Your Girlfriend Looks Bad Naked, Would You Tell Her?

[Anonymous]

I care to hear from guys more than girls:P no offense But I've always read and heard that guy aren't picky about girls body's etc and that girls obsess over irrelevant things.I know I obsess over minor things on my body but I try not to let it show in front of my boyfriend.Anyways,my boyfriend is the first guy I've ever gotten sexual with or even let see me nude,cause I'm kinda shy I guess,and I was a virgin before I was with him,so makes sense.Anyways,i take care of my self,although my breasts definitely aren't perfect or near the males view of attractive and I have stretch marks on my hips.I have good hygiene,I workout for 1 hr 30 minutes(I just added that) every single day,I watch what I eat,i only drink water,I am very picky about my skin care routine(Cleansing,Exfoliating,moisturizing etc for over all body) and I do my nails weekly9I cut them short and polish).And when my boyfriend and I decided to have sex for me first time and our first time as a couple,i thought it would be all good and that I'd at least be tolerable to look at,but I wasn't in the end.About a week ago,my boyfriend & I had sex and my boyfriend made some comments about my body and weight and I've taken them into consideration and I'm trying to change them for him,although there's two things I can't change without cosmetic surgery,and he basically said he didn't find me attractive naked.I weight 130 lbs and I'm 5/3 1/2 and a B cup so I'm working on the weight(Please don't be mean!)So I'm wondering,for guys,If you didn't find your girlfriend attractive naked,would you tell her?

[Summer-Sun]

Your boyfriend sounds like a tool... sorry, but if my boyfriend maybe any negative comment about my body id be so angry... he isn't perfect after all... and he can't expect you to be either! There is no perfect body shape, or bust size or weight... every1 is different.

You shouldnt have to change the way you are to make ur boyfriend happy.

If I were you, id tell him that he hurt my feelings a lot and that he should be happy with me, however I look.

I am really bothered about my body, like I always find faults, I'm tall (5'10) with big boobs, but I'm curvy too... I have a belly like! I have stretch marks too, on my boobs and my stomach/hips... but my boyfriend always tells me I'm gorgeous and he loves my body... if it were any different, id get rid of him.. what right does he have to tell me to loose weight etc? he doesn't have the right.

You sound like a good weight and heigh, so please don't feel down about what your boyfriend said... please talk to him about how he hurt you, or get rid of him! He is no good if he makes you feel bad. x

[Marfan]

Good call, Summer. Good call. I wish more girls had your attitude.

[ballykissang]

I agree with summer-sun! Your boyfriend sounds awful. you don't need someone conatantly looking and judging you when you are supposed to feel comfortable with him!

[ArizonaRX]

Women are obsessed with the way they look. They look through magazines and the media makes them believe they must be 6' tall and 100lbs. Let me tell you that most guys prefer a natural woman, an average woman. I've been with some "extremely attractive women" and I've been with some "average" women. In my experience I've found overall it's the average women that I've had the best overall relationships with.

There is far more to what I look for in women other than their looks. So If my girlfriend didn't have a great body, I probably wouldn't tell her I thought she looked bad naked.

[Marfan]

1) Sounds like a loser. You can do better.

2) From your description, you don't sound that bad.

3) Changing for him WILL NOT WORK - he'll always find something to criticize.

4) The changes you are making are good changes - but do it for YOURSELF, not for him.

5) No, I would not tell her, but I find it hard to believe that I wouldn't find a naked woman attractive.

[Anonymous]

If pizza is bad and you are hungry you will still eat it, even if pizza is bad its still good... he was a jerk for saying those things...

[Anonymous]

First I doubt she would look bad nakes.

I wouldn't tell her if she did because it'll hurt her feelings and I'll come off as an ass.