Here's the thing guys - try just for a moment to imagine something - try to imagine you are a young girl. Put yourself in the shoes of a young girl that's around 17 or 18 years old.
She's constantly inundated with the excitement of one of her girlfriends who slept with a guy last night who was very well endowed. Keep in mind when I write "constantly inundated" I don't mean that it happens everyday but if you have a group of young girls who are all sexually active , one of that group is bound to experience a guy now and then who;s well endowed.
We've all seen how impressionable young girls are and how they gather together in a huddle with big bright eyes, fully dilated and huge smiles on their face in a highly emotionally charged atmosphere with the intrigue of what their friends are saying bursting at the seams to hear the juicy details . Everyone one has seen them as the girls whisper away to one another in a circle , heads lowered , little giggles , soaking up everything they're told.
Yes ... we are dealing with immaturity gone wild at this age -- but the fact still remains ... it is what's important to most girls at that young age whether or not its important later on or not.
Now ... imagine the "curiosity" that's generated from all this emotional excitement between the girls, and how each girl that leaves the huddle, having heard all the hoopla over a guys size with all the excitement. try to imagine what you as a young girl from that time on would like to experience.
You guessed it - curiosity drives them crazy and each girl that leaves the "huddle" thinking I, would love to experience this glorious thing and be the one in the group of girls next time who's the focus of the giddy emotional meltdown.
With the above written, keep in mind , its not to difficult to see what each girl who left the huddle has on her mind .. But in order to find it , she may need to go through 50 guys to find it .. Which is precisely where the knowledge of a guy who's very endowed comes in ... When girls talk and establish that a particular guy is indeed endowed - the rest of the girls that hear it .. know they need look no further ... the girls don't have to aimlessly look in a group of 50 guys anymore ... they already know where to look to get a big penis. This is where the dynamic of "after girls find out about a guy with a big penis" they all go after that guy to experience this wonderful thing that girls are so excited about. Let's face it at these young ages its not hard for a girl to get what she wants from a guy. Now < once she's experienced it ...she too has bragging rights.
A couple things to say here. First, there are some very sexy B cups out there. Second, love handles are never a bad thing. I know, cause I have a pair of them myself. LOL. But as for the inadequacy that obviously some woman has made you feel, that was her fault for saying something rude. I don't believe in letting someone else ruin my own self-esteem. As Jesvousaime said. Don't stereotype all women because of what one woman has said. Size is not near as big of a factor when it comes to men and sex as good old fashion know how is. Maybe your issue with sex wasn't your size, but rather your understanding of how to please a woman. But don't feel bad about that. You are young, and trying to have sex. The great thing about sex is that you will have a lot of chances to improve on it in your lifetime. So my suggestion is that you disregard the rantings of an inconsiderate girlfriend, and instead just look forward to the years of fun you still have before you.
Girls don't talk about size really, and when they do it's usually an exaggeration because they obviously don't know the actual size (Not like they got a ruler out, is it lol)
They talk about what you do with it, your technique etc - That's what matters, Not size!
But yes some girls do only go for 'big' guys. But I guess that's just the same thing as most men looking at stick thin, fake boob, orange-colored models lol
. But saying that, I don't think a girl is shallow for wanting that. Girls have to do loads for boys, doing their makeup, doing their hair, tanning, nails, keeping slim, push up bras etc lol so I don't think that one small request is much to ask for (if you got it lol) or at least technique! :)
Sorry if I offended anyone, it's just my opinion! X
See, those are things that you can "fix," for lack of a better word. The only thing that can be done about penis size is surgery. It's not like you want your guy to be in good shape or dress better. Making a man feel inadequate because he doesn't have a huge penis is just as shallow as a man making a woman feel inadequate because of her breast size. Certain things cannot be controlled, and making someone feel bad about what they are born with is wrong. It's not a "small" request.
I don't think you understood what I was trying to say. Girls are always under pressure to look amazing So we're allowed to expect something back? I know the only way is through surgery, But I actually said "That's if you got it" Not you should go and get surgery If you don't! Basically, Girls are under pressure every day so I think you should stop complaining & FYI if you go around trashing girls "barely a b cup" as if they should be a ff cup and "love handles" then you are just as shallow!
I think it is a general misconception on their part, society is lead to believe bigger is better especially when it comes to penis size. Maybe it's from someones lack of knowledge or lack of experience, that's leading them to believe you have to be hung like a horse to be a good lover. That's not the case, at least not as far as I'm concerned. As for why they put a guy down for not being bigger, well it's easier to find fault with someone else rather then admit your own shortcomings. Some people put others down to make themselves feel better, some are just mean and want to be hurtful, and some just don't know any better ( like everyone else says this so it must be true)
I don't know what you're talking about. I think, if anything, guys talk about it more than girls. Personally, penis size doesn't matter to me. And I'm sorry, but if your definition of perfect dimensions is what you see in your swimsuit edition of sports illustrated than you need a reality check. It's called cosmetic surgery or at the very least- airbrushing. Who complains about a man not having a seven inch dick and if it really bothers you than why are you associating with these girls? I think the real issue here is your lack of self confidence and wrong way of dealing with it by pointing the finger at girls in general.
Unfortunately I do know women who talk about a guy not being worth their time if he does not have at least 7 or 8 inches. So I believe him when he says he's heard that said. You might be right it may the type of woman he's been with. But he is young so I was thinking the girls he was talking about were just shooting their mouths off without really knowing what they were talking about, because 18 year old guys usually hangout with 15 to 20 year old girls.
I'm glad that you aren't among those women who feel that anything less than 7 is bad, but he didn't ask this question to just point fingers. I know MANY young women and girls who say these type of things. We, as men, only hype ourselves up because of what women say in public and in the media. Are there guys that make these statements? Yes, but it's rough on a man if he feels like he cannot compare due to what he's been given.
not true those model bodies can be achieved through proper excersise. (I am a personal trainer and know a lot about the human body) any girl tht says she can only achieve those kinds of bodies is just lazy or ignorant to the truth
Excuse me!
I think you'll find girls have more pressing things on their minds than your parts!
Just because you're obsessed with big FF cup breasts and skinny as a rake bodies (which, by the way, is not physically possible) it doesn't mean you have the right to judge every single girl the same.
I'm sorry that you're not too large in the inches department, but women really don't care about that.
Read back your comment and then change all of your negative words (which there are a lot of, by the way) to their positive, and THAT'S how you find a decent girl.
Yeah alright I'm not saying this for myself. But I know for other guys and how they feel.
JeVousAime, I have 7 inches, and a girl told me I was small. I like girls for who they are, I know they get insecure about their size as well. I rarely mention things like this in mixed company. But I asked her what she would think if I called her boobs small, and she got mad! I said it's the same thing, you don't want people judging you, don't judge them, she hasn't talked to me since. I think people just need to focus on personality and characteristics and not the way people look, like them for who they are. Just everyone lay back, stop judging, and you'll find someone you'll like as a person, not a trophy/object. "True friends love you for who you are, not who they want you to become."
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Girls don't really talk about it much. They do talk a lot about how a guy performs though. If you think the two are one and the same, then you've got some work to do.
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Far as I know it's not something girls talk about a lot. Haha my girlfriend even tells me that if I wasn't with her she probably wouldn't think about sex more than twice a day! Still, you really don't need to critique girls because of your personal gene ranking. I'm lucky enough to have a 7incher and even that seems large to my girlfriend. She's very slim, small chest and hardly any ass, but to me she's the most beautiful thing in the world. I'd rather lay her down in the sheets than Angelina Jolie any day of the week. Be grateful for the women in your life and treat them well.
i know what you mean man I'm 5" which I'm ok with at this point but its not huge by any means so obviously when w the media and everything else it has been a big insecurity
and then as I'm hanging out with a girl friend of mine she was talking to one of her friends on the phone and said something to the effect of "trust me honey its not that big"
now to a guy w insecurities about it hearing that kind of conversation is worst fears coming true...now I have to wonder if I am the guy in that conversation w anyone I sleep w
but personally I know its not gonna grow anymore and its not really small so I've decided not to worry about it anymore...i would suggest you do the same so you can enjoy being young
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See, I'm going to defend you because you've been attacked.
I do not think he was trying to insult anyone. I believe he was just trying to make a point. Women have made it harder for men to feel confident about the size of his penis. Are women the only ones to blame? No, but some of y'all have played your part.
When he said the whole thing about "perfect dimensions," I think he was just stating that nothing is perfect. That no one is ever going to fill into these superficial categories that people seem to always want.
He's under 18, which means he also has more learning to do as far as how to properly speak his mind and get his point across without sounding demeaning, but he had a legitimate question. No lie, there is a whole website dedicated to men who have issues with the size of their penis due to the media and what women have said.
Yes, we all need to take responsibility for our own insecurities, but at times we also have to take the blame for adding flames to another person's issues.
This is for anyone who refers to this question in the future.
Guys are also pressured in the following ways: be fit, have six pack abs, no baldness, 6ft+ tall, techniques in bed, good looking face, to appear to be the alpha male, succesful career (for some), having charm, being funny etc etc other things you girls would list as for your "dream boyfriend"
What I am trying to say its even for both sides.
Also girls do the accepting and the rejecting so they have some power in their hands but guys have the power to do things like taking the initiative and so have the ability to "Control" the situation as compared to a girls waiting and contemplating if a guy would ask her.
I personally wouldn't mind girls with smaller boobs. It's just that the overall dimensions need to be in order and not missmatched. Also, I think I would prefer a girl with an average body (aka slender frame, flat stomach OK ass OK boobs) than some model type barbie with "perfect" figure.
However , more than anything else personality and loyalty count higher in my book.
I have L 7.2" and W 1.9", still cannot bitch abt her anything...
Life is not fair when it comes to the girls bro...
It doesn't matter about how they look I've seen ugly ass little d*** guys have the nerves to talk about women's breast size but that's there preference. It Just so happens to be that most women's preference is a 7 inch d*** and above just like most men prefer a c cup and above. Sadly that's just the way life is
why do girls want a 7 inch or above when the average is below 6
Idk you tell me babe, why do guys want triple d's when the average breast size is actually below c
well its only a small amount of guys tht really care about breast size. its more the whole body, big breasts are just a plus. but like if I have a 5 or 6 inch penis(not saying I do or dont) I think that that should be just fine correct?
i have an 8 inch d*** that's 6 inches around and I don't let women know because when I did I got a lot of women after me for all the wrong reasons and that can hurt your feelings man so a big one is a blessing and a curse
Just because you're not packing doesn't mean you have to go trashing women. I have a barely B cup, thank you, and my fiance seems to think my dimensions are just fine.
And, not everyone complains about a guy not having a big dick. It's the same for men who go around talking about wanting girls with double d's. Some people are just shallow. Men and women.
I think we talk about it because it's hidden. Imagine if you didn't know the size of a girl's breasts unless you fooled around with her. Don't you think you'd talk about that?
Hahahaa. I'm a full C-cup and I definitely don't have love handles ANYWHERE.
I tend to talk more about what he did with it than what size it is. One of my friends asks me regularly about sizes and to be honest I have definitely lied about my current guy to shut her up and give her the good opinion she'd have if she'd ever been f***ed by him.
Also, I think you need to be careful: you are saying girls are hypocritical for complaining about penis sizes and yet you complain about girls physical imperfections when you probably aren't a 7 (judging by your comment). Sounds like there's a good chance you are doing exactly the same thing as the girls you are complaining about.
Stupid take. Not remotely his point
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