Do all teenage boys watch porn?

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 8 months. He was raised as a "semi" strict Christian, and his parents believe the whole waiting until marriage. Although we have done stuff (foreplay, and oral), we haven't reached sex yet because BOTH (yes, even my boyfriend) believes we are too young. He has a lot of respect for woman, and this topic of pornography came up and I asked him recently (after asking him a couple months ago) if he watched it. He told me he didn't, but he did by accident as a little kid. He told me it was just perverted and I told him my views (how I believe it is degrading, etc) and he agreed with me. I told my friends that he doesn't watch porn, even went to another forum and asked, and they all said since he is a horny 15 year old boy (and that we do stuff) he watches porn, and that they are 100 percent sure he does. I believe he doesn't. He told me his parents have so many filters on their family computer (he does not have his own) and even if he didn't have them, he wouldn't watch it. He seems to really care for me, and my happiness to him seems to be his first priority - a few weeks back I told him I wanted to stop the intimate stuff for a while and he was fine. But I just feel that watching porn in a serious relationship is visually cheating. It is just like going to a strip club. Guys shouldn't watch it. I mean guys who watch it while in a relationship/marriage are you not satisfied with us? Are you comparing us. Would you rather watch porn that please us? I know if I found out my boyfriend watched porn (I don't think he does) I would be very hurt because I feel that those girls are more attractive than myself and they please him more...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • baby girl, I hate to tell you this all guys tell there girlfriends they do not watch porn and most ALL guys are lying when they say that. Not because he doesn't love you or think you are gorgeous and sexy as hell, Its just a visual thing. Like fantasy? It not wrong or cheating promise, Its normal for a guy to play with himself and look at it. I used to think like you. getting all hurt by it but IT SO NOT something to feel hurt inside over. Just think of them as imaginary girls, he will never met them and will only be looking for a couple minutes. Personally, I like porn I think its hott. and me and my boyfriend watch it together sometimes. We try the stuff we watch on each. a lot of fun. But at first I cried when I found out he was looking at it because I felt like I wasn't beautiful enough for him. I got over it I think its funny now. Don't get upset with your boy either he does care about you and to him your fine that's why your his girl. Your like his fantasy in real life. But when he gets all horny you can't always be there. This is something you will have to deal with every boyfriend. Get cool with it even enjoy or get lied to. Be open cause I bet you could find some you think is hott. well, goodluck. :) and I didn't like that I'm not as attractive as those girls thing you said, F***ING RIGHT GIRL, I bet your gorgeous don't every think that way.

  • Although young boys watch porn, and it doesn't seem like a big deal when talking about the subject but its a totally different feeling when you find him watching it or on his phone. This has legit happened to me two days ago and my boyfriend and i have been fighting like crazy. I asked him why he needed to watch it when he had me and he couldnt anwser. He told me he couldnt get hard without it. Itt makes you feel not good enough, that you aren't exactly what he wants. It hurts knowing that he's watching another girl having sex. But reality the boy really does love and care for you, he just has a gross fantasy that he will get over. Plus, not all boys or men watch porn, some think its discriminating and a complete turn off. If porn really bothers you, talk to your significant other about it and let them know how you feel.

  • dont sweat it I'm positive its not ALL teenage boys just the really pervy ones lol. I have a boyfriend like tht 2 cept he didn't accidently watch it but like I know he would never and none of my guy friends would either, the worst theyve seen is megan fox in transformers and stuff like tht. there are nice guys out there and ur prob lucky you got one like tht

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah all boys around ages 10-15 have watched porn before some become addicted some think its nasty and some are neutral about it so he could he could not I don’t know him personally so I couldn’t tell you but porn is very damaging changes they way you view women even people in general and it can be extremely addictive

  • If he's in a relationship with you, he obviously doesn't prefer porn... I don't watch porn, I'm 16 and I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, either. It's not like I haven't, though. My friends watch it all the time, some of the girls I hang out with have watched porn, but usually when other guys are watching it.

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