Can a girl get pregnant on purpose w/o the guy's knowledge?

[Anonymous]

I'd like to hear from girls that have gotten pregnant on purpose w/o the guy knowing it was on purpose. Was it easy to fool him? Why did you do it? Did the relationship work out? Also any guys out there whose girlfriend got pregnant when you thought you were "safe". And, anyone else who wants to give an opinion on this. I have heard from a number of guys that seem to think its pretty hard for a girl to fool a guy into this, but being a woman, I think it would be pretty easy to do if you wanted to.

[Anonymous]

I know lots of women who have done this, it is easy, I have also nocked back sex from women who were trying to do this. Usually they want child support, get the guy to stick around help, car, etc, or just to stay on welfare benefits.

Im usually wary of the women whose first communication with you runs along the lines of "nice car". I have also now of men who have had vascectomies, been hit up with the I'm pregnant game, it maybe to get them to commit or to get financial benefits. Or some women just want to have a baby especially in their 30s and the biological clock is ticking.

This is one of the reasons for the need for male contraceptoin, their are a few alternatives the heat method is the obvious one but a bit tedious. Would love to use a revirisble male contraceptive, none on the market although RISUG is in phase three of trials.

Its easy for a woman to empty a used comdom in herself, or to transfer the contents of he mouth to her vagina. Do you wonder why oral and anal sex have become so popular.

In the poll of 5,000 women for That’s Life! magazine

Forty-two per cent would lie about contraception in order to get pregnant, no matter the wishes of their partner.Half said that if they became pregnant by another man but wanted to stay with their partner, they would lie about the baby’s real father. And an alarming 31 per cent said they would not tell a future partner if they had a sexual disease: this rises to 65 per cent among single women.

It's now widely accepted among those who work in genetics that roughly 10 per cent of us are not fathered by the man we believe to be dad.Geneticists have discovered this phenomenon while conducting large population studies

[Asker]

Interesting. Thanks for sharing. I also believe it is easy for a woman to fool a man if she wants to get pregnant. Sorry to the women out there who don't like me saying that because I am a woman. But, I know of women who have done it. In their cases, it wasn't trying to get child support as they were married but decided they wanted another baby when their husband didn't.

[Opinion Owner]

If he was smart he would have got a vasectomy, or used the heat method, its funny when a woman tries it on someone who is sterile.

[Akin4913]

Children should be a mutual decision between two partners. If you really want a child and he doesn't agree then you should probably date somebody else. He will not be happy with you if he knows he was decieved. It will not be healthy for your relationship. Also if you alone really want a child adoption is a fantastic option.

[Asker]

I understand but what if you had no idea she did it on purpose? You just thought it happened by accident. So, you can't necessarily be mad if you don't realize she did it purposely. And, I guess that is my question...can a girl fool a guy about this?

[Akin4913]

Sure but if it was me I'd be asking her questions if I knew that I was safe. If she got through the questions then I would have no choice but accept it.

[Asker]

Okay, that makes sense. You are a smart guy.

[intra]

Not only can a girl fool a guy about geting pregnant they can fool a guy into believing that he is the father when he is not, don't you love DNA tests, new research is being done on non-invasive DNA paternity testing as soon as 14 weeks into a pregnancy

[Akin4913]

I think the ratings on Maury just went up. And thanks for the compliment :)

[jtj25m]

I can't imagine it's hard to not take your birth control pills and lie about it. However, if I was ever deceived in such a manner, I would promptly leave the woman and not look back. Unfortunately though, I'd probably be roped into paying for a child I didn't want to have. But just as it wasn't my fault, nor would it be the fault of the child, so I'd take that part like a man and do right by the child.

[Asker]

What if you were really in love w/her but then she announced that she was pregnant and although she did it on purpose, you didn't know she did it on purpose. So, you love her & now have a child coming.

[jtj25m]

If I were none the wiser. I guess I'd still be a fool in love. My above scenario implied I found out. But I would have no reason to leave her if I didn't know.

[intra]

I now someone who had a one night stand and ended up with twins, he spent his time unemployed so as not to pay the mother, used a false ss no every now and then to get by, not a good way to spend your time.

[jtj25m]

I wouldn't imagine so.

[blah52]

We'll that's a great way to ruin a relationship. And remember, there are some people that don't get mad, they get even.

[Asker]

I'm not condoning it...believe me. Just asking the question since it came up w/one of our friends whose girlfriend "suddenly" was pregnant right around the time he was ending the relationship. My girlfriends & I feel she did it on purpose.

[Akin4913]

She could have put holes in the condoms and not taken birth control.

[Asker]

Yeah, easily. Or, if she wasn't on birth control, she could have said it was a "safe" time of her cycle when it really wasn't.

[intra]

You have to may child support, nothing you can do about it unless its parental fraud...

[Alistair]

if my girlfriend got prego on purpose without my knowledge id be p*ssed off to the fullest extent and NEVER FORGIVE HER, and break up with her... and just tell her ill be sending her the child support check cause its the ultimate betrayal!

[Asker]

But, what if you didn't know it was on purpose? What if she had an excuse...for example, she said she WAS taking the pill but still got pregnant (that has happened to some women). Or, what if she said it was "safe" to have sex because of the time of her cycle but it wasn't. You would not necessarily know it was on purpose.

[Alistair]

I have a feeling your planning it or something... either way if it happens and the child isn't mutual you BETTER PRAY he never fines out cause it will be all hell to pay and its a HORRIBLE deed to do to the guy cause its just being sprung on him and having a kid is no joke and completely life changing, it really comes down to if you care about him or not... or is it all about you

[Asker]

NO, honestly, that is not why I asked the question! I have 4 kids & that is more than enough 4 me! I have had friends that this "happened" to and I just could never understand how it happened accidently given the methods we have nowadays. I have 2 friends that were married but wanted another child & were able to fool their husband. I was just curious to see if any women would "own up" to doing this. And, 2 hear others opinoins. I was on another site & the men on that site seemed oblivious to it

[intra]

Most pregnancies with people on the pill is because they fail to use it properly. The woman making a mistake in her cycle ha, billings method of contraceptive is 98.5% effective. Only a planed mistake would cause this, using pill, condom spermicide or billings method or heat method should reduct pregancy to zero.