Crying after masturbation...Have any one of you had this problem?

i am just curious if this ever happened to any of you? so... yesterday after masturbating i was crying.. just like this.. its like i felt alone/frustrated/sad at the same time... so anyone faced this before?

GAGer! have any one of you had this problem?


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  • Well, after the sexual desire subsides you realise more clearly what you are lacking in life. Let's face it, sexuality is only truly fulfilling if it is shared with someone. Else it is just a substitute to cease the desire for it.

    What you need is affection, intimacy and love.

    • :( :(

    • I guess I was spot on due to this reaction. Which kinda makes it unfortunate. Anyway. I've been volunteer counselling for quite a few years now. If you need an open ear, feel free to write me a private message.

    • uh? so you had the same issue before?

    • Not exactly the same but the sort of faintly disappointed by myself sorta deal lol It's like "We meet again Palmela Handerson"

    • :( :( :(

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  • I quite often cry after an orgasm. I'm sure it's just emotional release, especially after a crap day when I'm tired. Don't worry about it! It'll probably happen after sex, too. It can put the wind up a guy the first time! They will ask if they've hurt you.

    • emotional release...

  • That's never happened to me, but it is understandable that it's happened to you and others. The release of emotions can cause that. Maybe this will help explain it.

    www.buzzfeed.com/.../crying-after-orgasm

    Gotta love Buzzfeed.

    • those built up emotions :'(

    • They show up at the worst times.

    • ikr :/

  • I have cried out of frustration after an orgasm before. Frustration and shame. Frustration because I didn't want it to stop and shame because I didn't want to be doing it.

    • :( :(

    • I know. It sucks.

    • yea :'(

  • Yes, it has happened once or twice. It's weird how an orgasm can bring all these feels out of ya.

    • am glad am not the only one... but afterwards how did you fell?

    • *felt?

    • Empty would be the right word I guess 😐

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  • It's actually very simple orgasms bring out a very heightened set of emotions. We associate orgasms with joy but some people cry with joy too. It's not difficult to see how tears of joy can turn to tears of sadness. It's not a bad thing you felt this way. Masturbation is a release the body and the mind needs this release. So it good to get it out and not hold it all in. Normal but thankfully not to often.

    • alright thanks

    • Are you sure your ok you seem quite taken aback by this?

    • so you cry as a man when you masturbate? or have sex? lol

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  • Sometimes orgasms can cause some crazy emotional strings to be pulled... maybe that happened?

    • yea i guess so :/

  • That's actually fairly common. It happens a lot more with men than it does women as far as I know. I've read a poem that was written in the middle ages that brings up this topic. Scientists still aren't sure the exact reason this happens. All they know is it has something to do with the body's hormones and chemical levels. It's nothing to worry about.

    • i don't like when this happens

  • No to be quite honest I have never had that. I tend to just fall asleep.

    • thanks for your opinion

    • No problem.

  • It has not happened yet

    • ok thanks for your opinion

  • I masturbate to take a break from feeling alone, frustrated and sad. So I guess in a way yes?

    • i got it

  • Nope, never has happened to me.

    • thanks for your opinion

  • No, can't say I have.

    • :( :(

  • Orgasm always makes me very happy :D
    But I understand your problem, it's like a surge of uncontrollable emotions

    • am tryna understand y this happened :/

  • Just today, I cried shortly before/ during masturbation.

    • i know the feel man

  • Happened to me.. Do you want something more about it?

  • I'm pretty sure I felt lonely at one point but never tear up or anything like that lol.

    • thanks for your opinion

  • Yeah zombiebabe I know that feeling. As for crying no. But seriously depressed and more frustrated Oh yeah. It's like sometime masturbation produce the opposite of what I require of, it's purpose. Rather than masturbating I desire just being in the company of some one who loves me.

    • :( !!

  • Yes i have honestly lonliness sucks

    • :( :(

  • That's normal. Emotions and orgasm often take crying at the fairer sex. Crying is a discharge of negative emotions and is very important for women.

    • yea those emotions :/

  • No. I'm like that about half the or most of the time if I can't keep myself busy. The other times I'm content at least.

  • yes once or twice

    • :( :(

    • most times it feels relaxing

  • Never happened to me :/ ... yet.

    • oh :/

  • Keep calm 😔 Don't cry.

    • its more easy to say that to do

  • it doesn't surprise me because mastrubation isn't satisfying at all

    • :/ :/

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