The question was for the girls, but I'd like to toss this in. I try to go by clues that a woman gives regrading what pace she likes. The best bet the first time I think is somewhere between. Gentle but firm.let her know you really want her.
What I've learned about girls who like it better rough, is that they don't want to be consulted a great deal. They prefer you take control - or they want you to act like you are. They may resist a bit, but won't say no. They may take over themselves at times. But hard or slow can both be passionate. Rough isn't necessarily without emotion, although it could be.
Beyond that are games that have to wait until boundaries have been established and you know which articles of clothing are expendable. ;-).
I know I'm a dude, but I gotta say sumthin on this. I love it ruff. just the sound of flesh gettin smacked, the moaning, the scrathin, biting, etc. makes it more enjoyable
I go both ways we usually have like slow sex because the slightest thing will usually hurt me and then I'll make him stop cause he did hurt me. So now he's really gentle with me, but now I wanna have more rough sex I just have to figure out a way to ignitiate cause I'm not a very forward person.
Depends on my mood at the time but I've noticed the slow stuff just has me looking up at the ceiling giggling imagining the hardcore stuff - so I guess I'm mostly a hardcore type of girl. But yea . . . depends on how you feel. The type of guy and how you feel about him can influence that too.
Why can't people have the best of both worlds? I mean.I like it both ways. It doesn't have to be slow and passionate with little noise. I mean.if it feels good.there is going to be moaning right?!?!?!
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I like it both ways, it just depends on the mood I'm in
As long as you explore all angles of the sexuality . its all right.
but I prefer the hardcore one. ahahhaha with some smacks on my ass and bla bla bla. the much emotion it has more I like it.
Depends what mood I'm in, if I'm ruthlessly horny, I want hard,fast and rough sex. If I'm feeling more loved up and romantic, then slow passionate sex.
I love that word you used (ruthlessly horny - I've been looking for something to describe my "need" these days. )
I completely agree!! I love both ways!!! It just depends on the mood! I also love when it starts out slow and passionate and then he starts going faster and getting rougher ;)!
Yeh totally!
i like them both. sometimes I want it really rough and sometimes I want it nice and slow. most of the time I want it rough though
The first time you have sex with a girl it HAS to be hardcore. After that you can vary which way you want to do it. That's just me, thought.
i like any type as long as its with my bf i dont care how we do it
hardcore rough and fast lots of moaning sex
i'd have to go with the rough one probably.
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