First time sex without a condom?

Question

My boyfriend is losing his erection when he put on a condom and try to have sex. You know, it's gonna be the first time for both of us and he is anxious. So, he aksed me if i want to try without a condom. I told no. I'm afraid that because of being his first time sex he won't be able to handle his ejaculation and that means that there's a high potention of me getting pregnant.
Am I right? Is there such a danger?

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

It doesn't matter whether it's your first time or not, there's still always a risk of you getting pregnant if you're not on birth control and you're able to get pregnant. Always. Hell, there's even a risk if you are on birth control, so it's never 100% safe, but yes, just because it's his first time, it doesn't mean you'll be okay. A lot of guys also have live sperm in their pre-cum so there's always a chance that even if he pulled out before cumming, you can still get pregnant.

WhatTheHellAmy · Accepted Answer

You're right, but there are female condoms, you can wear it instead of letting him do it

You can also take pills

And you can get "shots"... I don't know the name of it in English lol

There are many ways

AmandaLynn1930 · Accepted Answer

if you dont use any type or birth control then you're more likely to get pregnant whether he's a virgin or not.

jacquesvol · Accepted Answer

Do n't do it if you aren't really sure it's his first time too! Here's why: And then , remember sex leads to

SmoMan · Accepted Answer

Yeah there is a danger. It sounds like an excuse to me. A lot of guys will try to come up with bullshit reasons why they "can't" use a condom because sex without one feels a lot better. But if you use the right condom and lube it still feels pretty amazing. There are also alternatives to condoms just don't go without some sort of STD and pregnancy protection.

Sweet-and-Sour · Answer

Have him masturbate with a condom on.

bryon · Answer

Yes you are correct. Sex with a condom and sex without are very different. His sensitivity will be in overdrive and that within its self can cause him to loose him load muuuuuuch faster

Thor696 · Answer

The first time I had sex I came in 10 seconds - and I was lucky to make it that far. LOL

SomeKindOfPerson · Answer

Never have sex without birth control. Never. (Unless you want to get pregnant) Think about it. A baby. At 21. He'll have to deal.

myrcella97 · Answer

You're right you can't trust a guy not to come inside you. Even if he wants to hold it in it's pretty easy to happen by accident. If you wanna have sex without condom you need birth control.

Ydiaandyou · Answer

he can always pull out JS

psychomonkey · Answer

I recommend using birth control first

steveisbored · Answer

You are very correct. With no condom he will probably cum fast and suddenly

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Yep u r so right! I insisted on a condom when I lost my v card

Caliguy88 · Answer

Do what you’re comfortable with. Sex with no condom feels really good. Pulling out works pretty well... in my experience...

ONLY-P4ND4-KNOWS · Answer

Then give him a viagra, lol. Or just fuck without the condom and hope he pulls out in time for the slime.

Big10inches · Answer

Yes u should use a condom if u aren't on birth control but I know what he is talking about on the condoms I hated them

RileyMcDaniels · Answer

my boyfriend and i have done this method where he will not wear a condom until he feels himself getting close then he will put one on and finish in a condom.