My boyfriend gave me chlamydia from a past relation... What do I do?

OK... So I know he didn't cheat. And I tried to reassure him that everything will be okay. But that was before i found out that i have it to. I'm NOT OKAY. I'm PISSED. I feel so violated and gross and I'm holding it all in. I'm really upset that he didn't tell me that he was previously infected. He thought he was treated. But apparently not treated well enough. And I'm wondering if I should tell him how i REALLY feel. I Can't talk to anyone else about how I feel BC its gross. But I also don't wanna hurt his feelings. But I feel like I'm going to explode holding in all this anger. Should I tell him how pissed I am about him not telling me... Or should I just let it go?
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  • To be honest, you are both in the wrong. Just cause you have a boyfriend doesn't you are free from STD's. Don't blame your boyfriend for you catching an STD from him, Its your health and you need to take responsibility for your own health. In future you should both use protection, and stop relying on your partner to be free from STD's.

    Its your health, you must take responsibility for it. You are very lucky young lady you didn't sleep with a guy who has HIV, and decided to give it to you. There are people that do this stuff.

    I understand your anger and upset, to be honest your boyfriend cannot be relied on or to be trusted now, he should of taken more responsibility for making sure, that he would not tranfer an std to you. I would suggest you talk to him in a calm fashion, and tell him, he cannot be trusted now, he has to prove he is worthy of your trust if he wants to have unprotected sex now. No condom equals no sex. that is the lesson.

    He chooses the actions, he chooses the consequences. Don't be afraid to hurt his feelings. what he did was unacceptable.

    I suggest you, you start using protection in the future, with every boyfriend, unless you are absolutely sure they are STD free. and STD free before having kids.

    Now you just need to get yourself treated. Because this disease can make you infertile, for you and him. Its dangerous. Get treated asap.

  • Get it treated, make sure he does as well so you both dont keep passing it back and forth... And then let it go!
    Chlamydia is one of the most common sti's and it is totally treatable with antibiotics.
    Chlamydia is often times carried and transmitted without the carrier even knowing he or she has it... If he said he thought it was gone you can bet he thought it was... It was not intentional or malicious.
    Most people in general are not going to bring up having had Chlamydia without it coming up in a topic of conversation or being asked about it... Its not like aids or herpes or something like that... Chlamydia can totally be healed with a few pills.

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  • Well its really cureable with just antibiotics and if u know the man didn't cheat on u well thats a really good thing yeah its not something u want to talk to anyone about and its gross but at least u can get rid of it look a man who rapped me gave it to me and I had to live with that so yeah

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  • If treated right they would have followed up with another test to make sure it was gone... or at least he should have demanded a follow up test... his laziness is to blame.

  • So many girls get this shit all the time
    You just don't hear about it but it's one of the most common STDs

    Just go get the antibiotic for it and get tested for other things

  • Go to a doctor www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/chlamydia
    And warn his present girlfriend.

  • Yes it was his responsibility to tell you that he had such a disease!! It's wooing to lead someone on like that and pass it on to you!!!
    You should talk to him

  • check for hiv as well. do all screening tests.