all you need is here:
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck
well now there are many things that can turn guys on...
like you can try talking naughty to him on phone...telling him when you are alone how you miss his penis and how you would love to feel him inside you...thats definately a turn on...
secondly when you are alone you can surprise him by taking a bit of intiative pushing him on his back comming on top of him and then kissing him while holding down his hands...believe me domination is as much a turn on for guys as for girls...
you can put ur hand on his crotch and storke that area a bit...stroking the area with his pants on...he will find it really hard to sustain the anticipation...
there are many such small small things which rule guys worlds of sexuality...also keep in mind that guys are visual sexual beings...so a little bit of naughty stripping with the right naughtiness can make him cross all boundary...
just keep everything in limits...you don't want him to think of you as a hooker right...guys love their girls to be hot and sexy but within a limit...
On the phone what works best for me is if I talk in a soft voice and moan a little and either make it sound like I'm playing with myself or actually play with myself. He loves to hear the BIG O moment!
I know you're trying to work up to that.. so I would wear something low cut guys like the boobies! and sit on his lap (straddle him) with your girls in his face and slowly start playing with his ear using your tongue. He will love it and he will know what you are trying to do. Trust me you will feel him get a little hard which will turn you and then grab his hands place them on your girls and let him start playing with you. Eventually work your hands to his pants unbutton and just start playing with his member. He will be too excited to know if you are doing good or bad just don't give him an indian burn..just play you don't have to jerk anything especially since there is no lube that would hurt him..oh and play with his balls for some reason most guys love that!
If you really want to do a good job on a bj..well play with the tip using your tongue of course..while doing that either grab the shaft and start rubbing with a mixture of gentle/soft tugs and hard/strong tugs or grab his balls again and just roll them around in your hands and then maybe suck on them a little. But don't forget you have to suck the shaft as well you can't just play with the tip..but you should mix it up..to practice in all seriousness get a popsicle or banana or you know something with that shape and just start working your mouth and tongue on it. You will get the hang of it I promiose. I used to suck at bj's no pun intended lol and now my fiance is like again please! lol
I'm telling you all of this assuming your completely ready for the big moment! Good luck just relax don't try and be perfect at everything because the more you try to not mess everything up the more you will. Like the guy said in the first response enjoy and be able to laugh it off if you mess everything up. Oh and don't forget to ask your guy along the way if there is anything he wants you to do more or less of.
Best way I know to seduce a guy over the phone is very sexy talk of what you want to do to him and him do to you. As far as when you are with him after a bit of making out and cuddling opening his pants and a good **** sucking will work great.
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Try new stuff, hot, dirty, weird, interesting stuff. You might screw it up the first time. I take that back: you will, ALMOST ALWAYS, screw it up the first time. Who cares? Getting it right the first time isn't the point. The point is seeing whether it's *worth* getting right.
I can tell you something to do. I can tell you thousands of things to do, but none as helpful as this: Make it up, screw it up, laugh it off, try again.
And if it burns, see a doc.
Good luck!
guys like me can get turned on by just about anything lol but ya wear something that is sexy as sh*t (we love those skirts) and maybe even shake your ass for him or something (like a little lap dance) and don't worry he will have an idea of what's going on so that's when you get close to him and start kissing him and have him start touching places haha
suck his **** and balls
master and slavee:) hahaha
wear a really low cut shirt, like lower than normal, and make sure you get really close to him with your breasts, guys are all about breasts
Umm... Even if we like breasts, we're not "all about breasts".
Don't forget asses and legs too....
Im not gonna lie I am a guy all about the boobs jk but I do like boobs alot
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