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Why guys want sex everyday?

Why do guys want sex everyday? It's like they need it or THINK they do. I mean I can go 3 or 4 months without thinking sex but the guy can't go a day without it. They say "oh I'm not like that" but in my eyes they are. It seems all guys are like that. It pisses me off in a weird way, I wish I just understood why they're like that and if anyways I can say no I don't want or I'm not ready just yet and not piss them off. My boyfriend got mad tonight. I wasn't in the mood. I need help understanding a guy's mind on sex!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well instead of saying no or I'm not in the mood, next time he asks go down on him before hand or have him go down on you so that maybe then you will be in the mood. If you don't want to do that then there are some fun sex games you could try playing before hand. Besides you should be happy he wants to have sex so much I wish my man did. Just have fun with it and don't get so mad at him. Look on the bright side at least you know he doesn't think your horrible at sex. Just enjoy the time you're spending together and don't be afraid to have a little fun and try something new with him.

  • I think different people have different sex drives. I am a 25 year old girl and I want it all the time from my boyfriend and he never wants to. I think everyone is different, but it is strange to me that you can go four months without thinking about sex...maybe he is not satisfying you and for you its not really a great event. Maybe you need to plan a romantic night and make it something you guys can look forward to... send each other little dirty messages through out the day to get you in the mood and ready.

  • Hormones but some guys got it worse than others, for sure. Especially younger guys. Buy him some porn and tell him to have at it solo on the nights you aren't in the mood!

    • If this is truly your feeling, then good for you. You will do very well in a serious relationship. all of the women I have been with have been very intimidated by porn and me masterbatoing

    • You think it just has to do with "getting off?" sure its the climactic end, but the whole experience is beautiful and expressive

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you like men, it certainly appears that you are very unhappy with them wanting to have sex. Be happy it is not the other way. For me, it is mostly physical. I think about sex alot. But aren't necessarily in the mood to have it that often. However, I rarely go a day without getting the urge to 'drop a load' So, that is what I will do to get it out of my mind.

  • Its our nature to spread our seed or try to at least and whats the way to spread our seed? sex, its not that we always want to have sex its just in our nature to think about it and want to do it, we can control it well most guys can.

    • Speading your seed don't mean it has to be sex with a female. God gave you men a right hand learn to use it sometimes you know. Most of use females don't like a guy that wants sex 24/7 you have to find other ways to keep it on a low

    • Well, most guys have learned to control it, look don't get mad at me just because you think all guys are like that, maybe you should start dating guys who don't think about just sex.

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  • Well instead of saying no or I'm not in the mood, next time he asks go down on him before hand or have him go down on you so that maybe then you will be in the mood. If you don't want to do that then there are some fun sex games you could try playing before hand. Besides you should be happy he wants to have sex so much I wish my man did. Just have fun with it and don't get so mad at him. Look on the bright side at least you know he doesn't think your horrible at sex. Just enjoy the time you're spending together and don't be afraid to have a little fun and try something new with him.

  • It's in the genes, we can't help it. Don't try and figure out why, just try and figure out HOW you're going to deal with it. Because we're all trying to figure out how to get you girls in the mood (except for your boyfriend apparently).

  • It's not so much that a guy WANTS sex. He NEEDS sex, or, he needs some kind of orgasmic release, whether it is through his own hand, or the assistance of a partner.

    And when a guy has a high sex drive, it's not as if he asked to have it. He just has it whether he wants it or not. So, whether that means he has sex with a partner every day, or masturbates every day, he's going to get that release he needs.

    Sorry to hear he got mad. Hopefully he'll get better at showing less frustration.

  • Guys crave sex like oxygen, it's just the way we're wired. I definitely couldn't go more than a few hours without thinking about it. Though, that doesn't mean I will go around expressing that fact all the time.

  • We're just horny! Is that so bad? :D But I do understand your problem.

    I can't really help. If you don't want it just tell him. You're not a machine that doesn't have feelings. If he gets mad kick him in the balls or something ;)

  • Umm you are dating the wrong guy? I don't think about sex everyday.

    • I thought there was some men out thrre that don't think about it everyday sure sometimes its fine it can be sexy and shit but when its on the mind non stop its a huge turn off I think

    • I agree with him, I don't think about sex everyday, personally there are more important things in life, yeah I'm not a virgin, but I don't need sex.

  • It's a stress thing most guys don't really have nothing in mind but sex half the time and if they want it everyday, to me that's a problem. Or they are waiting for a girl to put it on them good so they keep f***ing

  • Women need a sense of fulfillment, man need a sense of a release, A woman can go shopping, talk to her girlfriends for her she's Satisfied, a man needs sex, like a women needs food water and compliments.

  • For a man or woman, not thinking about sex in a 3 to 4 month time interval is extremely strange.

  • That's the way they are wired. And by the way they don't care WHO they 'do' it with but only the fact that they do it. Pretty sad huh?

    • I disagree, I wish I could find a woman that could match my sex drive and only wants to be with me cause I don't want more than one partner and quite honestly if my wife wanted sex everyday for the rest of my life I'd be in my glory and only think of her. I think its a very special thing that makes each day end great(or begin).

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