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I caught my girlfriend sending dirty pics?

my girlfriend of 1 year came clean to me in the 7th month of our relationship about how she was sending nude pictures of herself to another guy in the first month of our relationship. She swore it was only then and it stopped. 3 months later she admitted it lasted into the 5th month of our relationship and swore it never happened again. in our 9th month she admitted she liked another guy for a little bit and was flirting with him during that 9th month and said nothing happened. Two days ago she admitted she sent him multiple nude pictures and received some from him. since then she has been more loving then ever. She has been closer to me. more passionate and it feels real. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to tell her. I don't know if I should trust her. all I know is I don't want to break up with her. WHAT SHOULD I DO!
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Most Helpful Guy

  • The lesson to be learnt here is that as soon as your partner makes a massive no no, you get rid of them. Otherwise you'll get used to girlfriends/boyfriends constantly taking advantage of your trustworthy nature and it won't make you a better person.

    To be horrifically blunt, she clearly doesn't trust or respect you otherwise she'd have come clean straight away - she's lost whatever credibility you held for her so why don't you want to break up?

    • I don't know. I love her... but your right I don't think she trusts me. I just am always hoping things get better.....

    • I'm sure you love her, man, but I'll put it this way - does she love you? Because the way she's acting, I doubt she does. The things to consider with girls is one, how they ACT, not what they say, and two, how they FEEL. You could love a girl a hell of a lot more than the next guy but if she doesn't love you, it's wasted affection.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's obvious she is going to continue doing it, especially after all the times she did it and you still stayed with her. She just thinks she can get away with it, I would dump her.

  • break up with her! one, that's pretty trampy. two if she's gonna keep betraying you, she's gonna eventually do it in the future. good luck !

    answer my question please:]

    • Multiple people have said the same thing but idk.... I love her.....and its like I don't know if I can leave her.

    • Sounds like she's just gonna keep doing it. once a cheater always a cheater

  • Well if you don't want to break up with her then all you can do is just trust her although I can tell she will do it again and you have to be ready to deal with that.

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  • Don't break up with her. Don't trust her.

  • she a big liar. those thing don't just keep going with out "nothing happening" leave the girl. she might be hinding some more important stuff! :) good luck

  • shes a habitual liar and continuously leaves out certain parts when she actually decides to "come clean" with you...leave this chick.

    • I agree. I don't think its even questionable. trust and honesty are what relationships are formed on and she doesn't seem like a great person. sorry :(

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