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Sex spin the bottle, what should I do?

My boyfriend wants me to go to this party but one of the games there is spin the bottle. If the bottle lands on you whoever spun it must have sex with you or the school will spread rumors. The invite says its only oral. But if the bottle lands on you and your partner you can do something different. I don't want to play the game because I don't want to risk the chance of it landing on someone else. But I really want to go to the party because all of my friends will be there.
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  • God how old do I feel right now? Our spin the bottle was kissing and the occasional boob grab.

    I'm pretty adventurous, and I've done a lot of really crazy sh. T, but at 29 I still wouldn't do something like that. There's STD's (which you CAN catch orally), and besides, it's just incredibly sleazy and cheap. Nobody with any class or self respect would do it. Plus everything else that's horribly wrong with it.

    I also remember what it was like to be a teen, so even though you're obviously smart enough to know this is an incredibly stupid and BAD idea, you still have a hard time making a decision whether to duck out of a party all your friends are going to be at.

    I'd tell them to enjoy their syphilis-fest and find something else to do. I'd put money on the fact that a lot of your other friends don't want to go either, and would be completely with you on ditching. It's a lame grab at free blow jobs for pervs and you all know it. Find a couple of friends and go camping for the weekend or something.

  • I'm not being bad or judgmental but your under 18 why would you and any of your friends be going to a party like that? its also a very stupid game because you must have or rumors will be spread! don't go if you don't want to don't and if you did go I honestly think there wouldn't be a good outcome

    • Thanks. and I don't really know.. I guess its just because they want to be considered "cool" and they area all people pleasers..... well I can't say that because I'm a people pleaser 2. hahaha. I'm just a confused little 16yrold girl...hahaha. well thanks! though that was my only answer so far.. ill put it as my best:)

    • Lol thanks well were I live its cool to be pregnant at 16 but I wouldn't try do that to be cool so don't go to the party if its just to be cool and if you don't want to hun

    • Ya. Us 2. When I was in 6th grade 13 girls were pregnant at a school nearby. And they all were in 6th. I don't think its good because of all the responsibilities. Its hard @ 16. And if he dumps me after. Ugh freaky. Hahaha.

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  • That sounds like a really bad idea. Lol. I think you already know your answer--you don't want to go, it's too much stress/drama if you DID go! Plus you'll have more fun doing something else where you know you won't have to have sex or have rumors spread about you (that's so dumb) ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh, the memories comes back to me. I can hearken back to those silly days of spin-the-bottle and nude poker back when I was a teen. Know what REALLY happens? Everyone backs out when it's their turn to do the naughty! Yep, it's true. Most anyone at these parties ever got was down to their undies and "passed out" from being drunk or just chickened out completely. The more folks at the party as in dozens, the less chance of these games going all out. College is different. But not my much.

    I say pass on this one and find an activity with your boyfriend that is more discreet. The Moral Police here will tell you don't do anything at all until marriage which I contest nearly every day. If you do want to do something like this. IF. Only do so with very trusted friends and with discretion. Meaning what happens there, stays there. Nobody really needs to know your sex life, especially since you are still in high school.

  • Hate to admit it, but it sounds like a plan dreamed up by a guy. Only oral? Is that supposed to be something less serious? Please explain the only part. That's still sex and carries many of the same risks for STD's. Then with the technology of today, think about two words: hidden and camera. Far too many risks here just to be part of the crowd.

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  • I agree with the girls. There are plenty of opportunities to hang out with your friends. But the party is a bad idea. Sounds like an excuse to be sluts. You are better then that hun!

  • You are better than that. That's a game for sluts, it'll give you a bad name around the school. Do you want to be called a slut? Because the guys who you suck will def tell other people. You will be labeled as slut.

  • You should not play the game

  • Go. Have fun.

  • Sex spin the bottle? Whoa. How things have changed since my days of spin the bottle when it was all about different levels of kissing from the most innocent kiss on the cheek and the worse being a little tongue kissing. Crazy kids these days lol

    You shouldn't be getting sexual with people based on a game. You know that, come on.

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