Are all your basic needs being met, in particular sex?
Sex is a basic human need. Many of you may know about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. According to this theory, humans have several levels of needs, including physiological, safety, social, esteem, and actualization needs. The needs at the bottom (breathing, food, sex, etc.) are basic needs that must be met for a person to be happy. Once the lower needs are met, you can focus on the higher needs to become fully self-actualized. If you're not getting laid, you're not meeting your MOST BASIC NEEDS.
Many of you may know about Pareto's rule. This rule states that in many, many areas of life, 20% of inputs are responsible for 80% of the outputs. Applying this to sex, 20% or less of adult males are probably sleeping with 80% or more of adult females.
You'll hear A LOT of guys say things like "I don't care about sex. I'm just trying to be successful." This is bull****. This is an excuse for not trying due to fear of rejection.
Not getting laid for long periods of time makes it harder to get laid at all. Fall into this type of cycle and you could end up very unhappy for a very long time. There's no magic fix and I don't have the answer. I suppose the only real point of this post is to point out what should be an obvious fact: Not getting laid will make you depressed. If you are depressed, don't worry... you're not abnormal and there might be nothing wrong with you.
Guys who go through huge droughts and then start getting laid. They almost instantly become cool, normal guys. As someone who has been on both sides of this, I can attest to this idea.
Don't fool yourself into thinking that you're depressed because you're smarter than everyone else or because society is disgusting or anything pretentious like that. Don't give up on getting laid. Just try. If you get rejected, you'll find out it's not as bad as you thought. If you succeed, maybe you won't be depressed anymore.
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