GUYS, What does it feel like, when a girl plays with your penis?

Everyone IS different, so in YOUR opinion please. :-) ( I do not have a Penis - obviously, & I will probably be touching one at some point lol... It is a bit of a mystery, & I want to get a better understanding of what is OK, when it IS OK, what is good, & what is bad... ) How long until you get bored with it being touched (minutes)? Does it feel better if you LIKE her? If you get tired of it, how do you let her know when to stop? When you want her to touch it, how do you let her know (Physically)? Would you put a girls hand on it if you LIKED her, or just if it was a hook up? Does it matter HOW it is touched, or does it just feel good however? Does it bother you to have it touched, & then not have anything happen after? Are you OK with a girl just touching it, without you touching her? Would you rather kiss while being touched? Do you like to watch her playing with it? Does it make you feel self conscious if she looks at you while she is playing with it? Do you think a girl who plays with your penis is a bit slutty - even if you like her? Does it make you HAPPIER when she plays with it? Could someone get you out of a bad mood, by doing that? Do you ever just ask a girl verbally for her to touch it? Are there times, when you DEFINITELY do not want her to touch it? When is it inappropriate for her not to touch it?
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lol I just noticed from some posters that I got a bit carried away & this is a very long list 17 - 1 guy counted... So, anyways I would LOVE for you to answer in full, but I understand if you find the task a bit daunting... Any little bit helps Thanks!
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  • Every guy is different as you previously stated. I personally love when a girl touches my penis. The tip of the penis is the most sensitive you can think of it as the same sensitivity as the clitoris. So it feels good when it is caressed, wet (naturally or with spit), massaged, jerked, sucked on, licked but definitely not bit. Some people like pain but I don't like spanking or biting the penis that's a turn off for me. I actually haven't gotten oral as many times as I have given it. I am more of a giving person but whatever lol I still have had my share of oral experiences. I would say anything gets boring if there isn't any variance so if you don't change up the speed or your technique touching it then its going to not be as arousing. As far as the liking or loving the girl that helps A LOT. Sorry if I didn't answer all of your questions but I tried to incorporate it most. Good luck =]

    • Lolol.. Actually, I got a bit carried away, I did not intend to ask that much, but I know very little about what happens on the guys end.... I was shocked that you all were not like - you are crazy for asking any of tat.. It just feels good. lol. So, thanks so much for answering... That really helped.

  • Perhaps the best way to compare it would be to picture your clitoris. In fact the clit is very similar in construction to the glans (head) of the penis. Just like with the clit, there are times when you crave physical touch- other times when it's a little overly sensitive (ticklish).

    However, sure it can change your mood- especially if your having a day where you crave some contact. Girls who play with it are typically well liked, I mean after all, it's unlikely you just bumped into someone on the street and they started stroking you off. If I was comfortable enough with the girl, asking verbally for her to play would be no problem. Self conscious? No, not really. And finally, absolutely, there are times when guys, juts like girls, would rather sleep, eat, or do something other than sexual contact. It's a mood thing. Hope this helps :)

    • Definitely. Thanks! :-)

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  • Wow, ok lets do this:

    1- Depends on the situation. Am I going to get anything further? If so I'm bored already.

    2- Yes, all physical contact does.

    3- Attempting to take it further.

    4- If I am comfortable with her I will tell her, or show her. If it is a first time kind of thing, then that's when you have to be crafty.

    5- Both.

    6- Yes, please do not mangle it but at the same time, it isn't going to break.

    7- Yes. Yes it does.

    8- I suppose. It would be more fun if it was mutual.

    9- Yes.

    10- Yes.

    11- Like, in the eyes? No. Like at my penis? No, but I can see how it would for some guys.

    12- No.

    13- Most definitely.

    14- I wish someone would.

    15- Yes.

    16- No. I would be hard pressed to think of one.

    17- This is worded odd, so I will disregard it.

    • Wow. You actually numbered them - thanks... Yeah I got a bit carried away, & I REALLY appreciate yo taking the time & mental energy to answer the questions, Thanks! Oh um 17 was supposed to be " When is it inappropriate for her TO touch it? " I accidentally turned it into a double negative. ^

  • How long until you get bored with it being touched (minutes)?
    Not for a long time. But, she does need to have some variety with her touching (e. g. sucking, licking, tickling, playing with my balls, etc.)
    Does it feel better if you LIKE her?
    Yeah, usually. But I usually like the girl if I'm letting her touch my dick.
    If you get tired of it, how do you let her know when to stop?
    Probably try and go down on her or start playing with her boobs. But, I don't usually get tired of it.
    When you want her to touch it, how do you let her know (Physically)?
    Wiggle my hips, walk around with my fly unzipped, walk around in my underwear/sweatpants with a visible boner, etc.
    Would you put a girls hand on it if you LIKED her, or just if it was a hook up?
    I would never really "put her hand there." It feels better to let her unzip me and pull down my underwear than force her.
    Does it matter HOW it is touched, or does it just feel good however?
    It totally matters how it is touched. It needs variety! Just rubbing my penis up and down isn't the most pleasurable; some touching of the glans and balls is needed as well, as well as a blow-job.
    Does it bother you to have it touched, & then not have anything happen after?
    Well, of course, I like to ejaculate at least once. So, the more the better. I would like to touch her as well, if she would let me. If not, then that's okay.
    Are you OK with a girl just touching it, without you touching her?
    Yes. I would really like to touch her, but only if she let me. I would certainly not pressure her!!
    Would you rather kiss while being touched?
    Nah, I'm not much of a kissing fan.
    Do you like to watch her playing with it?
    Most of the time, yes. But sometimes it's nice to just sit back, relax, and let her do the work.
    Does it make you feel self conscious if she looks at you while she is playing with it?
    Yes…
    Do you think a girl who plays with your penis is a bit slutty - even if you like her?
    What? Um no…
    Does it make you HAPPIER when she plays with it?
    Yesss
    Could someone get you out of a bad mood, by doing that?
    Probably 😳
    Do you ever just ask a girl verbally for her to touch it?
    Not really, that seems kind of abrupt. Only if she's sorta about to touch it anyway.
    Are there times, when you DEFINITELY do not want her to touch it?
    No…not really. It always feels good. If I'm busy, maybe, though, or in public.
    When is it inappropriate for her not to touch it?
    If we're about to have sex.

  • 1 - How long until you get bored with it being touched (minutes)?

    Never - I love my penis being touched and kissed and squeezed and pleased 😉👍

    2 - Does it feel better if you LIKE her?

    I would say yes but just the feeling of a smooth soft hand on my penis - mmmm (hood thing only my wife touches my penis 😉


    3 - If you get tired of it, how do you let her know when to stop?

    I don’t get tired of it but if she’s giving me a handjob I know when her arm is giving out so I’ll ask her if she’s getting tired and wants me to take over. 🙂

    4 - When you want her to touch it, how do you let her know (Physically)?

    I’ll gently take her hand and place it on the front of my pants or underwear briefs 🙂

    5 - Would you put a girls hand on it if you LIKED her, or just if it was a hook up?

    If I wasn’t married - maybe both

    6 - Does it matter HOW it is touched, or does it just feel good however?

    Just feels good

    7 - Does it bother you to have it touched, & then not have anything happen after?

    If you mean if she doesn’t bring me to orgasm? No I’ll finish myself 🙂


    8 - Are you OK with a girl just touching it, without you touching her?

    Yes, but I’m bonkers over 69 or just me licking my wife’s clitoris 😉👍

    9 - Would you rather kiss while being touched?

    yes


    10 - Do you like to watch her playing with it?

    Oh hell yes 😃👍

    11 - Does it make you feel self conscious if she looks at you while she is playing with it?

    No I enjoy watching her pleasuring my penis 👍🙂

    12 - Do you think a girl who plays with your penis is a bit slutty - even if you like her?

    No I don’t believe so

    13 - Does it make you HAPPIER when she plays with it?

    Of course yes

    14 - Could someone get you out of a bad mood, by doing that?

    Only my wife 👍❤️

    15 - Do you ever just ask a girl verbally for her to touch it?

    Yes I’ll ask my wife to masturbate my 6.2” long erect penis 😉👍😃


    16 - Are there times, when you DEFINITELY do not want her to touch it?

    Yes if I just came in from yard work and I’m hot and sweaty and need a shower


    17 - When is it inappropriate for her to touch it?

    I would think - When I’m crapping or if I’m sick and throwing up.

  • I don't allow anyone to do that

  • I just want to answer all of those questions in a few sentences..
    I as a guy (most of the guys too) love my girl to touch it and play with it whenever she wants to..
    I have actually never experienced it before but as you just said that you will touch a penis at a point in your life for sure... It's the same with me ik I'll touch a girl's boobs and play with it when my girl plays with penis.
    I actually just imagine how my girl should start touching my penis... and I would like to suggest it to you ( as I love it)
    **If you or him have never touched each other at those places... Then do this " first take his hands put them on your boobs and make him press them and kiss him if u want and you start putting your hand on his penis and start doing your stuff" 😂😂😂
    Ik that sounds crazy but if I had a chance I would like my girl to do this!

    Hope this was helpful..

    And if you have anymore questions about all this stuff... You can just message me 😂😂 ( if you prefer) 😂

  • 1) Probably wouldn't lol, touch as long as you want to
    2) Well if you like her and attracted, yes (like you women with guys), but regardless the body will still "react" to the stimulation, eventually lol.
    3) I would just say I need a break
    4) Reminds me of a girlfriend I had in high school, I'd "accidently" let her see me in my underwear (erect) lol. But for me I wouldn't want to ask per say (or hopefully I could just say it to her), but I'd only want her to touch me if she wanted to for herself. Like if it was just to please me, it wouldn't be as enjoyable.
    5) I wouldn't put her hand there (again, would want her to want to and that would feel like I was "forcing her")
    6) Yes and no. I mean it does all feel good, but I like more soft and sensual touching. Some guys like more pressure or speed, but not me.
    7) Depends on the circumstances. Like if she makes that clear before she starts that she just wants to play with it, then it's probably fine. Or if she's going to keep playing with it until I orgasm lol, fine. But if she gets me all excited, then stops and then tells me nothing is happening, that would be disappointing/upsetting.
    8) Yes, again if stated at the start. It would be disappointing though if I couldn't touch her as well, but I'd like and let her touch me.
    9) Depends on the circumstances again lol, "rather"?, not necessarily although I really enjoy kissing. But that is also going to excite me even more, and if nothing is happening (further), then it might be better we don't kiss? LOL
    10) Absolutely! Turn on.
    11) Yes a little, but if it's obvious she likes and is enjoying it, that feeling fades pretty quickly.
    12) Not at all. Normal. Wouldn't most girls like to?
    13) Not sure what you mean, but yes lol. I want her to feel like she can play with it or touch it whenever she wants to, and I always like it.
    14) Yep, it would definitely help! lol
    15) No, but depending on our relationship, could. But again, would want her to on her own.
    16) No lol. I mean, like your vaginas, our penis is sensitive right after orgasm, so that could be the only time. But even if I'm not erect I like it played with (if she likes it).
    17) Just the obvious, like around certain company or public places.

    What about this reversed and guy's touching you?

  • Its just like your clitoris. only we have one oragasm you have multiple.