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My boyfriend is a nudist!? What shud I do!?

OK, so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. Were both in high school and in our sophomore year. I just recently found out he's a nudist(basically, he feels more comfortable being naked)! We first met at a soccer meet after my girl friend introduced him to me. A couple weeks later we hooked up. Anyway, about 5 months into our relationship I've totally fallen for him and he for me. We share all of our secrets and stories with each other and love to be together all the time. One day I caught him naked at home since I have a key to his house. Awkward rite? After I asked him a lot of tough questions he finally told me the truth. Very embarrassed as he was, he told me he's an "at home nudist"(wow total hotness lol!) and wen I told him it was fine we began talking about it and he told me that he'd been thinking about going to a nudist beach but was nervous and asked kindly if I'd ever go to a nudist beach with him. I told him only if I was with him. OMG! Were going to go this weekend. I don't know what to do! I really love him and want to be with him but I'm sooo nervous. I've never done anything like this b4! Is this a healthy relationship!? I told my parents and my friends, who all love him btw, that were just going to the beach together. Should I be lying to them? And I'm so afraid of sneaky pervs taking pics and call me paranoid, but ending up on the internet or sum. Am I over complicating things!? Advice please! What would YOU do if you were me!?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • What most people don't realize is that nudist don't associate their nudity with sex. It's more of an expression of how comfortable the individual is in their skin. Just because people like to get naked doesn't mean they are perverts.

    A lot of nudist colonies in the US have very strict rules that have to be adhered to while participating. Overt sexual behavior is not allowed at all. Leering, waving an erection around, touching, etc will lead generally get you thrown out and potentially arrested. Photography is not allowed at all. Nude beaches are strict with their rules to avoid being shut down - because uber conservative people look for any reason to keep clothing on the citizens.

    I don't have a problem being naked - it's just my skin. I don't expect my nakedness to be interpreted as an invitation, so others shouldn't see it that way either. As prevalent as sex is in our society, I guess people have a hard time differentiating between nudity and sexual expression. Believe it or not, one does not always equate the other.

    Don't worry, a lot of families take their kids out to nudist beaches because they don't believe in being ashamed of their nakedness and want to pass that along to their children. Most veteran nudist are not perverted and I guarantee you will be paying more attention to your naked body than they are.

    Don't do it if you're really uncomfortable, it isn't for everybody. Just remember though, that being naked is very natural and nothing to look down on or be ashamed of.

    Good luck.

    • They aren't called nudist colonies! They are nudist resorts.

  • Go and enjoy yourself. My first experience going nude in public was with my boyfriend at a nude beach at the age of 16. I had an amazing time and love being naked as often as possible. It will make your relationship closer for sure. Great way to make like minded friends as well. Have fun and tell us about yur experiences after you give it a try!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I say go ahead. I have plenty of nudist friends and they are completely cool. I've even tried it out. Trust me, a nudist beach is a great family environment with lots of parents and children nudists, hardly child porn, and as much as the Internet would have you believe there are pervs in every corner, it isn't tru. Trust me, parents would be the first to report a creepy guy who's a bit too watchful of others. Hint of advice though, take plenty of sunblock as protection. Don't listen to the anonymous twit who needs to hide the fact of who he is wen sarcastically answering you. Trust me, it'll be awkward at first, as it is for every1 but in the end you'll get used to it. You gotta be a pretty cool chick to stick with ur man. Good luck!

    • Thanks. if anything u've made me that much less nervous about this. I hope it works out. me and my boyfriend will take plenty of sunblock thanks for ur advice. It really gives me a better understanding. thanks for all ur help! :)

    • Did you go? If so, what beach? I have been a nudist all my life and go to nude beaches and resorts every weekend. I hate wearing a cold wet swimsuit at clothed beaches! Also, if you go frequently to a nude beach you won't need sunblock as all of your body will be tanned. And make sure and shave, wax or laser all your pubic hair off as most nudists are smooth.

  • well, im an at home nudist too. if u really fele uncomfortable about it, maybe u can try to be naked at home first so u can get use to the feel. else, u can just not go to the beach. there is a possibility that people will take photo, but there are many other people at the beach haha

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  • Just relax. Nude beaches are usually completely calm...No need to tell your parents. Probably less pervs than on the rest of the beach.

  • i don't think the nudity think is that big of a deal to be totally honest , now I wouldn't be comfortable doing such a thing myself or would I ever go to a nudist beach . but honestly your just showing off your body and at this time of year I doubt it even be that busy and the people there have seen everything by now anyways so they won't even care I suspect as there used to it by now . honestly I wouldn't worry about the whole thing and just enjoy the beach .

  • Your profile says you are 29 years old. You say you are a sophomore in high school. Something isn't right.

  • rotflmao

    • ...ok anyways...you look cute enough with your clothers on...keep em on

  • It's your call to make, but, if I were you, I wouldn't do it. At home is one thing, but at a beach where people you don't know can see you is something else-

  • both of you 17? if you go out in public nude that's child pornography, christ.

  • It's not a big deal. When you take your clothes off at the nudist beach, you'll feel great.

  • I realize this happened already, but I don't think you lied to you parents, you said you were going to the beach, why be more specific? How did it end up going?

  • Almost same situation I was in when my girlfriend found out about my preference for home-nudity. Now she is comfortable. I discussed with her relaxing benefits, and finally she agreed to be nudist. We have not gone outside like optional or nude beach, but we believe we will take this step one day. If someone takes our pic, let it be.

    Have courage to face the world without clothes.

  • I'd shave if I were you, just sayin lol

  • There's no harm in trying nudism with him. I've been to nude beaches. I had a great time. Go for it and don't worry about people seeing you nude.

  • Enjoy ithellgetnakedtoo

    • Get naked and fuk a lot

  • I hope you gave it a try but only if you wanted to. my first time at a nude beach was with hubby and I certainly wouldn't have tried it on my own but I'm glad he gave me the confidence to give it a shot :)

  • Grab his floppy dick

  • Meh relatonships are fun you can learn and do new things that you wouldn't normally do, if you feel uncofortable then don't do it, otherwise have fun,

  • young and stupid, never ceases to amaze me.

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