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Boyfriend Turned off by Small Boobs?

I'm 16 and a 36B.I asked a Q before about breast implants,because my boyfriend mentioned it.Well,my boyfriend always makes comments about how small my boobs are,and how real women have bigger boobs(cause it gives them curves) and he asks me why I can't be like other girls that we see with bigger boobs.I'm 5'2,115 lbs(pounds) and I'm pretty petite and small.I don't wear push up bras cause I think they're stupid and deceiving.I really do love my boyfriend and I want him to be happy,but I know he's turned off by my small boobs(he's told me before).We haven't had sex,but he's seen me naked.What Should I do? Is there anything I can take or do to make my boobs bigger?Birth Control?Any supplements?Cause I obviously can't have surgery for another two years
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Real men and especially kind, loving boyfriends don't make negative comments about their girlfriend's anatomy, or boob size. In return, real women and kind, loving girlfriends don't make negative comment's about their boyfriend's anatomy (e.g. penis size). So as for what you should do, first tell him you don't like when he says these comments, and you want him to value you for you and not your boob size. If he doesn't like this or respond positively to this - or if he belittles you for standing up for yourself - then dump him and find a better boyfriend who treats you better.

    I'm a size A, and have never had a guy treat me that way. Men are all over the board in their preferences - I've dated guys who absolutely LOVED and raved about my smaller chest. I also know that regardless of boob size, most men actually do not prefer implants. Lastly, I've dated men who I could tell preferred a bit larger boobs as they never commented on mine, but that's the point - they didn't comment on my boobs, and found other things to complement me on... A good guy will make you feel sexy no matter what.

  • Break up with him.

    I understand people have their preferences,but at 16,your boobs are still developing.Breasts can keep developing until mid twenties.

    I too am a 36B,but I've never had anyone complain about my boobs,if anything,girls have complimented me(Yes they were straight) and guys stare straight at my boobs all of the time.

    Your boyfriend has gone as far as to embarrass you and say that your boobs are a turn off.That right there alone,would make me break up with him.

    Boobs are boobs.

    I also have thought about breast implants.It crosses my mind every now and then

    And bigger breasts do not necessarily give more curves.I'm 5'2/5'3 and 120/125 lbs and they are proportionate with my body.I think guys generally only care about proportion

  • oh boy. Loose that pr*t straight away ! You deserve far better than him girl ! I am like you, 5'4 and skinny (petite) with size 32B breasts. It is NOTHING to be ashamed of ! Not all guys like huge t*ts, a lot actually like girls that are in proportion as I noticed 'Temptationfalls' said. My boyfriend loves me for who I am and I don't deserve any less than that and neither do you ! Your partner is so shallow its beyond belief and I can't believe that he thinks its okay to tell you that your boobs are too small ! Somehow I don't think he would appreciate it if you turned around and told him to get a d**k implant because his penis is too small ! He does not treat you well at all, you can get a guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve :D

Most Helpful Guys

  • Like everyone's said, he's a douchebag. for your height and weight your breasts are proportionate. Besides if he's saying all those things to you, it implies he's just looking at you sexually. Lose the guy looking for a trophy girlfriend to stare at and find a guy who will treat you as a person.

    If you insist on finding out, breasts are mainly made up of fat so eating more will cause your boobs to get bigger with a slight side effect of extra weight in other places but that can be managed by exercise. Likewise, losing weight will cause your breasts to get smaller.

  • he's kind of an asshole honestly. you can't really do much besides get the surgery when you're old enough if you want to do that sort of thing for him.

    tell him you'll get a boob job when he gets penis enlargement surgery

    • But that's mean to say to him

    • It's mean to tell you over and over he doesn't like your body how it is AND go as far to suggest you get implants :[ you have a great body and you don't need some guy (especially your bf..) telling you there's something wrong with it

    • I don't get why you think it's mean to tell him that? He essentially told you the same thing about your boobs - you're thinking of having silicone implanted in your breasts as a result. Same darn thing.

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  • ... dump him, if he can't love you for who you are, he's not worth the pain

  • I think a B cup size is probably the best size because larger boobs start sagging with age. Sounds like your boyfriend is a jerk.

  • DUMB HIS CONDESCENDING BUTT.

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