Is being a 19 year old Virgin guy a turn off?

I just turned 19 this Saturday :) but I'm still a virgin and I'm just wondering if its a bad thing and a turn off to a girl that I'm still a virgin at my age. I'm above average looking and average build and I'm 5'6
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Thanks for your comments guys and gals :) I appreciate them and got some answers I wasn't expecting but in a good way :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh boy, here we go again. Same question, different day.

    At your age, virginity is ok but not for long. It will be split 50/50 with women. Half will see you as an honest man with morals who is waiting for that special woman(this is laughable to me). The other half will wonder why you are "inexperienced". You pretty much answered this already by stating you are +average in looks and "5'6". This means unfortunately, too many shallow women would reject you in favor of taller, better looking players. Do not feel alone, you are in the same boat as I was at your age. The good news is that you are still young and fit so you have chances of finding good women who ill look past such things as height and looks. Wish the best for you, never give up! Take my honest word for this: virginity can be cured.

    However, if you are in your late 20's and still a virgin. There is a problem. I can tell you now that your male buddies will ridicule you nonstop for being a 19 year old virgin. Very difficult to stand proud of this status. Good luck.

  • Dude don't worry about it, you will find the right girl in your life and the right moment, take it slow and just don't do anything that you will regret! Hey man I'm 19 about to turn 20 in May and I have a great girlfriend! We have been dating about two months! And I'm still a virgin! And I'm not worried about it! So just wait for the one! And good luck! And I respect myself for being one and I respect her so I wait for when the right moment will come and take things slow! Good Luck!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Definitely not a turnoff. I would love to find a guy your age or older who is a virgin (especially an "above average looking" one because it means he could probably get into a girl's pants if he wanted to do so). A good-looking guy your age who is a virgin understands the value of sex and isn't just looking for a girl to be another notch on his bedpost, but will in all likelihood treat a girl right. And that is a huge turn on. Plus, a guy who is a virgin probably wouldn't be upset by the fact that I am too.

    Don't have sex just to not be a virgin anymore. Have sex when you feel that the time is right to do so, and when you have the right partner. You're doing great so far, just follow your head and your heart rather than your libido and girls will appreciate that.

    Oh, and happy birthday. :D

  • I think its a good thing, there are so many diseases out there that people don't realize are sexually transmitted. Like one of my friends who is my age (19) had a tube pregnancy, and she used a condom every time. If you don't get it, you can only get tube pregnancies if you have a certain. Which she has. Another friend has cancer down there, because of sex ( I think its called HPV- not quite sure of the correct term) but anyway no one tells people that it is actually an STD. I think its best that you don't have sex till you married. Mostly because it is the only way to guarantee you won't get an STD that one in four people have.

  • It's not a turn off at 19. Although we might have a problem with it if you are 30 and still a virgin. Because by that time, most female will be pretty experienced and would prefer someone with comparable experience. I don't think many female like to "teach" at that point in her life, if you know what I mean. Personally, I would have a problem if the guy is a virgin at my age (26). But I'm cool with virgin guys up to the age of 23. Cause I think guys should be rid of their virginity by their mid 20s.

    • BINGO! BULLSEYE! WINNER! Couldn't have said it better myself from an older man's point of view. At 38, the last thing men my age want to do is deal with the virginity crap again. Good point. Thumbs up to you(*_^). Then again, I didn't care for virginity when I was 19! (^_^)

    • Hehehe. I'm glad you agree. I'm mainly speaking from experience. I have this guy friend who's 28 and still a virgin. And honestly, he's a little weird. Too shy with the girls, too self conscious, etc. The good news is, he finally found himself a girlfriend first time in his life. But unfortunately she's a psycho catholic, so apparently they will be getting engaged really soon. It's a happy and sad situation.

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  • NO WAY is that a turn off darlin'. I'm one of those girls that truly adores guys that are pure and haven't been around the block. So no way!

  • Not at all. It would actually be a plus for me, since it would indicate (to me) that you might see the physical side of a relationship as more than just SEX. Experience definitely isn't everything - paying attention is much more important in a physical relationship.

  • i think it's very hot... don't sweet it a lot of girls think like me... it shows that you're not just in it for sex XD

  • Thanks not a turn off at all. You describe yourself as really cute. And the cute ones usually always give themselves away. And its attractive that you don't completely flaunt yourself to girls. So yeah I think its good that your a virgin still. KEEP IT! You don't get it back

    <3

  • No way!

    Why have you even asked yourself (and us) that question?

    It's a total turn on! ;) And. When you do decide to have sex with your girlfriend, she will know it's because you really want only her. It will make her feel absolutely special! :)

  • No way. I think a guy over 18 that's still a virgin is awesome. Some girls want guys with experience. But if your a virgin you are excited your first time and that's what is worth the wait

  • Very nice. ;] Virgins hollaaa!

  • To me knowing your a virgin in a way can be very alluring. But a lot of times it can make me, and other women think your unexperienced. My advice. If you don't already watch a ton of porn. Then you should. LOL. I find it helps with ideas and techniques that work

  • Nope!!! As a 19 year old myself I'd prefer it. To don't understand the rush to lose it honestly.

  • It's not a turn off. It depends on the situation as well. Just own it, what I hate is when guys are embarrassed or ashamed of being a virgin. Or are just trying to lose it for the sake of losing it. Guys that are truly losers are those who view virginity as a disease. I'm a female who has not had sex, also 19, who cares? If someone doesn't wanna be or sleep with you because you haven't had sex, they're not worth it.

  • It's not a turn off its good that you aren't a player. You have respect for yourself wait till you find someone you really really like before you do it. Good for you

    • Oh so now every girl that had had sex is a whore and a player and has no self-respect. And ofcourse fuck with people who don't really attract them. Wow I didn't know that a sentence could be so judgmental, racist and sexist at the same time.