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Casual sex abroad tips for women: Best places to meet hot attractive men while traveling?

I'm an attractive female in my 20s, interested in having sex with attractive men while traveling...where I live attractive men are in short supply. I've gotten out of a relationship and now I just want to enjoy myself and I want regular sex to be part of that. How can I do this safely and effectively? Condoms are a must, I know that and I don't drink heavily. I just want to meet good looking men with hot athletic bodies (I'm slim with large breasts myself, I get attention but from men already but I want to meet attractive/hot men, not random guys) Where can I go to where there are hot single men in their 20s and 30s while traveling - for some temporary casual fun? And what's the best approach?
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I found this 'Guy' question, I'm hoping to get responses that are this detailed: link
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In terms of the UK, I've heard that there are hot guys in Dublin and Edinburgh and in terms of the USA, hot guys in New York City and California (although not sure how many straight guys are in San Francisco...).
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Thanks for the useful tips guys, would be great if some girls responded too.!
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  • I wonder how you could possibly fail pull this off.

    I suspect you're looking for something more detailed than: doll up, head to the nearest cafe/bar/club/beach, and smile a lot. Really, though, that's all you need.

    Guys tend to be easy, *especially* guys looking for casual sex; NSA sex is a brass ring for us, not seen often. We have to take it when it comes.

    You like athletic. To me, this spells beaches and gyms. (Have you noticed that there are no famous Spring Break cities inland?) Also activity clubs and competitions--martial arts, track and wrestling meets, and the like.--but that crowd tends to be more focused, serious, and slower to bed. Your call, there.

    You're a smart girl, you know the safety basics: Don't let a new boy get you alone too quickly. Make sure a friend has an eye on you, especially when drunk, etc. etc. Most girls get into trouble by forgetting, ignoring, or refusing what they already know. Use good judgment, you'll be fine.

    • I'm not so interested in gyms but beaches and sporting competitions are a great suggestion...am bikini shopping already. I'll be travelling alone, that's why I considered staying at a Bed&Breakfast or hotel but that's so expensive and hostels are so much cheaper and can be great. I don't drink heavily or get drunk ever, and I don't have to drink at all considering I'll be travelling alone. Seems like men who live near beaches have a healthier lifestyle/great bodies. Thanks for the tips!

  • Stay in backpackers, other people in your age demographic all looking for some casual fun no stings attached, 90% of backpackers travel for the casual sex...You get a lot of people coming and going, usually they stay for a short period and move on. Get your std vaccines etc before you go, play safe, its high risk especially some parts of the world.

    • Thanks! I was planning on staying in hostels to maximise my options and chances, that way I get to check out the guys in the hostels as well as any local guys/fellow travellers I meet during the day/night. You're right, I'll have to get the HPV injection, I'll be using condoms but it's best to be as safe as possible.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm a girl from the UK and did a lot of travelling in my late 20's and enjoyed some great casual sex. I spent 6 months travelling in South America and had sex with of the hottest guys ever. (Waaay much better than anyone I've ever met here in the UK, don't think our men are really the worlds cutest, lol). In Spain, Italy, Portugal etc I assume things would be similar.

    So my tips would be: go blond or at least get blond highlights (drives the latin men crazy and you'll get way more attention than brunettes), learn a bit of the local language so some ice-breaking communication is possible and when in the hostel, be smiley, chatty and wear as little as possible. Yep, it really is that simple. Enjoy!

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  • u looking for places?

    from where you are from?

    will help you as soon as you reply?

    • Hey, thanks for your comment! I live in the UK. At the moment I'm looking for places in the UK, Mainland Europe. However I'm travel further when I have more money so feel free to suggest any places around the world. Thanks!

    • Oh so that's why there's no attractive men.

  • If you live in the Uk find the clubs and pubs were backpackers hang out or check in to a local hostel to pick up if you want. Can find online guides to nighclubs and backpackers in eroupe. Its a lot of fun you meet some great people and you don't have to get up the next morning and go to work so you can sleep in and party as long as you like...

  • here.

    • Seriously, I'm not interested in online 'hook-ups'. I want lists and suggestions of places to go internationally.

    • Lol wtf you can start by developing a sense of humor.

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