I masturbate A LOT!

[Anonymous]

is it unhealthy? I really love touching myself when I'm alone, I get myself off at least 8 times a day. twice in the morning 3x at night...the rest when I'm home alone. I don't have a boyfriend, I have had offers from close guy friends to be my f***k buddy, but I do me so well! So I don't let them inside...but sometime I just let my guy friends watch! That gets me excited...and I figured since I am so open to talking about my sexual fantasies with them that I might as well let them see, so I don't tease too much. Would you say all this masturbating is bad for my health? Because I feel I have more energy to go for a few more play dates with myself. lol Should I take a break from this? Am I hurting my guy friends by not having them watch?

[Simple-Simonette]

I've said this before and I will say it again. The only problem with constant masturbation for women is if you get off the same way every time (vibrator, shower head, etc) you can accidentally "program" your body to only orgasm that way. Throw in a little variety and you should be fine.

As for the frequency - how is it unhealthy? You're not going to wear a hole in your ya ya with constant friction ...

And the guys? Girl, if that's something you're okay with and the guys are okay with - my opinion shouldn't matter.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Oh thanks so much! I didn't know about changing it up...I will do that for sure.

[Curious_gal]

If I stop masturbating and only have sex will that help me "program" my body to orgasm during sex and not just to masturbation?

[sa230e]

It's quite healthy (and awesome). Being in touch with her body and being open and honest about sexual stuff is a quality I personally admire in women. To be honest I've always thought a girl who couldn't keep her hands off herself would make for an awesome gf. It's your body and you can do as you please and if you let them watch they're lucky guys!

[l-hedoniste]

"Should I take a break from this?"

You sound happy. Why mess with success?

"Am I hurting my guy friends by not having them watch?"

Not hurting them, but if they enjoy it and you enjoy it, why stop?

[myths]

It is not only normal/ natural- it's actually quite healthy compared to the alternatives! It's nothing to be concerned about.

[whipzzz]

No, it's not unhealthy. In my view, not enough people are in tune with their own bodies. My partner and I often watch each other and others masturbate, depending on who we're with.

Keep it up!

[computergeek762]

well have you ever had real sex?

[Asker]

Yes, constantly when I had a bf...but it's not the case now since we have been separated for a year or so.

[computergeek762]

Well I think if you have had sex and know what its like than its probably better that you play with your self than having sex with multiple people. as long as you enjoy it there is nothing wrong. as far as letting friends watch... if they like it and you get excited by it than I say go for it

[tigerguy]

its not unhealthy at all, add me lets chat

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[hidden1]

theres nothing wrong with what your doing , id be happy to spice things up for you and have an online "play date" with you if you would like

[Anonymous]

Wow, tell me how you do it!

[Asker]

Don't have sex for awhile have a lot of guy friends and you will probably feel the same :P

[Anonymous]

Who cares, if it feels so good you wouldn't want to stop even if you wanted to...