My guy friends gang raped me?

i live with four boys as roommates I never thought much of it cause well I knew them I thought but.. one day I came back from shopping and they were all on the sofa drunk they were a lot but never this much I could smell it as I walked in. I began to pick up then one of them pulled my arm pretty tightly but I pulled away then he called me pretty and smacked my butt I smacked his face and them he got mad he pushed me to the ground and asked me if I thought I was to good for him and then he kissed my chest I told him to stop and yelled for the others to stop him get him off me but they said they "wanted some too" so they all came down on top of me and ripped my clothes and raped me I didn't even scream I was in shock that they could do this to me I haven't had the guts to tell anyone they all look at me strange now I hate them but can't afford my own place. what do I do?


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  • Leave TODAY. Go to a friend's or family member's immediately and only take what you need. If this isn't an option, you can call a rape crisis center, and they should be able to help you find free shelter. The next step is to call the police and tell them everything that happened. Don't leave out any details either. Then, asked for a uniformed officer to accompany you to the apartment to get your personal belongings. DO NOT GO ALONE. While you are there, find the clothes, underwear, bra, socks and shoes you wore the day of the incident. Put them in a brown paper bag and give them to the cop. They will run tests on them to extract DNA, hair or fabric from the rapists.

    These animals violated you. They cannot be trusted at all. I would follow suit with the police and make sure they are all charged. If you don't then they could do it to someone else, maybe worse. Don't be afraid, I know it's easy for me to say but you need to save yourself now.

    Please provide an update so I know how you are. Best of luck.


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What Guys Said 1

  • See this is why I tell all women to not let their guard down. Your biggest mistake was choosing to live with four guys it don't matter if they are your friends always stay with your girl/friends. It's the same as going to the club and parties you're like a gazelle surrounded by hungry lions just waiting fir the right moment to strike. Even the nice guys will strike if the moment is right keep that in mind.


What Girls Said 3

  • MOVE OUT?! You can tell the police too! ASAP! that way they can...check up there for evidence. I was rapped before too...worst thing in my life physically emotionally. you NEED to get out of there. That could happen again, but WORSE! What if they do it to you in other places...that would HURT. and if it did happen again and you tried to resist you could get hurt BAD, especially if they get that drunnk again. PLEASE, get out! Move back in with any kind of family or other girls that are your friends. Just don't stay there. I'm so sorry.

    • This is a problem the douche bags but yeah I gotta agree with B 3ooklie you gotta get outa there they are obviously no good and if you stay there it will happen again.

  • leaveee now you should have left when it happened leave anywhere pack your bags and runn

    call the cops too!

    and seek therapy I have been through rape and with time it will get better I promise :)

    blessings to you!

  • Get out of the apartment/house. Then call the cops on them. If you stay there with them, you are risking them raping you again or worse. If you don't report them, they could get another female roommate and take advantage of her too. What they did to you was wrong and should not go unpunished. If you can't afford to get your own place, you should move in with friends or family until you can. The priority right now is your safety.