. I would never tell anyone to give up, so don't . if a girl is going to not have sex with you just because you are " extremely small", why waste time with a girl that low.

[GIntrovert]

I think if the girl likes you, she won't be put off by it, it's not that far off from average. It's not like those guys with the unfortunate "micropenis". link

[jacquesvol]

Don't pople EVER look up their questions? link link link

[Anonymous]

Not true. According to a report published by researchers at UCLA and Cal State LA, 84% of women are “very satisfied” with their man’s penis size. The report states that 68% of men have a penis that is 4.6 to 6.0 inches, based on responses from 25,594 men. 13.5% are 6.1 to 6.8 inches, and only 2.5% are longer than 6.9 inches. Average is 6 inches. I don't know how a woman could like a 9 inch penis when most men are average [4.6 to 6.0 inches]. Someones lying to you.

[Anonymous]

honestly yes you are too small for me =[ I would say learn how to do oral like a pro

[JHAYES317]

Are you a size queen lol? That’s barely below avg…

[Anonymous]

seriously dude don't worry, My Girlfriend was with a guy for ages before me, and apparently he was very well endowed and I'm about average and I can still give her the best sex of her life just use it well and they won't complain.

[Anonymous]

6 to 8 inches with a lot of girth is very high expectations. Average size is believe is like 5-5.5". I'm a bit above average in length, and mine is thick. It's all in how you use it. I slept with this tramp I dated and she had a 9 incher before, and I put him to shame. It really is all how you use it. Just be confident. Confidence is attractive. If a chick gets your pants off, and she sees that you really aren't what she wants, give her a reason to want it. Make her want you to come back. The harder you try, the better you are, the better you'll end up. Good luck

[mjcatl]

+100 if I could. Very good answer!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you. My name is Leon Phelps, and yes, I am the Ladies Man.

[Asker]

If I got with a girl and was gonna have sex, I'd aim to blow her mind and give her the best sex she'd ever have without caring about the size of my penis and acting confidently as if I had done this many times before with above and beyond success. I just thought that this wouldn't work with some girls based on what I've read from their comments to other penis size questions where there answer with "no, too small" and then state their preference as if some girls had requirements to be fulfilled.

[Opinion Owner]

You find me where majority of these girls are finding the 8" long and thick guys.. That isn't majority. Just another ploy for women to be shallow. You'll be fine boss.