Well out of no where after our 17th birthday. She wanted to try anal. Now I need advice for getting there and actually, well, doing it. Also what can I do to make sure she enjoys it and doesn't feel pain? And best positions, etc.
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I think doggy style is best. Use a finger or 2 first. Spend time getting her warmed up and ready for it. Make sure you use a lot of lube both in and around her anus, as well as on you. Most importantly, though. When you start to enter. Go very very very slow the first time you ease it in. Maybe just kneel there and DON'T move, but let her push backwards onto it so she can go at her own speed. It hurts sooooooo bad. Just be very gentile and listen to her and let her be in charge :)3