Why won't my boyfriend go down on me?

[Anonymous]

So, I have been with this guy for almost 2 years and we also have a 5 month old daughter. We have always had great sex, and I am told I give the best head he has ever had...well I have heard that before :) Anyway he has never even attempted to go down on me! I do not get it. I keep it shaved and clean and fresh, especially when I think were going to get busy. I have mentioned the fact that I want...and would love him to at least try, but he always blows it off. I have never encountered this problem in past relationships. I mean is it too much to ask to eat my sh*t,since I will suck his d*** (smelly balls and all) I swallow like a good girl should...Am I wrong to want to scream WHAT THE F***!? Next step is getting it somewhere else I guess...

[Bruce]

I ahve to weigh in on this, because I have been in the same place as your BF. I absolutely LOVE giving oral sex and have many many times, but when I got married...for some very stupid reason...I did not want my wife to go down on me and I didn't go down on her...My wife was quite hairy, but that was not the problem...and honest to god, I really don't know why ?

You should sit down and talk to him...my wife never did, and tell him how you feel about it and ask him point blank if there is something about it...that turn him away from putting his mouth there.

As I look back on my failed lmarriage...I don't know why we didn't have oral sex...

Good luck.

Bruce

[Christian_Love]

Ok so your talking about getting eaten out from another guy because your current man won't go down on you? Wow that's pretty heartless, to me at least, you must not love this guy at all if you even think about doing a move like that.

You should prpably reconsider how important he really is to you if some little pleasure is more impartant than your relationship...

[elektrisitee]

He either doesn't know how to do it or does not like it. It sucks that he is open-minded enough to try. Sorry girl.

[blah52]

Some guys just don't want to do it.

[haijal]

lmao I laughed though most of that...more toward the end but anyway...some guys just won't go down on women...why idk...i have always thought get a favor give a favor myself but I don't know some men just won't do it...swallow like a good girl should that was really funny...i see nothing wrong with going down myself...at all lol

[haijal]

I want to change that last la it might be takin the wrong way...i see nothing wrong with going down on a woman personatly

[Alistair]

some guys just don't like eating girls out... I have a few friends like that but ya they like getting bj's but don't like going down... now I'm ok with it as long as its clean but do go "getting it somewhere else" cause then that's just CHEATING on your babies daddy and its not really a reason to cheat on him... him he wouldn't have sex with you at all it would be alittle more understandable