I don't get very wet :( ?

[Anonymous]

I'm on meds (birth control and antihistamines for my allergies) that I think dry out my vagina. I get wet of course when having sex and being fingered and everything, but not wet enough. Guys always have to either lick their fingers or they will end up hurting me a little bit. No matter how wet I get, it always hurts when he takes his fingers or his dick out of me when I'm done or if he's taking a pause. I don't know what to do! The last guy I had sex with it took us three separate occasions to actually get his penis all the way into me (I was not a virgin but I had only had sex a few times). I thought I was just too tight but he said I just didn't get as wet as other girls. I feel like having to use lube is such a turnoff for guys. And this last guy we tried with lubed condoms and that's when he couldn't get in at all because of friction, so he ended up using a bunch spit to get his dick lubed up enough to get inside me. After he was in it was okay, but I could tell I wasn't as slippery as a girl is supposed to be. How do I fix this if I can't stop either of these meds? I know I'm getting turned on enough, especially with the last guy I was with because he made me orgasm multiple times with his fingers.

[3gmoney3]

I love lube. I've never been in a situation where lube didn't make the sex better. It makes the vagina feel extra silky and smooth inside. KY Jelly sucks, though. It's like medical grade. I'm a fan of the various Wet brands, but if you really want a nice experience, I highly recommend silicone-based lubes. They're a little more expensive, but totally worth it (and safe to use with latex). A couple of drops on the inside of the condom do wonders as well. As long as the base is tight enough, the lube on the inside of the condom reduces the irritating friction of the latex and makes it feel like there's something stroking the penis from inside the vagina.

[Asker]

Wait you put it in the condom and not on the outside? I've never heard of that. How would that help ME though? It wouldn't be making me any wetter.

[3gmoney3]

Both sides. It helps you by, well, lubricating you. It helps the guy by making the whole lube experience a lot sexier.

[3gmoney3]

Not a lot inside the condom, though. You don't want so much that it slips off. Just a couple of drops in the tip to make it feel less like a sandwich bag on the penis.

[Asker]

Thanks for the tips!!!

[3gmoney3]

Glad to be of help. Thanks for mho!

[Curmudgeon]

Just use KY jelly (widely available in drugstores and even used for many non-sexual issues) and you will be fine. or other lubes.

"I feel like having to use lube is such a turnoff for guys"--NONSENSE. Most men will be flattered. ("I am so big you have to use lube?" he thinks).

[Asker]

Hahahaha so I shouldn't explain "sorry I have a dry vagina" lol?

[Curmudgeon]

But you can explain. "I'm rather little down there, and I need you to lube up..." Watch the guy's ego soar, lulz.

[Asker]

That sounds accurate ahahaha thanks! That helps me be a little less self conscious.

[Curmudgeon]

And it is true that many birth control medications are drying, so there is that too.

[BellePepper]

Most women are on birth control and most women have difficulty with natural lubrication. If a guy is So turned of by a plastic bottle that will make things more fun for both of you is he really the right partner? Plus look how many guys are saying lube please. Just buy a bottle and take it with you. There are some types that you can even attach to your key ring incogneato.

[Asker]

You're right if a guy finds it a turn-off then he can suck his own dick because he's a douche

[BellePepper]

Who can argue with that logic? :D

[Justacatlady]

Use lube. I don't see it as a turn off. I think being dry and trying to spit start it is more of a turn off :-)

[dartmaul15]

change the kind of birth controll. Seriously, there are A TON of them!
find one that works for YOU!

So talk with your doc, describe th problems, and ask him/her with help finding one known for not having those side effects

[Frost_Byt3]

Go see a doctor and ask if there are any alternative meds that won't cause this problem.

[Zigzagz]

Buy some lube. It's fantastic. You can even get flavored lube. Water based or silicone based work the best.

[Asker]

I have some water based but what if I'm at the guy's place and he doesn't have any? Also do you not think it's a turn off to take out a bottle casually in the middle of foreplay? I feel like sex should be natural :(

[Zigzagz]

They also sell little twist top pillow packs of lube that are awesome to carry around in like a purse or pocket. I have to carry those sometimes because I have kind of a large circumference if you catch my drift. It's not that weird. If foreplay involves you whipping out his dick, than you can just massage some lube on there, and that feels amazing.

[smarackto]

Drink more water

[meatballs21]

Buy some lube. Astroglide comes in a small bottle you can easily fit in your purse.

Lube is NOT a turn off. It is a turn on.

[Asker]

I don't carry a purse when I go out ugh hahaha but that's the kind I have so I suppose I'll just make whoever I'm with buy it

[LennyR1]

lube is not a turn off it is a turn on if he is turned off by it he is very strange. Apply using handjobs etc

[Asker]

Really, it's not? The guy I was with last tried to apply it directly onto ME and I thought that was weird.

[Ihav2fart]

It's the birth control!!! I knew of a few girls who had this problem.

[Asker]

I know it suckssss! Any solutions?

[Ihav2fart]

water based lube.

[KidanisCortes]

Just use lube it ain't such a turn off or maybe you are worrying too much about it and thats why you can't get wet,

[Anonymous]

Go to the doctor

[Asker]

Not really anything she can do except take me off birth control which would cause me to have periods from the devil

[Opinion Owner]

How often do you masturbate

[Asker]

If I do I don't put my fingers in because my nails always hurt

[Opinion Owner]

I think this is so hot do you moan while doing?