What is the best way to ask for sexual favors?

[navy-abh]

Best way to ask for sexual stuff (oral, foreplay, anything) if she has a boyfriend and what is the best way to convince her it's not cheating even though it is?

[kristi0282]

You have to think of it this way. If you had a girlfriend, would you want another man trying to convince your girlfriend to cheat on you? You have to do this in your mind and answer honestly. This is your hormones talking not your brain. I would try to meet a girl for purely friends with benefits, that is single to get your sexual frustrations out. I would not even try with her, that is a great way to get your butt kicked or even killed. Oh and think of it this way too, if she is that type of girl, what diseases does she have, and if she leaves her man for you, who is to say that she will cheat on you with another man. "Men cheat for sex, women cheat for love (emotions)". I don't believe in cheaters but I hope this helps you a bit more. My advice, "Don't do it."

[Anonymous]

Don't ask, especially if you don't know her enough to even know if she has a boyfriend or not! No wonder you are single, if all you're gonna think about is getting her to do something for you. You're just like a lot of guys that give the sweet gentlemen bad names and confuse girls! Shame on you.

[TheFlip]

I agree with Kristi here. If someone knew I had a boyfriend and asked for sexual favors then, I would personally be disgusted and offended. It's disrespectful and degrading to both her and her relationship. Don't do it. Learn to use morals....or at least your hand if you're that desperate.

[lovebird01]

Don't be an idiot! You know this isn't right. You wouldn't want a girlfriend of yours doing that to you. Plus, you could face the wrath of a jealous boyfriend, if found out. You don't need all the problems this could cause!

[Anonymous]

Definetly don't ask ! Just go with the flow if she wants to, you'll know it, and it is cheating so don't know what to tell ya there.