Does everyone use lube?

I have seen a lot of ppl. on this site saying to use lube when giving advice. Are you suppose to use lube? I have given handjobs and I never used lube and the guy never complained. So do you guys use lube and are you suppose to?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • The advice you are probably seeing is dependent on the situation. If a girl is a virgin or the question is about anal sex, you are going to hear advice about lube because the lube makes everything glide easier and you are less likely to be hurt if his penis is gliding in and out easily.

    Unless the guy likes it rough, lube is just so awesome for something like a handjob. Again, it helps with the gliding and it makes the process smoother. When it smoother, you can get a good rhythm going, which means you are going to be better at getting him to orgasm. Plus, I think everything just feels better when it's slippery. But that may be just me.

    You also definitely should use lube when you use a condom cause the latex the condom is made out of makes the sliding in and out more difficult.

    Just in general, the more consistent stroking is during sex, the quicker you can get to orgasm and that's why lube helps so much.

  • I've only ever used lube with guys for fun and games, never because I had or needed to use it.

  • not everyone uses lube. some people use it, some people don't use it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends on what you are doing with your hand job. You can certainly get it done without any lubrication, but it can certainly make for a great experience with it. link

    For sex with a condom, we rarely need more that the little bit that is pre-applied. Lube for sex without a condom will vary. Most people might need a little lube now and then, or most of the time. Just depends on the fit, how much natural lube is there, etc.

  • I tend to not lube people up for advice. It's quite unnecessary, and more often than not, they don't like it. However for a hand job, some like lube, and others prefer the added friction with no lube. If your hands aren't like sandpaper, it isn't completely necessary.

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  • As people said, it is not a necessity, but a luxury.

    You don't need a lubricator to have an orgasm, but it surely helps!

  • spit is the best. lots of it. its actually sexy because its from the girl's mouth. duh...

  • It depends on the guy when it comes to handjobs. For penetrative sex lube is also dependent on how lubricated the female naturally gets.

  • Lube isn't necessarily always a requirement, but it helps to decrease friction, so it will feel more pleasurable, with less of the burning sensation that you may get without some form of lubrication.

  • If it's better for you with lube than without, use it. It keeps one from getting rubbed raw, so I tend to have it around.

  • It has to be sex lube to add to the sensitivity of the hand job because it last and last.

  • Use coconut oil. The best for hand jobs. I jack off twice as much now that I use it. It feels so incredible and I have the best orgasms from it.

  • Its good for sex, girls enjoy it more, less likely to cause a tear or injury. More juice...

    • What about for the guy-like a handjob? Is it good to use for that too?

  • Never used it and don't think I'd want to either to be honest.

    • Why?

    • Well I have never found the need for it to be used during a handjob. In fact a bit of friction (as long as the technique is good) kinda adds to things.