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Why do guys like large boobs?

I have small ones, so I get less attention to my breasts. For instance no guy has ever talked to my boobs (not that I'd want them to, but it's supposed to be one of those "female" things... I haven't experienced it and it sucks). It's like they're nothing special to guys. Why? All boobs are the same, some just are bigger than others, but they all are basically roundish, have an areola and nipple. Why is bigger better? Don't tell me it's not, because big boobs are everywhere especially in porn and men's magazines like Maxim and Playboy. You never see shots focusing on a girl's small boobs right? And why are we supposed to make up for it with a nice butt or something? I'm tired of hearing "Yes, she has small boobs but she makes up for it with a nice butt". Make up for it? So inherently they aren't good enough so I have to compensate with something else? Ridiculous! And then large chested girls get insecure? There are sooo many questions here from busty girls who feel insecure... Why? You can obviously see men prefer large boobs, that's undeniable! Just check out most *famous* porn stars like Jenna Jameson, Tera Patrick, etc, they all have large breasts... the only famous one who is "small" (more like medium sized really) that I can think of is Sasha Grey. And don't tell me guys like these women for things other than appearance. I'm sorry that I sound so bitter, but it gets to me. Why aren't my small boobs glorious and inherently good and a huge turn on just because they're small? But no, because guys love big, big big! I've never met a guy that doesn't like big better! They all settle for small, at least my guy friends have confessed they secretly wish their GFs were bigger on top. And my boyfriend just smirked and said nothing when I asked him if he'd like mine to be bigger. I also checked this porn boards that he visits when he needs to look at porn, and he mostly checked threads of these busty webcam girls, one of them quite popular called Carmen. It was all very soft core, so he must have looked at it for the boobs. It made me feel really inadequate and ugly. Why are big boobs preferred by guys?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There are guys who like smaller, but those guys aren't the alpha, successful men like me. Higher status males will always want a hot chic wit at least a C cup (no bigger than Double Ds). Get the surgery for real. It'll be better for you and for the dudes you're with. I think chics wit small tits ask these questions as a SHIT TEST to see who the quality status alpha males are and who the beta males are. haha. They secretly like when the guy wants bigger tits, because in her mind, that makes him look like he is higher quality alpha male (and when you think about it, it's true). The beta dudes don't really mind (or claim not to mind). Just something I've noticed in the past (I've been with tons of women, of all types, which is how I recognized this).

    No matter how many compliments chics wit small tits get, they'll ALWAYS feel insecure and inferior to chics wit bigger tits, and I hate to be an asshole (okay, maybe not, because my asshole ways do get me laid the most haha), but it's true, guys will always want bigger than a B cup. I'm Tall, hot, successful, big cock and can get pretty much any woman I want, which I usually choose least a C cup.

    It's a 'status' thing, even women want a dude who has some muscles and has a bigger than average cock (women who say size doesn't matter are lying and we ALL know it). It's the same with dudes and tits. The average or below average beta dudes may not mind as much, but higher status alpha males will choose women with bigger breasts. Just the way it is.

    I've even noticed that I'm subconsciously more of a rough prick in the sack wit women who have smaller tits. Ironically, they seem to love that shit though (like a degradation fetish or something). They know subconsciously that I can get a higher status female with bigger breasts, so they try harder to please in the sack and do more of what I want. One plus I'll give here though, it does seem smaller breasted chics have tighter pussies.

    But aside from that, I think most guys if given the choice would definitely choose a woman wit bigger breasts. He may tell you that it doesn't matter, while secretly checkin out the chic at the next table wit big knockers. It's just like if most women were given the choice, they'd choose a dude wit a bigger cock. They may tell their boyfriend or husband size doesn't matter, while secretly having a fantasy of a guy wit a bigger package. SIZE DOES MATTER! But you're welcome to try and change my mind on that. I'm in Northern California (nea

  • Personally I don't prefer them, they look odd especially since they make her body disproportionate... I don't really care about breast size, I mean if I was going to marry someone I'd not write up a list and say well she's got big boobs I have to marry this one. I think a lot of it has to do with what guys are stereotyped to be, guys are supposed to like big boobs, as you said its all in magazines and so on... they feel its what they should like to be macho or whatever. I don't think all guys are the same, they also don't consider points like when big breasts age they won't age as well as smaller ones would, or the fact pregnancy increases a lot of womens breast sizes anyway. I think it goes, the bigger the boobs, the more manly the guy feels as breasts are one of the things that defines a bodily difference between a man and a woman, I guess they don't want to go out with someone who doesn't look like a woman... so not a tom boy.

    • Thank you

    • Personally I prefer smaller boobs I dont know why I just do and always have. I find them a lot more attractive than larger ones and I reckon they feel better to

Most Helpful Girls

  • to be honest a lot of guys like girls who are in proportion. Also some guys just say they love big breasts to impress or fit in with their mates. And guys I'm not saying all of you are like this...just some! Also guys have told me this themselves so I'm not just assuming that this is the case. I am 5"4, slim build..petitie and have size 32B breasts and my boyfriend loves them on me because I'm in proportion with my body. I felt insecure about the matter but after posting a comment on the subject on this site I now feel confident with who I am. Guys don't always mean everything they say with their mates concerning breasts. I do agree though that it's stupid how smaller chested women aren't used in porn, after all they are just as good as any other larger pair of breasts ;)

  • Don't knock yourself. You're hot too. Not all guys are big breast fans. Many guys prefer small breasts. We know this because porn websites have a entire categories with small breasted women the guys ogle over and dream about. You've probably just been talking to the wrong guys is all.

  • Honestly, I don't think they do. My husband is the only male I know, that actually really likes big boobs.
    Some guys don't mind, but a lot like smaller boobs.

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  • You're right, larger breasts get attention, but I think it is just because they are larger... like longer legs, bigger penises, and a triple cheeseburger. I guess it is why SUVs kept getting bigger and bigger (until gas prices went up)

    But not all guys feel that way. I think large boobs can be a hassle for women...but I'm sure you know all that, with bra problems and back problems. But they tend to sag sooner, too. And when you lay back, that'll go to your armpit...

    But I just consider smaller breasts more attractive... svelte, lithe, perky... simply more attractive in general.

    So don't give up on 'all' guys...

    • Thanks, that's reassuring :]

  • Tbh I don't really mind the size. I think its a thing guys like to talk about, since seems more attractive, but for me its all about shape.

    But really, if I loved a girl I wouldn't even care if she was completely flat chested...

  • They aren't, most guys like smaller boobs.

  • I personally like boobs because they're soft and feel good in the hands, and that goes for boobs in general, not like I've had the oportunitie to touch them regularly but... the times I did, it felt like heaven. I like big breasts, I enjoy to put my head on them like if they were pillows, but smaller breasts aren't bad either, as long as they're cute and feel nice.

  • The "Bigger is better" mantra, I guess.
    I don't follow it.

  • I don't like large boobs. Anything larger than a C cup is a waste.

    • Definitely not a waste if she has kids! Ha ha ha

  • I perfer smaller ones actually over bigger ones. So not all guys like big boobs, I'm proof of that! If a guy doesn't like you how you are, he isn't worth your time, no use being bitter about it!

  • Sorry ! It's the way the Gene pool likes you? It actually comes with our instincts
    We R kinda looking for a mate who would be a good child provider.
    But now dAys. It means nothing. Yes a guys eyes R always going to go there !
    But as we get more experience. We know that there's no reason to pick a girl over another Cuz of Boob size. Personally I think girls with small Boobs R HoTT Cuz they don't always get Groped !
    And R more responsive to the attention
    I give to their Boobs. ;~)

  • Not all guys prefer large breasts

  • I fear them. I prefere medium to smalll boobs

  • Uhh, no way, it only gets too much attention.
    All tits are love!
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    But I personally prefer B size.
    They are hot! 🔥

  • More to play with.

    • THIS is the explanation I hear from guy friends the most. They like boobs of every size. Big boobs are just more to play with and catch their focus more.

  • I personally dont like "large" boobs whether surgical or natural i prefer BB or CC, we like big jugs because its the first thing we see when we look at girls it turns us on, small boobs on the other hand are a turn off. its like you either have big boobs or don't have them at all (flat chest).

  • any size for me

  • what the fuck is that long text?

    yes i like large boobs

  • I don't, I prefer small. Big boobs gross me out.

  • Large boobs are attractive

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  • The ratio of men who like small boobs and men who like big boobs is pretty much 50/50. The only reason so many famous people have big boobs is because society has been convinced that men only like big boobs. If you've only met men who like big boobs, you've just been really unlucky.

  • I prefer small

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