Girls, does it bother you when your boyfriend watches porn?

[Anonymous]

guys, do you prefer a girl that is okay with porn or do you prefer one that isn't? or does it depend? What about husband and wife?

[wolverine88]

Alright to tell you the guys perspective I was p*ssed when I started reading this and as I went on I remeber two things... First my ex girlfriend hated when I watched porn she just wanted to watch girly things and love story when we were together but a plus is she did like some of the shows I liked but hated watching porn other then if it was a joke at a party she wanted to make you watch it9that went for everyone). lol but, then I remeber this story a guy friend who is older then myself told me that when his wife puts in that one special porno that gets them really reeling for sex and kinkying up the whole project it turns him on and she knows it turns him on and she gets off to that! But with both negative and postive Porn is just porn depends on how and why you watch it.

[Johner]

I defend your man's right to porn! >:O

Men have been watching/using porn since shortly after discoverying their sexual equipment. We've gotten into the habit of watching porn to help us relax, blow off steam, feel happy, or just to fall asleep at night. Given your age range he very well could have been using it 4-8 years now.

Watching porn doesn't mean he isn't interested in you. Or wishes you were those women depicted therewithin. It is just an outlet for us. Something that is so natural we hardly even consider it perverse or rude to or significant other.

If it really bothers you, then sit down and watch it with him >:3 Teach him that he doesn't need to fly solo and that you're willing to engage more often to suit his needs.

[Wigz85]

You know what, it used to bother me, but whether you know about it or not, he WILL watch it. Guys are visual creatures, it's in their nature. You can accept it or not it won't make a difference to him. If he says he isn't doing it he's lying. My boyfriend has what he calls his "Usual" list. It's like a club of him and his friends and they all trade porn via email. I have learned that it really doesn't reflect on me at all, it's just another thing that turns him on, and at the end of the day it's not about who pumps up his tires, it's who gets to ride the bike.

[katiesmuff]

I guess I could say that I enjoy watching porn as much as my boyfriend does. We don't watch it all the time, but when we do we usually watch it together. Sometimes when I am alone I might sorta watch one as I masturbate and I would guess he does the same thing although I have never asked him. Just a guess.

We love role playing sometimes. Will watch a scene and try to imitate it and that is fun.

[m1988]

It did bother me a little when I was younger and with my first real boyfriend cause I was insecure about my body and it made me jealous. I've grown up past that now though and wouldn't care if he watched it. Plus I've always enjoyed porn myself. It's really no big deal.

[elektrisitee]

I watch porn (not all the time or anything), and I wouldn't care if the guy I was dating did. Hell, I would watch it with him.

[damiendd133]

Yess haha that's my favorite past time...when a girl enjoys it with me haha

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

It bothers me when my guy watches porn more than he has sex with me. Besides that I don't care or mind. He's banging me not those porn stars. That's all that it really comes down to. Is that at the end of the day he is with you and only thinks of you.

[Bruce]

I like it when my girl friend watches pornography

[insertname]

I enjoy watching porn. I would hope that my girlfriend or a wife would be understanding about it without getting upset and jealous. But I am not going to change who I am for someone else, it's better to find someone who accepts me and my actions.

[MrAnon]

My Girlfriend was shocked at first as she'd never really seen any of it before she met me, but she's admitted that a lot of it turns her on so she likes some of it which I think is pretty cool. Some of it is too muh for her tho, I think they go into too much detail these days. I would prefer to be open and honest and be able to watch porn comfortably with my GF. That way we can both enjoy it together.

[mitsy]

Yes it bothers me. I feel like I can't live up to what the girls on there do. I also feel as though he is constantly comparing me to them.

[Anonymous]

Nope if you have a girlfriend you shouldn't watch porn because that's cheating so I don't do that.

[Anonymous]

I watch porn a lot myself, so I could care less if my boyfriend watches it too. With past boyfriends, we used to watch it together, or we had in playing in the background during sex & oral. I'm kind of really relaxed about porn though. I think it would only bother me if he was picking porn over sex with me

[Anonymous]

It doesn't bother me as long as I don't really know about it. Honestly. lol If he wants to watch it in own time, fine, just don't let it affect our relationship.

[Anonymous]

i watch it too, so obviously I can't tell him not to. it doesn't bother me unless he's not willing to have sex with me because he's too busy watching porn or something...or unless he says things like "why can't you be like XXX in that porn and do XXX"...if that happens I'm bailing!