19 year old attractive virgin girl - what are your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I am 19 about to be 20 in a couple of months and I am currently a virgin.

Guys (and girls) do say that I am considered attractive, beautiful, hot, "a model" and so on (people say I look similar to Angelina Jolie). I am not up myself in any way, I have my insecurities just like anyone else. I would say I am shy, mature for my age, down to earth and caring. I may come across mysterious to people as well due to my shyness (which I do worry may come across as "stuck up" :/ ). I also have never had a boyfriend.

I dont know how else to put it but I do not "look" like a virgin. If i am going to parties, I have fun dressing up in short dresses, heels and so on. I do get hit on by guys at the club when I go to nightclubs.

I have done everything else physical with a guy, except sex. I have had various opportunities for sex when I go to nightclubs but I am choosing to wait until I am in a relationship. At times, I become insecure that I am this age and still a virgin, unlike my other friends. Whenever I talk to guys, they definitely assume I have had sex just by looking at me.

My question is;

- What would guys think if they knew I was a virgin with the listed above traits etc?

I am worried people may think of it as a sign of insecurity, frigidness or that something is wrong with me?

At times I think, maybe I should just have sex with a random to get rid of having the title of being a virgin, but I do not follow through as I am not the type of girl to sleep around for sake of saying I have slept with however many guys...

I do want a boyfriend however I seem to attract the "players" and a lot of guys I meet just seem to want to have fun, which I am not into. I think I do need to go for older guys (due to the maturity factor) and I am worried if being a virgin is a turn off? (Due to things such as; needing to teach the girl, getting attached etc).

Any opinions or advice would be amazing!!

Thank you :) xxx

[MementoMori_]

I don't think you have anything to worry about. Younger guys, older guys, most guys really like the idea of a girl being a virgin when they are getting into a relationship with them. If the only thing a guy is interested in with you is sex, that's not a relationship, it's just a waste of time.

To answer your specific question: I don't think any guy you would be interested in anyway is going to hold it against you that you dress sexy or you "don't act like a virgin." None of that matters. It's who you are inside that counts.

Don't be in a hurry. Your virginity is something you can't get back once it's lost. Don't let other people determine when you are ready to share it with someone special. That's your decision to make.

You sound amazing just the way you are. Don't let this bother you. You are on the right track.

[MementoMori_]

Heck, I'd like to meet you myself! :)

[Mist3r612]

Angelina jolie eh? Prove it haha lol jk jk.

Hrmm.. do you fantasize of losing your virginity/sex?
Cuz i think that would answer part of your questions.

Are you attracted to guys who have same traits as you?

Maybe since you're the shy type etc., You should try to find a boyfriend who is shy and acts like you instead of going for guys who are not shy?

If i or any guy were to be your boyfriend, what would you want besides lose your virginity from me as your bf?

What i wonder is why hasn't any guy tried to take advantage of your shyness and beauty and virginity? I would need to know u more to be more of help lol 😅 so tell me more about u.

[Felinegirl]

There's no reason to feel ashamed of your virginity, enough guys are into that.
Don't just go for a random guy because you feel pressure to do it, you'll feel sorry afterwards and you can never undo it.
I found that becoming friends with a guy before doing anything physical increases the chance of them only looking for fun, since that way you'll weed out the unserious ones. You'll find someone, don't worry :)

[Soteris]

Being a virgin is by no means a turnoff for most people. Guys are petty creatures and dont like to share you with someone else so if they are the first then its most likely something they would feel pretty damn good about.

Basically just put these worries behind you and live your life as you want to. There is no reason to stress yourself over something that will inevitably happen since love finds us all in due time.

Have a good day :)

[G-Daz]

I like it

[Chico_brah]

I'd want to fck her and take away her innocence baha. I don't think guys will look at it as insecurity since you are model tier hot. If anything this will raise your sexual value to quality men.

[Dargil]

My first thought? Wild flowers in full blossom on a warm spring day.

[Dingsbums]

It's not a big deal. Just try to find a guy u can imagine to have a future with or at least a longer relationship. Then give it a bit time and try to establish a deeper connection. Just do it when it feels right

[Bobbyhill1]

thats strange, how I am described in the same exact way except I am a guy. they say i should model etc I have insecurities im a virgin AND im shy too. I hate parties though

[john52461]

Don't make such a big deal about having sex for the first time. Just do it and move on with your life so it isn't an issue for you everytime a guy is interested. If you're scared it's going to hurt you can practice with a dildo, banana, etc

[SmokemJay]

Nothing wrong with wearing short skirts and partying but a party isn't a place to find a decent man (most of the times anyway). Oh and by the way Im still a virgin at 23 and might wait till I'm married a lot of women and men aren't shit... just focusing on myself right now.

[zagor]

Why are you concerned about it? Despite what popular media would have you believe, a lot of 20 year olds are virgins.

And yes, being attractive can make it harder to find a good guy, as a lot of guys will say whatever it takes to get into your pants.

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'd be fine with it.

I thought the same thing at your age. Even to the point of getting a hooker to just "get it out of the way." I'm glad I didn't.

I'm not saying that staying a virgin until you met a guy and are comfortable enough to have sex with him. You'll thank yourself in the long run.

I know I do.

[Tomsta]

Never loose your virginity just for the hell of it, you'll regret it, if you are who you say you are i'd very much like to get to know you (assuming of course i randomly met you while out and about)

[masterkamasutra]

too much thinking, no sense of saving your pussy, go use it.

[vikatcm]

In your case, you have awesome qualities and you already showed your commitment. If I meet you in person and you were my girlfriend, I’d definitely marry you.

[Anonymous]

What's the problem with being a virgin? There's no rule saying you HAVE to go around telling everyone you are. So fucking a random just to say you aren't a virgin anymore really isn't necessary.

[Anonymous]

I'd prefer to be with virgin girl coz I'm Virgin myself! Don't be ashamed from that

[Anonymous]

no, dont have a one night stand, trust me, you will regret it

[Anonymous]

I think your amazing. Also I like virgin girls, I'm a virgin guy by the way. Being a stunning girl and a virgin is a huge plus for me. Your waiting for a relationship until you have sex... that's a responsible thing to do! I hate beautiful girls that are so slutty and just go to clubs and hook up, that's disgusting.