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Ladies, would you let a guy friend "practice on you"?

Ladies, I'm curious. If a guy friend told you he is sexually inexperienced and wants to practice cunnilingus so that he can please his future girlfriend, would you let him go down on you? What if he already has a girlfriend, but is genuinely worried he sucks at it and she's just not telling him? Or just wants to improve and surprise her?
No way. No matter what.
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Yes, but only if he's single.
Vote B
Yes, but I can't harbor romantic feelings for him.
Vote C
Yes, but only if he's single and sexually attractive.
Vote D
Yes, even if he's taken I'd consider his reasons.
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  • i said no way, no matter what when I voted, but I realize a lot of people wouldn't mind if he was single.

    BUT you're considering cheating on your girlfriend because you want to sexually please her? that first of all, regardless of how you justify it IS cheating, and second of all sounds really messed up. if you want your relationship with her to succeed you should be able to discuss your sexual life. even if she's not comfortable sharing in the beginning, intimacy takes time and trust. you're not giving it time, and you're definitely breaking trust. do you think she would appreciate your gesture if you were to say: baby, I really wanted to please you so I went ahead and practiced on so and so. if she's a relatively normal person, I would have to say that this conversation will not be going too well.

    anyways, I don't know if this is a hypothetical situation or not, but if it isn't, don't cheat on your girlfriend for whatever reason. if you're not happy- leave her. if you really just want to sexually please her- work on your communication skills in this department together.

    • This IS a hypothetical situation. lol. I just read something on the internet that made me think, "hey, I bet THIS will generate a lot of responses."

  • Well, I have thought about how it would be good to have some one to get experience with on myself, but probably not like a REALLY close guys friend.. Just like an friendly acquaintance, that maybe I was very attracted to physically, but thought was kind of dumb, or shallow or something.. Yah, I'd probably like the opportunity to practice on a situation that was non threatening & intimately inconsequential. can't say for sure tho, of the opportunity presented itself, of I'd want to.. I've had guys friends offer to have sex with me & def. did not interested. But I was not attracted to them.

  • Noooo! Lols! I don't know, that just seems like asking for trouble, especially if he already had a girlfriend. Even if his intentions are good, I would still think that it would be cheating if he had a girlfriend, and I just wouldn't feel right doing something like that. I would do almost anything to help out friends, but there has to be boundaries set up somewhere.

    • Do you miss Pushing Daisies?

    • You're talking about that one TV show, right? I've actually never seen it before.

    • Lol, I just assumed you did. Sorry.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • NOOOOOOO 1. guys don't need practice. if he has a girl, he needs to tell her that and do that to her. 2. he is just wanting to get some booty...who needs practice? I use to use that line a lot to get laid when I was single...but always felt guilty afterwards because I was lieing and the poor girl looked like a slut

  • Tried that. It worked for my friend, but not for me. I guess it depends on how cool your friends are.

    • ROFL. You tried this? ... I guess your buddy is a sexy beast. lol.

    • Yeah. None of my friends would have sex with me, but he has sex with his friends all the time. I really envy that guy.

    • It's because they find him attractive. Plain and simple. Don't let girls tell you anything else is more important to them, because, just like the average guy - it isn't.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • NO way! I don't care how close of friends we are I don't think anyone needs to practice! Just let it be. They would probably be lying anyways so they can just do it with you. XD That is me though. Of course I can't say the same for my other friend...

  • Yes. I would. We do it all the time.

    • Girls 2 ;)

    • Dayum. TashaBabii I'd let you practice on me any day. =P

    • Can i? ;)

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  • DEFINITELY not if he has a girlfriend- it doesn`t matter what his motives are, it`s still cheating, and I don`t condone that under any circumstance.

    I said "No way. No matter what" because I think it might affect our friendship negatively and cause confusion.

  • I love performing cunnilingus, as the more pleasure I give my mate the more I get off

  • I would consider it if I were attracted to the person... but I probably wouldn't want them to call it "practice", if they're gonna do it, they do it to please me as well as get some experience, but yeah only if we are both single

  • um... friends don't go down on eachother, last I checked

  • NOt over my dead body.. that is just plain disrespectful... and disgusting... how could the 2 of your who are "friends" do that? and wouldn't he be cheating on his girl half of the way?

  • I want female friends who said yes to this!

    -Deathecutioner

  • Yeah, it's just physical, right?

    • Not for everybody. (Just as long as he's not from 'Bama?)

  • That it the very definition of 'thin pretext'.



  • not at all ...thats the most disrespectful thing I can get from my guy friends. its very impossible ...thats a stupid excuse any guy would use to get into your pants. seriously that's so obvious I can't fall for that unless am so dumb.

    • Well its not a subtle trick lol. I mean he asked for what he asked for and if he was hoping she would reciprocate and she was like were done her I hoped you have improved your skill that would be funny

  • I would never let a guy 'practice' on me. If it's a relationship out of love, then it's nice to be together. Otherwise that's bull.

  • No, I couldn't do that, if he wanted any information then I would talk to him about it but not let him go down on me that's for sure, especially if he had a girlfriend, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be very happy that you are "practicing" with another girl, even if there aren't feelings involved.

  • loool to please his future girlfriend?! Pull the other one! And if he already has a girlfriend, he shudnt be asking you to let him lick you out, and you shoudnt be letting him!

  • I'm all about the cunnilingus. Love it!

    Mmmmmmmm, baby!

  • i would, but it'd just depend on which friend it was

  • depending on our friendship like if he was my bestfriend/really close friend then sure hell I'd be practising on him haha lol but if he had a girlfriend no way...

  • never.

    Unless you secretly like eachother, or she likes you.

    I wouldn't, it would like ruin the friendship.

  • ok, so if the guy is hott, then YES. and if your just really good frends, then it shouldnt matter because you both kno tht nothing can come out of it. I have a friend who is supper hot and asks for advice from me abt his gf, who is also one of my close friends. but if you are secure in ur friendship, then go 4 it.

  • It really does depend on how good of friends we were, say my best friend atm Jake asked me... of course :) but if he had a girlfriend, nononooooooo...

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