Would it bother you if you knew your girlfriend's ex had a bigger penis than you?

a few months ago my girlfriend told me her ex had a 9 inch penis mine is just under 7 inches, she says it hurt with her ex and mine is perfect and looks 'pretty'. she says she loves my d*** all the time. but I still feel like maybe she's just saying she loves it to make me feel better, but she really liked her ex's more shes 15 and I'm 20, she was with her ex when she was 11 and he was 23 (sounds wrong to me but she doesn't think so) and they were together almost 2 years and for girls, would you rather ur boyfriend had a 7 or 9 inch penis?
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  • It'd not bother me at all and it shouldn't bother you either. You already have one bigger than average and he ex is actually too big for most girls. Of course it'll still work, but it doesn't take an extra long one to please a girl. It's how a guy uses it. Besides, it's not suppose to be a toy or something she looks at most of the time enjoying. Also, it's not something that sticks out like a girl's breast. If you believe your girlfriend with other things, then you should believe what she tells you about the d*** comparisons. If she said the bigger one hurt her it more than likely did, If she said yours looks better I'm sure according to her, it does. Don't be looking at the negative side of what she tells you. If she tells you the glass is almost full, don't think of that as meaning partially empty. If you want a good sustaining relationship with your girlfriend, you better drop this issue and be happy you have what she likes best and you better start believing in the things she tells you. Penis size is NOT that important to most girls. Now if you had, let's say we were talking about a 4 inch one versus a 7 inch one, that might be a different matter for some girls. Start thinking of yourself as having the perfect sized one for her because she told you so, and that's all that should be important to you now..

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  • Let me be certain I understand what you are saying.

    Your girlfriend was in a two - year sexual relationship beginning when she was 11 years old, with a 23 year-old man who had a 9" crank?

    She is currently 15 y/o, you are 20 y/o and you two are currently in a sexual relationship?

    The law there in Rapeistan, Molestylvania, Alabama or wherever it is... is cool with all of this?

    Oh! and your unit is 7" and your big worry is that she might secretly miss the other 2"?

    There isn't even a tiny part of this scenario that isn't heinously F***ED UP!

    I Challenge you to provide a sane, well reasoned explanation.

    This has to be a troll.

    If this story is true, why has the girl's father not staked either of you to a large cactus and emasculated you with a rusty tin can lid?... Which is what I'd have done if I were in an unusually mellow and humane mood and I found out this was going on with my daughter.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It really shouldn't bother you. Trust me if she says you have a perfect d***- she totally means it. You have nothing at all to worry about.

    I really can't figure out a d*** size in inches having never measured a d***. Good sex is about a lot more than d*** size. 9 inches could be a little scary.

    Hang on she was 11 and she was sleeping with her boyfriend who has a 9 inch d***? Whoa.! That's intense.

  • 7 by far! She's right, if its bigger it hurts. There's nothing enjoyable about pain.

    Oh and FYI, you're committing statutory rape. Just be careful not to get caught.

    • "you're committing statutory rape.. " Depends on the country. Its legal here.

    • Well, I'm a cocky american and assume most of the people on here are americans as well. :)

  • SHe is with you now. you have nothing to worry about size doesn't matter

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  • Yes it would bother me! It would bother me A LOT!

    I try to avoid that question & how many guys/ girls have you been with.

    Things like that I guess I just don't want to or need to know.

  • Absolutely. I make a list, line them up, and measure every one of them. That's the only way to be sure ... :|

    Just be patient. When you grow up (and start dating grown up women) you'll be insecure about things that really matter.

  • Sounds like u and her ex should be sharing a prison cell

  • No. First off, I'm not sure I believe your gf. There are 9 inchers out there, but her odds of getting one her first time out of the gate are pretty slim. And girls are notoriously bad at judging distance/length.

    Secondly, only a minority of girls like monster cocks.

  • there is a limit. rather have an average or slightly more than average d*** than 9 inches which is just going to hurt and not be fun

    • Is there a limit? Yes and no. If women everywhere are able to push a 2500+ gram newborn out and we take that as the upper limit, then relatively speaking any penis will seem like a pencil in comparison.

  • Doesn't matter. If she's into you, she's into your penis no matter the size. Never had a 9 inch, but that sounds painful! I'd say you are a perfect size 7.

  • ... seriously... why do you ask this?

    She even told you that her ex's d*** hurt, being big has nothing to do whit how good it feels... you watch waaay to much porn >.<;

    My tip is, trust her... don't ask stuff like this here because it makes people wonder if you actually trust her at all.

    Do a little research, what's make a earthshaking night isent the size of the pecker but how you use what you got (that includes tongue, fingers and anything else you can think of but don't make it to complicated)