My boyfriend got my little sister pregnant

[Anonymous]

She is 13 and he is 19. He cheated on me with my own sister and now she is pregnant. Is he going to go to jail because I hope he does.

[Bexiie]

The answer to your question is yes quite simply or there is a place that I don't know of that lets 13 year old legally have sex. Where I come from anyone who is over the legal age to have sex (16) is responsible enough to take the responsibility of finding out whether or not the person they want to have sex with is also over the legal age and if they are not they can report it and the one who is legal can be punished for it accordingly

Now I don't want to start a big argument with people who thinks its wrong but I think your sister needs an abortion 1 before her friends find out so she doesn't get bullied and 2 because 13 is just too young to look after a child and yes many people may say but there is the option of putting the child up for adoption but just having to be pregnant for that long is going to effect her school life and effect her physically and mentally.

Now before I get shouted at by the numerous people who I know would want to you cannot say you believe in something until you are put into a situation where it is a serious option. If you where 13 would you really of been mentally to look after a child? Many people find it hard enough at the age of 16. Ok I have finished my defence.

I hope you have the info you need from everybody

Beki

[rdabby]

how old are you though? I mean if you re also under 18 I guess that's illegal as well, no? depends which state.

you should first of all call the cops and tell him what happened, whether your sister seduced him or whatever, its his fault! he belongs behind the bars!

as for your sister, tell her to keep her legs closed, she is 13 for gods sake ! she doesn't even have boobs yet! the fact that she slept with your boyfriend sucks but if she is stupid enough to have sex at 13 then I wouldn't be surprised that its your bf. sorry!

Perhaps you should tell your parents to do something about it, talk to her about whether she wants the baby or is she going to put him for adoption. there is noway your sister is raising a baby cause she is still a kid herself!

forget about the bastard just tell the police and they will take care of it, think what's best for your naive sister!

[jbowy4]

yes it is possible that he could be convicted. Because he was 19 and your sister is 13, that is sex with a minor (that's statutory rape right?). If the police found out he could be fined and convicted easily, but it all depends on what country you live in, because I'm australian and as far as I know, I law is different to other countries.

[SergeantPain]

unless prents sign a waver saying its ok for them to be together and have sex then its legal and nothing can be done about... but if no papers were drawed up then yes there is a huge possibility he will end up getting put in jail and they will consider it being a case of rape... I know this because I had a friend that happened to and my uncle is a laywer in the supreme court district

[katiesmuff]

Not sure where you are from but here in the United States parents cannot sign a waiver for a 13 year old to have sex with anyone!

[weisle1]

In utah it is legal for an adult man to have a sexual relationship with a 16yo girl if her parents sign a consent unless he is more than 10 years older than her. Also it is legal for a man to have sex with a girl as young as 13 if they are legally married with parents permition

[masterofthegame]

19 cheating with 13 your ex-boyfriend had no brains I feel sorry for you and your sister that you guys had to deal with such people how have no brains at all.Stay on the right path the bad will be punished it looks like bad people always win but that's just wrong because you do not see the bad people all the time.I hope this story will end up good

[starglazer]

Yup his is going to jail and call the cops on him and ask your sister what happened from her point of view. Don't just get upset assuming that she just took him from you, he might have tricked her or something worse. That's so disgusting.

[wanacot]

Yes, call the police. I know of nowhere where a 13 year old can consent to sex legally.

[Thiezz]

The vatican, actually.

[weisle1]

In the Philippines it is legal for a 12 year old girl to consent to sex with a man.

[trukita]

If he is reported to the police, then he'll go to jail. If no one tells the police, then no one will know.

[neberle]

I find it interesting when people get to the shady edges of life the nastiness comes out. Some of these answers have such hostility. Regaurdless of who did wrong using dirty names and saying someone deserves something for something they did based of the story of a a girl who is by the way under 18.

Treat yourself and others with some respect people.

[kcm_05]

ya call and report it to the police. hopefully she keeps the baby or gives it up for adoption the child shouldn't be punished for another child's mistake!

[bersaba]

Because a 13yr old carrying a pregnancy to full term won't have any other lasting emotional issues. And a 13yr old with a child will be fine, or a 13yr carrying a child full term then giving it up for adoption will be simple. Right? Look, maybe she does one of those things, but to deny that abortion is a valid option here is just plain silly.

[kcm_05]

Can you imagine when she is old enough to understand the consequences of having an abortion how much she will blame her parents the guy etc... at least she won't have to know that she killed another human being.

[DangerIsis]

At thirteen year old carrying a baby full term would most likely result in permanent physical damage to the girl...and if not that, death. even though she has her period, young girls aren't meant to bear children. also the emotional consequences of rape and carrying a baby FROM a rape are devestating. and if you read the question, the pregnancy was a miscarriage. its cases like this which are the exact reason abortions should be legal- rape and child pregnacy

[kcm_05]

Um EXCUSE me. I posted before it was updated. and I've known of 13 year olds who did carry their children to full erm. quit being abitch and get off your high horse. TNX

[bersaba]

That's called rape. Even if she "consented", she's underage and it's statutory rape. Tell the police.

[babykarp]

wow.

[setcheck67]

lol anything over the 36 month rule is automatic jail time if charged and found guilty in a court of law. So yes he is definitely the f***ed. Your sister must be a major slut to get pregnant though at 13. I mean unless he really raped her(not statutory, but real rape).

[audreymarie21]

You just called a child a name that should only be applied to adults. if a 13 year old gets pregnant, then there was something wrong with the way she was raised. at 13 she is not entirely responsible for her actions, the parents need to take credit.

[setcheck67]

Girl once you have a child you can't be referred to one anymore. She is a slut, fool, and doesn't deserve sympathy. If you want to claim how someone was raised as how they are not guilty for their actions then recognize that EVERY RAPIST, MURDERER, and general ASSHOLE ALL STEM FROM BAD PARENTS. Just because she is "a poor little girl" doesn't mean she deserves an ounce of charity. She knew sex= possible pregnancy and did it anyway. The only way it would be different is if she had no idea.

[krissadd]

I think at theage of 8 you should know well enough about your actions and right and wrong.

[ilovemybaby]

I agree setcheck67... even if she was peer pressured into it she should still have enough dignity and respect for her sister.. knowing that was her sisters boyfriend.. not to sleep with him. this is going to leave her with a life full of regret. she's def. at fault

[shf84]

She' s not a slut she's a kid. She isn't old enough to even make decisions like that. She is the victim of a pedophile who was of age and manipulated her or physically raped her.

[setcheck67]

Not to throw a monkey wrench into your whole philosophy, but "children" generally start getting curious of sex at around 10. Start wanting it around 12(there are obviously late bloomers) and in reality the only reason they don't do it is because they have been raised to know it is wrong. However over the years of having that desire for sex gnaw at them they start to weaken and that's why all of you are here today :D

[weisle1]

Shf84- technically he was a Hebephile -not a pedophile. And regardless of what you may present as evidence, I know when I was 13 I was fully aware of the consequences of my actions and I CHOSE to do it anyways. setcheck67 is right. Children develop sexual desires much earlier than we want them to as a society. To put this girl in a victim category would be wrong. He should have had the smarts to deny her advances. They both are equally at fault. Because he is 6 years older, he gets the blame

[Kass1964]

Exactly, she's old enough to know right from wrong.

[Tipu03March]

He deserve ...jail...thats suits most for this act.

[sarahjohnston09]

You know that if she was indeed pregnant you they could have tested the baby even after it was rejected to see if it was his. So I think you are lieing.

[Asker]

Ok well she was pregnant and I am not being told much from my mom. I don't understand why I have to explain myself to you anyway what makes you think I would lie about any of this? That would make no sense at all.

[sarahjohnston09]

Because if she was indeed pregnant then the cops would be able to find the come inside her its that simple. That's all they do when they look for rape is to find the come of someone and it lasts there for a while. I don't know why you would lie about something like that just that a lot of people are known for lieing to get attention because that's how it is. And he would be getting a trial for rape if you were telling the truth. or maybe your sister lied about it. How did you know he cheated on you with her?

[Asker]

Well my mom didn't go to the police until like 2 months after it happened and I found out because I went thru his phone and saw text messages to her to take a pregnancy test. Then I asked her if she had sex with him and got her a pregnancy test. Then I told my mom she was pregnant.

[sarahjohnston09]

Well that's crazy. But then she had to have done it with him more than once because the odds of just doing it once without birth control is only like 10%. What a great little sister and a ex. You should make sure none of your men ever meet your little sister. I think you and her need a talk here because two wrongs don't make a right.

[RissieSue15]

i wish you and your family all the best!

[victoriaa]

sounds like your sister needs a good f***ing ass whopping.

[Standingpretty]

I'm so sorry this happend to you and I hope you come out of this stronger! What a loser, he deserves to rot in jail! I hope all turns all well for you and your sister.

[ambermarie]

if ur parents press charges then ya he's going to prison for stagitory rape.. I had a friend that was 19 and he fukt a 15 year old and went for like 20years

n that's pretty fckin disgusting of ur child molesting boyfriend

wut kinda idiot f***s a little kid?

he diservs prison time, and you don't need to waste ur life with that f***in loser

[Crazycanuck]

The cops useally take this sort of case very seirouslly so yeah he's going to prison...plus with what he did to your sister Bubba and Tiny are going to have fun with him...

[i_be_grey_c]

I don't think it's very much true that he raped your sister. Yes, he could have gotten her pregnant, but I don't seriously think so. She could've just had sex with him. No big deal except she's a minor and he's not. And yeah, he better f***ing go to jail!

[enlightenment]

damn...I think you would have to make sure the authorities know what happened for him to get charged. But yeah, he could def. do jail time if he gets found out. Sorry girl!

[FutureSoldier726]

Duh he is going to jail for pretty much rape.

[Titi18]

WOW! sick people. :/

[mibingha1]

good he is in jail because yeah thatts f***ed up expcessiaily since he is 19

[Asker]

Well he is only in jail for the robbery not my sister.