Have you ever had an unprotected one night stand?

If so, would you do it again? I can count on one hand the amount of people I've had unprotected sex with, and of those people, only one was a one night stand. the others were all long term girlfriends. I was young, maybe 18/19 and it was with a girl my friends, friend knew. we met in a club and had sex in the ally. really seedy. Anyway, it scared me so much, I was scared of getting her pregnant, scared of catching an std. I was so scared I've never had an unprotected one night stand ever again. Luckily, because she was a friend of a friend I managed to track her down a few days later and we both had std tests. She wasn't pregnant, and we were both clean. ever since then, I've had an STD test every 6 months.
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  • Several. Back in my 40s I blamed women for my daughter passing away. I wanted to hurt them. So I got good at picking up women in bars. I even kept a log to track my success at it. It wasn't love. It was primitive sex. No physical harm came to any of them. There was something about screwing an almost complete stranger then dropping her off at her home the next day that I thought I was "getting even" with them.

    I had two rules: No married women and only women that were attractive and were not party animals. Have no idea how I avoided getting a STD as I did not use a condom with any of these women.

    After a few years of this insanity I realized it was me that I was hurting. I got into a normal relationship and have not done that since. And I do not recommend it.

    • Did any of them ever call you back?

  • I've had unprotected sex with eight women. Only two were girlfriends. Three of them ended up becoming regular friends with benefits situations. Another three were one-time deals (although one of them was a good friend and we both wanted to do it again, just couldn't due to circumstances)... However, of those eight women, only one was not either "fixed" or on birth control. That was scary, but also exhilarating! It felt unlike every other time I had unprotected sex. Knowing that pregnancy could come from it just changes everything. They better be someone you wouldn't mind either spending your life with, or sharing child custody with. That's serious business. Would I sleep with that person again? Yes, without hesitation.

    • How did you find out that they were not pregnant?

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  • It's happens to people... But it can be the worst mistake ever... Just ask Charlie Sheen

    • I think when taking a cock in the ass , most guys doubble up don't they? Sheen got AIDS by doing drugs likely with crack heads and heroin addicts he just invited into his hotel rooms all over the country I bet. Druggies that lived on the streets in cardboard boxes. Let's invite them up and we can share dirty needles. He looks so like a heroin addic i tvink

    • @sammy_007 which is why it scared me so much that I've never done it again.

    • Always have condoms man... Better safe than sorry

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  • Never have and never will... my health is very important to me.

    • i hear ya. i think the only reason i did was because I was young, drunk and thinking with my dick. never again

  • Nope. Condoms for the win!

  • I have a few times in college and it scared me. Now even if it means no sex I will insist on a condom. If not I have to settle for a handjob or blowjob.

    • What was it specifically that you were afraid of?

    • @Jjj998 Becoming a daddy or getting an STD

  • No and I can't see myself doing it. I'm too inhibited to sleep with a stranger, especially since I know the risks.

  • I did in college.

  • Yes, many.

  • Yes. Once. It turned out ok, but it was spooky

  • Yep.

  • Mmmm hmmm.

    • It's a thrill having an unprotected one night stand 😉

  • yes and i dont regret it. drunk unprotected sex was the probably the best i ever had no inhibitions, chill music playing. got plan b the next day those pills are expensive lol although I wouldn't recommend doing it often

  • Yeah.

  • Unprotected. .. nope

  • I've had a few unprotected one night stands. The sex was hot, dirty and uninhibited plus a total thrill. My most recent was back in February 😉

    You only live once so why not take a risk every now and then 😈

    • Weren’t you afraid of a unwanted pregnancy?

    • I wasn't worried about that to be honest and neither was the woman I slept with. The risk and pleasure was amazing!

  • Yeah. We didn't have any condoms. We weren't expecting to have sex actually.

    • This was my friend’s situation. It has been almost one month since then. The women said that she was on birth control (NuvaRing) to my friend. Do you think that she was most likely being truthful? Would she have given an update if she was pregnant?

  • No and i never would...