Girls, do you have dirty thoughts about male friends/coworkers if you're attracted to him?

So, I have a female co-worker that I get along very well with. There is a lot of flirtation between us, but I'm certain we'll never, ever act on it. Sometimes when we're flirting a lot, I get an erection---just a natural response. Of course, I'm sitting, so she can't see it, thankfully. It happens nearly every day. Today, she made a comment about how big my shoes are, and I said something like, "Are you trying to say that something else of mine must be big?" She giggled and blushed really red, but that was it. Anyway, I'm just curious if girls have dirty thoughts, too, if they have a male co-worker and a lot of sexual tension with him. Do you get wet, like men get erections? I'd love to know if my co-worker gets wet when we're flirting, but of course I can't ask!
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  • Yeah. There is a coworked that I find SO hot. I have never had thoughts like I do about him. I've imagined every position with him. I go literally crazy at times. I know he has a crush on me like I do on him so there is a ton of tension that we can't act on -- we're both taken. But boy is this the best fantasy life I've ever had. If he ever did act on it, I think I would be in trouble. I have never thought about these kind of things about anyone before. I imagine him naked, us having sex at work, us having sex at his apt, etc. It so crazy & sometimes I think that maybe if we DID go there, I could stop this craziness. Then again, it would probably only make it worse.

    • Wow---I say go for it! that is so hot :) Why not just do it? Are you very serious with your bf?

    • Its difficult because both of us have been with our significant others for a long time...a VERY long time. So, its really hard to know what to do. Neither of us are that happy in our current relationships but its hard to give up something for the unknown. I don't know if this is just one big fantasy or if it could be more. All I know is that I have never felt the things I feel for him -- emotionally or physically. I want to attack him! Maybe someday...

    • Same thing happened to me. Maybe we could swap stories.

  • Yes, definitely. This sounds bad but I thought my friends ex boyfriend was really hot and I would always have dirty thoughts about what I wanted to do with him! Literally, every time he was around I would imagine us getting it on... I even thought he was annoying and weird and I still wanted to jump on top of him lol It was then that I realized I am a perve. So yes girls do have dirty thoughts if they are attracted to someone!

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  • yes! :) I find my eyes do a little wandering also down to the crotch. Unfortunately for me though, my hawt coworkers are either married or taken. :(

  • If I'm attracted to the guy, co-worker, male friend or not, I will think dirty thoughts about them. Regardless.

  • Absolutely!

  • Well when I'm in a college class with a guy and flirting, I get wet, especially if it's physical. Is your flirting physical? And are you married? What kind of job setting is it?

    • Nope, not married, and neither is she. There's no physical flirtation, because like I said, she and both would never, ever cross that line. We have desk jobs, so we sit literally back to back in our own corner. That's so hot that you get wet from flirting---I really hope my co-worker gets wet when she and I flirt!

    • And yea I have dirty thoughts and wonder if the guy is having an erection too. Why would you never act on it?

    • Nice! I hope she actually pictured my penis when I made that joke about my size. We'd never act on it because it really is just a case of working close with a member of the opposite sex and having a lot of tension. We're not relationship-compatible, so hooking up would ruin our work environment. But then there are days like today, when I come home and get right to masturbating, thinking about doing her! Do you picture the guy doing you?

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