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I had sex with my nephew I haven't seen in years. I didn't know.

My sister and I haven't really had a good relationship for almost 10 years now but have recently reconnected. She has a son and a daughter. I knew her son when he was very young but have never met my niece until this last week. My sister moved out of state with some guy and hadn't had hardly any contact with me or our parents for about 10 years. Well she got away from the guy she was with and moved back home. She was here for about a week and I had still not seen the kids. I went out to the bar on a friday and hit it of with this younger guy who I found attractive and we went back to my place and had sex a couple times. I did not recognize him as my nephew he had changes so much and has really grown up. He is 18 now. Well that next weekend I went over to my sisters house to see the kids and hang out for awhile. When I walked in and saw him my stomach dropped and I felt sick. I haven't said anything except to him. He knew who I was when we had sex because he had seen pictures of me but I had no idea. And the fact that he actually had sex with me knowing I was his aunt. The thing I am struggling with is the sex was really good and I am still turned on by it. I don't know if I should tell my sister or what I should do. Can anyone guide me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Its really HIS FAULT. He should have known better. Granted at that age, guys don't have much sexual control, but still he should have known better. The fact that he saw it as ok is really strange, unless he was brought up thinking that was OK, but that questions his parents. I can't really say anything about you liking the sex, but you need to remember its your nephew and not do it again. People really can't flame you for not knowing it was a family member. I've had an instance where I had sex with a cousin for a few weeks, I didn't know that we were related. There's no reason to feel bad about it. Just don't do it again, or you could get put into a really, really bad position. I feel sorry for some of the other answerers you come asking for help and they flame you, that's just not right. Granted it is an unusual situation, it is completely plausible. SO IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING POSITIVE TO SAY STFU.

    • Thank you

    • Any idiot can see your mentally reeling, but so far most of the answers have been people flaming you. If you wanted that, you'd come out and say what happened at a family reunion. (I don't advise that)

  • I think you've read my aunt/nephew story on literotica! Seriously, if you're not lying then read the last part of the question back to yourself. Obviously, you don't tell your sister. Unless you and common sense are sworn enemies.

    Another thing, if your sister was "here for about a week", she managed to get sorted with a house pretty quick, didn't she?

    • I am confused about the first part of your answer. She did get an apartment when she moved back here but what does this have to do with my question?

    • The first part of my answer was laced with a dose of humor. If you read your answer back, you've went on about a rocky relationship with your sister, so what exactly would be gained by telling her this? I'd guess she would never speak to you again and perhaps other family members might not either, but hey it's your call isn't it? As for the house, she moved to the area the week before and sorted out a house, sorry apartment. That's quite quick to do so, even through rental Good luck anyway

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh my, this is a precarious situation. I think it's better that you do not mention this to your sister. The relationship has been strained through the years as you indicated and this will only exacerbate it. If you elected to tell her, it would devastate her and impact an entire family, I just don't think it's worth that risk. I know it was an honest mistake but something like this is too delicate to admit to. When you see your nephew, I think you need to keep it cordial and interact like you would with family members. It will be difficult to put that moment out of your mind however if it creeps up, think about what you have to lose if you pursued it.

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  • So you want to tell your sister who your have a spotty relationship with, that you had sex with her son. That's not smart,In a way that story is pretty unbelievable but I guess stranger things have happened. That's the kinda thing you take to your grave or only share with a psychologist or complete strangers on internet forums.

  • Regardless of your ignorance of his identity he still knew and it was incest.

  • I would have hit to roof as soon as I saw him...

    Personally I would be honest and upfront about it, but I think you would be the best person to judge how your sister would react, and she does deserve to know what her son has been up too.

  • I would not tell her about it. In my opinion, the situation is his fault because he knew you were related to him but you had no way of knowing. Now that you know, do not have sex with him again. Telling your sister about it would just make matters worse by putting more distance between you than there already is.

  • Just don't tell anyone about it. Just forget it, its a mistake, just talk to your nephew about it and tell him that you never knew he was your nephew. Its best that you don't tell your sister.

  • If you like it why not? Just know the possible dangers if it gets out and act right. In my opinion feeling bad about it and incriminating either party is not clever.

  • Everyone has a dirty little secret or two.
    I would keep this a secret if you value your reconnected life with your sister.
    Sure the sex was great but I wouldn't tell a soul, it's a secret the two of you will keep forever.

  • that's just disgusting

  • you are 100% troll !

    • What?

    • And you are 100% d***.

  • eww don't tell ANYONE! especially not ur sister. pretend it never happend.

  • I think you should follow your heart and do what you like to do even if it is your nephew and if you do end up sleeping with him again and you enjoyed it then what's wrong with doing what you like that likes you back but in a more personal way a closer closeness

  • ... smh. come on. He was still 18. Wasn't that a red flag alone?

    • You are in your 30's. Not a good look.

  • He's very smart, he got to fuck his aunt, very lucky guy.

  • There are plenty of other guys to sleep with that you're not related to. Accept that it was a good time, but nothing good will come about it.

    Don't tell your family, that might cause your sister and her whole family to be even less in contact.

  • He was 18 and got into a bar?

    • Its a bar and grill place. like a sports pub.

    • Hmm okay...

    • Message me if you'd like to chat privately about your situation.

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