Whats it mean if a guy keeps coming to you for sex?

[Anonymous]

Okay so this guy I know and I have had sex 3 times. he's got a girl but he keeps coming back to me for more. What's that mean? just a booty call? or is it something more?

[JaneyLee]

Just a wild guess, but guys without true committment figure there is nothing wrong with a little variety. However, what a lot of these guys fail to do is inform their steady girlfriend. He's a player and if he dumps her and hooks up with you, he wil probably do the same thing to you. Good Luck and unless you really like him for the sex, don't see him because you are doing something to another girl who probably doesn't deserve to be lied to.

[Asker]

I don't like him in that way at all, were really good friends I mean we hangout alot, but sometimes he just randomly starts hitting on me and this sounds bad but I can't control myself, he's wayyy to sexy to ignore.

[Stacyzee]

Wow you're wrong. I hope the same thing gets done to you. Karma's a bitch!

[emmaraesunshine]

Karma's only a bitch if you are. But you ARE being a bitch. I feel bad for his girlfriend.

[Asker]

Im not a bitch, she needed pay back anyways. She did something to me so I paid her back and she don't even know.

[trukita]

Just a booty call. Sorry. Even if you two are friends, his reasons for having sex with are purely, well, sexual. If he wanted to be with you, he would be.

I was in a similar situation, but I found out he had a girlfriend after we'd hooked up a few times. I don't want to be "that" girl so as hard as he is to ignore (god, he's so fine!), I'm resisting the temptation to give in and hook up with him again. Good luck in doing the same!

[hesaysim2sexy]

sorry honey but yes it is just a booty call nothing more... maybe he cannot get enough sex from his girl that's why he has you on the side. so stay away from him now!

[Asker]

Him and his girl have sex constantly. And since the other day the time before that we didn't have sex for almost five months because I tried to steer clear of him. He randomly started hitting on me the other night. lol.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Regardless he is cheating on his girl and he is hitting on you because he knows your body 3 times and he is hoping to score again!

[Asker]

Well, if it happens it happens.

[Jonny_]

I'd say he is attracted to you, but only uses you for sex. Even if he and his girlfriend have sex alot, he just wants to stroke his ego by showing himself he can have sex with more than one person. He shouldn't be doing that to his girlfriend anyway.

[Asker]

I agree.

[Stacyzee]

Keyword "He keeps coming back to me for more." notice he isn't trying to pursue anything with you besides sex. Yes you are a bootycall.

[Asker]

And I don't mind that. its good.

[Bubbles]

How could you do something like that! He has a girlfriend you should no better then to go that low, doesn't matter if he is a friend/good friend or not. Plain and simply you don't do something like that... And yes it is a booty call, you might not want to hear it but it's true cause he only want's you for the sex nothing more then that. If it was something more he would have broke up with the other girl by now, and went for you.

[Asker]

Im fine with the booty call. its well worth it I promise.

[TweetiByrd]

His girl ain't puttin' out, you are. Pretty much a booty call. What I think anyway

[Asker]

Naww, she puts out lol. they have sex like 24/7 lol.

[life_w_joy]

Sorry to sound like a broken record but ur jus a booty call. The sex is jus really good. Now if he was tryin to take u out and actually do things for and with u then he caught feelings but if y'all jus banging and nothing new is there jus booty call.

[Anonymous]

Whore

nuff said

[Asker]

Im not a whore, I promise. I've only been with a few people and plus he's my good friend. not just some random dude.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't matter, you're sleeping with someone who is in a relationship...whore

[Asker]

That don't make me a whore. a whore is someone who has sex with everyone and anyone and I def don't do that.

[Opinion Owner]

What your thinking of is a slut,...you're sleeping with someone while knowing fully that they're in a relationship...you're in denial.

[Desires]

Yeah, I agree. WHORE

[Asker]

And yall are dumb because if you knew me you'd know I'm not a whore. and yall don't everyone that knows me knows I'm not a whorre.

[Opinion Owner]

Your a whore. stop sleeping with some poor girl's man. YOUR IN DENIAL

[Asker]

Naw, I'm really not. matter of fact I think he wanted to last night.:) I might need to get ahold of that..thats a whore. he wanted to, but I didn't come over. don't accuse til you get your facts straight.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't matter if he wants to or not, you said yes and slept with him, whore. seriously stop being in denial, it won't change the facts. How would you like it if your boyfriend was sleeping with another girl behind your back ?

[Asker]

If I didn't know about it, then it wouldn't bother me duh!

[Anonymous]

Just a booty call. He's an asshole for doing that to his girlfriend. And you're no better for doing that while knowing he has a girlfriend.

[Asker]

Oh well I never ask him to anyways, he always comes to me, I steer clear.

[toulouse]

Steer a little MORE clear... Think CHINA *

[Asker]

Naw he's one of my good freinds we hangout all the time.

[mcarthyjohn]

If you enjoy it..nothing wrong with getting a little pleasure from a friend..better than some random

[Asker]

Exactly, thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

Not exactly. Your friend has a girlfriend. Don't enjoy it because it shouldn't be done. I hope when you have a boyfriend, him and his friend f*** just because they're friends ya know? And I hope you'll be okay with it, since you're doing the same thing.

[Asker]

She don't know, who's it gonna hurt if she don't know? And plus I like being single I don't want a guy because ALL guys are the same.

[Opinion Owner]

All the same as in they cheat? You can thank yourself for that. Who's it gonna hurt? Holy Shit I hope finds out.

[Asker]

I didn't try anything with him HE tried with me and plus if she does she won't do nothing.