First time sex without a condom?

Question

Is that a good idea or nah.. Because the blood and shit

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Not everyone bleeds after/during their first time. Regardless, risking pregnancy in hopes of avoiding 'blood and shit' is a pretty foolish decision in my opinion.

Of course he's going to want to hit it raw and think he'll just pull out. What he doesn't know is that having enough control over when you cum isn't something many guys have got a good handle on even when they've got a bit of sexual experience under their belt. It's definitely not something that a guy will have during his first time, nor will he be aware that the pull-out method is effective only if he pulls out BEFORE he cums, not after or during.

ohale · Accepted Answer

Unprotected sex is pretty highrisk. I mean I know you said he doesn't have anything but how can you be sure. STDs aside the risk of pregnancy is pretty high up there on the list of reasons why you shouldn't. He may say it doesn't feel as good, but it's your body you're protecting and he can either have protected sex with you or he can keep it moving. Always use a condom, not for his sake but for yours.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

I assume by "shit" you're including like... pregnancy and STD's and stuff, right?

CallMeG · Accepted Answer

It not just about the blood n shit. There is the risk of pregnancy. Pulling out does not work. But to be completely honest with you I don't like to wear one. Regular sized condoms are too tight on my dick and doesn't feel good when I'm fucking. I have to buy Trojans and those are damn expensive. But do wear a condom. Have fun 😉

aficionado · Accepted Answer

It's not a good idea, because you might end up getting pregnant, and may also get an STD.

sweetgal3 · Answer

Always use a condom.

summiter · Answer

No way. No condom = no sex. Do you want to be a teenage mommy?

Zendrya · Answer

That's a bad idea all the time because of pregnancy

Michaela507 · Answer

Use protection you don't want to get pregnant or get an std and if he really wants to do it raw talk to someone about birth control.

TripleAce · Answer

Up to you... i didn't wear one.. you guys just have to be dependable people that are trustworthy not to drop the ball under pressure

But if your not that kinda person, well if your boyfriend is not that kinda person... then do it with a condom!

Bigclit · Answer

i didn't use a condom... but it's really up to you. If you feel comfortable then why not if not then don't.

xslope · Answer

Blood AND shit? You are planning to go wild aren't you? Use condom even if your boy is too stupid wanting it. It's you who potentially gets pregnant.

NYkid27 · Answer

I don't think you want to get pregnant the first time you have sex so that's a pretty stupid idea

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

I lost my virginity without a condom, i don't recall it being an issue.

SeviXa93 · Answer

I didn't use one and there was no blood on his dick

GuyNextDoor00 · Answer

Terrible, terrible idea to not wear a condom. I didn't use a condom when I lost my V card and ended up with a pregnancy scare. Seriously, use a condom.